Topic: Signs He/ or She isn't who they say they are!
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Mon 03/17/14 08:27 AM

The use of clever disguises always makes me suspicious.




Isn't that Shia Labeouf?

NorCalSwe's photo
Mon 03/17/14 08:28 AM
Sorry, the auto-correct on my pad is working overtime. No really, it's not bad grammar. Hello? Hello? Damn!!! :-)

Candiapples's photo
Mon 03/17/14 08:28 AM

.. what part of recently separated. did you not read.. I just neeJd to guard my children.. their mother is still there mother.. I wish not to change that image in their heads right now... and I try not to delete.. I might alter but I rarely delete... people can think what they want..

I understand you guarding your children but it all just doesn't look good to a woman who doesn't know you from Adam. Maybe you don't care what she thinks and neither will she care what you think when she moves on quickly after your sneeking around. Just being honest here. You profess on here that you are ready to date but your actions say you are not.

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Mon 03/17/14 08:38 AM
yea, well, people are going to think whatever they want... bottom line is that if i don't feel like chatting, texting, emailing or talking on the phone, i won't... and there is nothing i can do about what she thinks about it...

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Mon 03/17/14 08:47 AM
Exactly..I would take it as a lack of interest and move on Moe...no skin off my nose ..laugh

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Mon 03/17/14 08:48 AM

Exactly..I would take it as a lack of interest and move on Moe...no skin off my nose ..laugh


exactly! :wink: flowerforyou waving

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Mon 03/17/14 08:49 AM
IMO- If you've been chatting with someone for a while...and they seem normal and u like them, so far...and they'd like to hear your voice...get a calling card and give them a 5 minute call. When it's convenient for both of course.

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Mon 03/17/14 08:50 AM
.. okay people let's get a grip.. I'm not liking all the attention.. don't get me wrong you're all great.. but the reality is this.. chances are the guy you're talking with.. is giving you a cell phone number.. not his home number.. and the truth is you either believe them or you don't.. if you don't move on.. if you do then that's the chance you take... if the lady friend I am corresponding with.. cannot respect my need for privacy.. then I don't need her in my life.. I'm very upfront with people... of course she calls me and I call her.. I just like a heads up.. so I can give her the time and attention she desires and needs.. and deserves... it is not a steadfast rule... I have it in place just for the first couple . of weeks.. just to weed out the crazies.. oh yes it goes both ways this street... last thing I need is some stalker.. harassing my children... so please stop . quoting me... my mailbox is starting to light up like a Christmas tree..lmao...teebee.. I am going to get you back for this.. I don't know how or when... but someday I'm going to get you.. I can't thank you enough... laughing so hard I'm crying right now...

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Mon 03/17/14 08:59 AM
:P

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Mon 03/17/14 09:05 AM
It's not hard to imagine why some of the posters to this thread have been on a dating site for 8 years...come out of your shell! Talk to people! I don't understand the "THREAT" you're feeling unless it's borne out of low self-esteem or a lack of self-confidence.
Avoiding people who's intent is scamming others out of their money is more difficult if you're wary of strangers in general. I always bestow my trust until it has been abused or dishonoured.

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Mon 03/17/14 09:11 AM

.. well in that case here's my number.#######. I will definitely be the one picking up the phone.. unless you get my voicemail.. and in that case that's my secretary... she sounds hotter than she really is.. but don't tell her that..lol


LMAO rofl Touche!

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Mon 03/17/14 09:17 AM

yea, well, people are going to think whatever they want... bottom line is that if i don't feel like chatting, texting, emailing or talking on the phone, i won't... and there is nothing i can do about what she thinks about it...


SO NOT TRUE!!! There is PUL-LENTY YOU can do!
If you and a female hit it off... it's fine to text or email for a a little while.
But, if you two hit it off, and you make up a reason why she can't hear your voice!
You are intentionally being vague... You can do something about what she thinks!
Just throwing your hands up and saying.. " Oh well, I don't want to talk so it's her loss"
That's a cop out, babe

and you know it.huh

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Mon 03/17/14 09:22 AM

lmao...teebee.. I am going to get you back for this.. I don't know how or when... but someday I'm going to get you.. I can't thank you enough... laughing so hard I'm crying right now...


you like all this attention, hahahawinking All eyes, and keyboards on YOU :thumbsup:


Ok,, people... move on, Nothing to see hereshades

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Mon 03/17/14 09:28 AM


yea, well, people are going to think whatever they want... bottom line is that if i don't feel like chatting, texting, emailing or talking on the phone, i won't... and there is nothing i can do about what she thinks about it...


