Topic: What men fear most
Onlyme20's photo
Tue 03/18/14 06:26 AM
And my fear is now huning me.
I'm afraid I'm going to lose this man I met here. He's not messaging me anymore. Urgghhh

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Tue 03/18/14 06:40 AM

.. I fear.. coming across a bear. . well out for a jog..
. are asleep at night camping.. yes that's one of my biggest fears.. a grizzly bear.. dragging me out of my tent... it was some movie back in the 70's or 80's.. about a killer grizzly bear... still scares me to this day... oh yes and bumblebees... and broads... the 3 bees.... bears bees and broads...lol


I have a fear of bees too!!!

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Tue 03/18/14 06:42 AM

And my fear is now huning me.
I'm afraid I'm going to lose this man I met here. He's not messaging me anymore. Urgghhh


hang in thereflowerforyou

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Tue 03/18/14 06:45 AM
Edited by realcarebear on Tue 03/18/14 06:45 AM


Heres a good article. It argues that what men fear most is



spiders


ugh!!! Spiders Eeek! I've dang near killed myself over a spider! I even break out in hives just seeing one!

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Tue 03/18/14 06:47 AM


every rejection teaches you something

i used to speak to everyone as though they were the same person without really paying attention to their differences and instead focused on their similarities

people tend to be 50% the result of their past, and 50% what they desire to be.. and you are trying to fit somewhere in between. time is horrible in ways, but glorious in others

enjoy the experiences you have with people, enjoy the bad ones just as much as the good.. we all need both or we wouldn't progress as individuals at all

one thing people should be is their natural self. to be naturally rejected is better than to be falsely accepted - and its not something people should be upset about when it happens. when you consider of how much you struggle to be happy, all the demons you battle and defeat.. just think that that's all the other person really wants deep down, even if their version of happiness conflicts with your own

sorry for talking a load of crap but i may aswell press "post reply" now


Actually, I think you put it quite well and accurately. :thumbsup:

I have to agree...well said.


teebee79's photo
Tue 03/18/14 12:03 PM
I think they fear, the tables being turned one freaky friday!

They'll get the glass ceilings, the B*tch title when they stand up for themselves.. and bloating every 28 days!pitchfork


Or Just rejection, like the OP saidwhoa

NorCalSwe's photo
Tue 03/18/14 12:09 PM

I think they fear, the tables being turned one freaky friday!

They'll get the glass ceilings, the B*tch title when they stand up for themselves.. and bloating every 28 days!pitchfork


Or Just rejection, like the OP saidwhoa


Sad but true research study. They asked 7 yr old girls, if you woke up tomorrow and discovered you were a boy, what would you do?

The girls answered excitedly, oh I'd play war, play with cars....and so on.

Boys were asked what would they do if they woke up as girls? Most common answer, I kill myself.

We still have a long way to go people.

teebee79's photo
Tue 03/18/14 12:25 PM


I think they fear, the tables being turned one freaky friday!

They'll get the glass ceilings, the B*tch title when they stand up for themselves.. and bloating every 28 days!pitchfork


Or Just rejection, like the OP saidwhoa


Sad but true research study. They asked 7 yr old girls, if you woke up tomorrow and discovered you were a boy, what would you do?

The girls answered excitedly, oh I'd play war, play with cars....and so on.

Boys were asked what would they do if they woke up as girls? Most common answer, I kill myself.

We still have a long way to go people.


OUCH! Didn't see that coming
hmm... then , why does it seem like we have so many transgendered women then men??? sad2


NorCalSwe's photo
Tue 03/18/14 12:46 PM



I think they fear, the tables being turned one freaky friday!

They'll get the glass ceilings, the B*tch title when they stand up for themselves.. and bloating every 28 days!pitchfork


Or Just rejection, like the OP saidwhoa


Sad but true research study. They asked 7 yr old girls, if you woke up tomorrow and discovered you were a boy, what would you do?

The girls answered excitedly, oh I'd play war, play with cars....and so on.

Boys were asked what would they do if they woke up as girls? Most common answer, I kill myself.

We still have a long way to go people.


OUCH! Didn't see that coming
hmm... then , why does it seem like we have so many transgendered women then men??? sad2




I think it tells us we are still teaching our children it's better to be a boy.

teebee79's photo
Tue 03/18/14 12:51 PM
Edited by teebee79 on Tue 03/18/14 12:56 PM




I think they fear, the tables being turned one freaky friday!