SO NOT TRUE!!! There is PUL-LENTY YOU can do!
If you and a female hit it off... it's fine to text or email for a a little while.
But, if you two hit it off, and you make up a reason why she can't hear your voice!
You are intentionally being vague... You can do something about what she thinks!
Just throwing your hands up and saying.. " Oh well, I don't want to talk so it's her loss"
That's a cop out, babe

and you know it.huh


cop out? huh no, i think not... some people i want to talk to, others not so much... but if it's "meant to be", it will work itself out...flowerforyou ohwell flowers

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Mon 03/17/14 09:34 AM



yea, well, people are going to think whatever they want... bottom line is that if i don't feel like chatting, texting, emailing or talking on the phone, i won't... and there is nothing i can do about what she thinks about it...


SO NOT TRUE!!! There is PUL-LENTY YOU can do!
If you and a female hit it off... it's fine to text or email for a a little while.
But, if you two hit it off, and you make up a reason why she can't hear your voice!
You are intentionally being vague... You can do something about what she thinks!
Just throwing your hands up and saying.. " Oh well, I don't want to talk so it's her loss"
That's a cop out, babe

and you know it.huh


cop out? huh no, i think not... some people i want to talk to, others not so much... but if it's "meant to be", it will work itself out...flowerforyou ohwell flowers


I just saw your other message...
SO, if she is worth it to you.. you will talk on the phone.

Yup... this is the SIGN, I was talking about. Women who are " feeling " a guy but he doesn't wish to talk.

He's just not that into you!
Thanks Mighty bigsmile

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Mon 03/17/14 09:51 AM
I have been online long enough to figure out whos.rreal and who isn't and whos just mesding around. Had a couple guys recently give me their numbers...yup!same scenerio..cant talk cuz of this reason or that..texts flow then stop abruptly. Hmmm! Without any reasonable explaination as to why, i considered it a bit weird..off..sketchy and told them to lose my number...apparently they are single...hmmm! Again

teebee79's photo
Mon 03/17/14 09:57 AM

I have been online long enough to figure out whos.rreal and who isn't and whos just mesding around. Had a couple guys recently give me their numbers...yup!same scenerio..cant talk cuz of this reason or that..texts flow then stop abruptly. Hmmm! Without any reasonable explaination as to why, i considered it a bit weird..off..sketchy and told them to lose my number...apparently they are single...hmmm! Again


That's the GREAT thing about sneaky, married guys pretending to be single... It takes Little to NO Effort to spot them!


Candiapples's photo
Mon 03/17/14 10:26 AM
Edited by Candiapples on Mon 03/17/14 10:29 AM
And some just aren't into that person. But if thats the case then no point continuing...just saying :smile:

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Mon 03/17/14 10:44 AM


I have been online long enough to figure out whos.rreal and who isn't and whos just mesding around. Had a couple guys recently give me their numbers...yup!same scenerio..cant talk cuz of this reason or that..texts flow then stop abruptly. Hmmm! Without any reasonable explaination as to why, i considered it a bit weird..off..sketchy and told them to lose my number...apparently they are single...hmmm! Again


That's the GREAT thing about sneaky, married guys pretending to be single... It takes Little to NO Effort to spot them!




Or married women, let's not be sexist :smile: Although, I will admit it is more likely that a married man will play the stupid game.

mightymoe's photo
Mon 03/17/14 10:50 AM




yea, well, people are going to think whatever they want... bottom line is that if i don't feel like chatting, texting, emailing or talking on the phone, i won't... and there is nothing i can do about what she thinks about it...


SO NOT TRUE!!! There is PUL-LENTY YOU can do!
If you and a female hit it off... it's fine to text or email for a a little while.
But, if you two hit it off, and you make up a reason why she can't hear your voice!
You are intentionally being vague... You can do something about what she thinks!
Just throwing your hands up and saying.. " Oh well, I don't want to talk so it's her loss"
That's a cop out, babe

and you know it.huh


cop out? huh no, i think not... some people i want to talk to, others not so much... but if it's "meant to be", it will work itself out...flowerforyou ohwell flowers


I just saw your other message...
SO, if she is worth it to you.. you will talk on the phone.

Yup... this is the SIGN, I was talking about. Women who are " feeling " a guy but he doesn't wish to talk.

He's just not that into you!
Thanks Mighty bigsmile


of course, but i think you have to remember, just because one wants to chat "right now", the other might not want to/be able to, for whatever reason... it doesn't always mean they are not into you, just busy at the moment, or maybe they just don't have anything to say right then...