They'll get the glass ceilings, the B*tch title when they stand up for themselves.. and bloating every 28 days!pitchfork


Or Just rejection, like the OP saidwhoa


Sad but true research study. They asked 7 yr old girls, if you woke up tomorrow and discovered you were a boy, what would you do?

The girls answered excitedly, oh I'd play war, play with cars....and so on.

Boys were asked what would they do if they woke up as girls? Most common answer, I kill myself.

We still have a long way to go people.


OUCH! Didn't see that coming
hmm... then , why does it seem like we have so many transgendered women then men??? sad2




I think it tells us we are still teaching our children it's better to be a boy.


Could be.... or Girls, roll with change while boys would rather die than try?huh

I'm kidding!! I get your point bigsmile

However, it's a sad commentary on both sides.....
I'd rather the girls say " Nothing, would change.. I'd do the same things "

NorCalSwe's photo
Tue 03/18/14 12:57 PM





I think they fear, the tables being turned one freaky friday!

They'll get the glass ceilings, the B*tch title when they stand up for themselves.. and bloating every 28 days!pitchfork


Or Just rejection, like the OP saidwhoa


Sad but true research study. They asked 7 yr old girls, if you woke up tomorrow and discovered you were a boy, what would you do?

The girls answered excitedly, oh I'd play war, play with cars....and so on.

Boys were asked what would they do if they woke up as girls? Most common answer, I kill myself.

We still have a long way to go people.


OUCH! Didn't see that coming
hmm... then , why does it seem like we have so many transgendered women then men??? sad2




I think it tells us we are still teaching our children it's better to be a boy.


Could be.... or Girls, roll with change while boys would rather die than try?huh

I'm kidding!! I get your point bigsmile

However, it's a sad commentary on both sides.....
I'd rather the girls say " Nothing, would change.. I'd do the same things "


Of course girls try harder, case in point, child birth. If we had to give birth the the human race would die.

Let the guys watch the first man giving birth, the rest would say No frickin way!!!

teebee79's photo
Tue 03/18/14 01:03 PM






I think they fear, the tables being turned one freaky friday!

They'll get the glass ceilings, the B*tch title when they stand up for themselves.. and bloating every 28 days!pitchfork


Or Just rejection, like the OP saidwhoa


Sad but true research study. They asked 7 yr old girls, if you woke up tomorrow and discovered you were a boy, what would you do?

The girls answered excitedly, oh I'd play war, play with cars....and so on.

Boys were asked what would they do if they woke up as girls? Most common answer, I kill myself.

We still have a long way to go people.


OUCH! Didn't see that coming
hmm... then , why does it seem like we have so many transgendered women then men??? sad2




I think it tells us we are still teaching our children it's better to be a boy.


Could be.... or Girls, roll with change while boys would rather die than try?huh

I'm kidding!! I get your point bigsmile

However, it's a sad commentary on both sides.....
I'd rather the girls say " Nothing, would change.. I'd do the same things "


Of course girls try harder, case in point, child birth. If we had to give birth the the human race would die.

Let the guys watch the first man giving birth, the rest would say No frickin way!!!


Yeah... why do you think Maternity has it's own ward!!
Don't want to freak out the next generation of girls.. who are at the hospital pharmacy picking up their birth control!!!:tongue:

NorCalSwe's photo
Tue 03/18/14 01:14 PM







I think they fear, the tables being turned one freaky friday!

They'll get the glass ceilings, the B*tch title when they stand up for themselves.. and bloating every 28 days!pitchfork


Or Just rejection, like the OP saidwhoa


Sad but true research study. They asked 7 yr old girls, if you woke up tomorrow and discovered you were a boy, what would you do?

The girls answered excitedly, oh I'd play war, play with cars....and so on.

Boys were asked what would they do if they woke up as girls? Most common answer, I kill myself.

We still have a long way to go people.


OUCH! Didn't see that coming
hmm... then , why does it seem like we have so many transgendered women then men??? sad2




I think it tells us we are still teaching our children it's better to be a boy.


Could be.... or Girls, roll with change while boys would rather die than try?huh

I'm kidding!! I get your point bigsmile

However, it's a sad commentary on both sides.....
I'd rather the girls say " Nothing, would change.. I'd do the same things "


Of course girls try harder, case in point, child birth. If we had to give birth the the human race would die.

Let the guys watch the first man giving birth, the rest would say No frickin way!!!


Yeah... why do you think Maternity has it's own ward!!
Don't want to freak out the next generation of girls.. who are at the hospital pharmacy picking up their birth control!!!:tongue:


Yesm but then you all lie to them,boy's a conspiracy!!

Young girl: Does it hurt a lot?

Woman: No, it's not so bad.

No so bad after the drugs you mean. :smile:

teebee79's photo
Tue 03/18/14 01:37 PM








I think they fear, the tables being turned one freaky friday!

They'll get the glass ceilings, the B*tch title when they stand up for themselves.. and bloating every 28 days!pitchfork


Or Just rejection, like the OP saidwhoa


Sad but true research study. They asked 7 yr old girls, if you woke up tomorrow and discovered you were a boy, what would you do?

The girls answered excitedly, oh I'd play war, play with cars....and so on.

Boys were asked what would they do if they woke up as girls? Most common answer, I kill myself.

We still have a long way to go people.


OUCH! Didn't see that coming
hmm... then , why does it seem like we have so many transgendered women then men??? sad2




I think it tells us we are still teaching our children it's better to be a boy.


Could be.... or Girls, roll with change while boys would rather die than try?huh

I'm kidding!! I get your point bigsmile

However, it's a sad commentary on both sides.....
I'd rather the girls say " Nothing, would change.. I'd do the same things "


Of course girls try harder, case in point, child birth. If we had to give birth the the human race would die.

Let the guys watch the first man giving birth, the rest would say No frickin way!!!


Yeah... why do you think Maternity has it's own ward!!
Don't want to freak out the next generation of girls.. who are at the hospital pharmacy picking up their birth control!!!:tongue:


Yesm but then you all lie to them,boy's a conspiracy!!

Young girl: Does it hurt a lot?

Woman: No, it's not so bad.

No so bad after the drugs you mean. :smile:


So, there.. it's not a lie!
After the drugs it's NOT so bad :laughing:

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Tue 04/01/14 01:21 PM
Girls who wish to poop in their apartment

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Tue 04/01/14 01:28 PM
A woman who will want me to have a Twilight franchise marathon with her.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aNUr__-VZeQ

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Tue 04/01/14 01:37 PM




I think they fear, the tables being turned one freaky friday!

They'll get the glass ceilings, the B*tch title when they stand up for themselves.. and bloating every 28 days!pitchfork


Or Just rejection, like the OP saidwhoa


Sad but true research study. They asked 7 yr old girls, if you woke up tomorrow and discovered you were a boy, what would you do?

The girls answered excitedly, oh I'd play war, play with cars....and so on.

Boys were asked what would they do if they woke up as girls? Most common answer, I kill myself.

We still have a long way to go people.


OUCH! Didn't see that coming
hmm... then , why does it seem like we have so many transgendered women then men??? sad2




I think it tells us we are still teaching our children it's better to be a boy.

I doubt that very much. Most westerners rather have girls than boys.
I think TeeBee is closer, girls (and women) have a natural tendency to go with the flow, take things as they come. Fighting, resisting etc. is more masculine.
Read about the feminine and masculine and you'll find out how this works.

no1phD's photo
Tue 04/01/14 01:43 PM
.. I have watched both of my sons.. being brought into this world.. I am gagging. slightly even know. recalling it...lol...jk
. my point is this.
I have broken bones... impaled myself.. numerous cut,s and lacerations... across my entire body.... I consider myself rather tough... Morley and physically....
. but on that day. that glorious day..
. if I could have traded places. with my then wife...
. my answer would be a.. resounding...
. not AF in.... chance.... I thought I knew what pain was... are the face of pain that is... boy was I wrong..
. don't get me wrong.. I would throw myself down upon my own sword.. to keep her safe.... but even I have a limit...lol.... I forgot what the topic was..lol....


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Tue 04/01/14 01:47 PM
.. oh yeah .I. I ran back up top to take a look...
.. I would say childbirth... yup definitely wouldn't want to do that...no way no how........lol

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Tue 04/01/14 01:49 PM
Edited by BrandNewJourney on Tue 04/01/14 01:49 PM

.. I have watched both of my sons.. being brought into this world.. I am gagging. slightly even know. recalling it...lol...jk
. my point is this.
I have broken bones... impaled myself.. numerous cut,s and lacerations... across my entire body.... I consider myself rather tough... Morley and physically....
. but on that day. that glorious day..
. if I could have traded places. with my then wife...
. my answer would be a.. resounding...
. not AF in.... chance.... I thought I knew what pain was... are the face of pain that is... boy was I wrong..
. don't get me wrong.. I would throw myself down upon my own sword.. to keep her safe.... but even I have a limit...lol.... I forgot what the topic was..lol....




I needed that laugh!!!

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