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Topic: What men fear most
2KidsMom Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 58206	Tue 04/01/14 01:50 PM
".. oh yeah .I. I ran back up top to take a look..." Ha ha...I did too, after it happened to me once...

TawtStrat Joined Fri 11/16/12 Posts: 3581	Tue 04/01/14 02:03 PM
I don't think that I fear rejection, as such, anymore. It's only really women that I do get involved with that can hurt me. Also, maybe the girls just want to do boy things because feminists drum it into them that they should and boys are also told by said feminists what a dreadful thing it is to be a woman in this world.

Karin Joined Mon 03/31/14 Posts: 5	Tue 04/01/14 02:32 PM
Most men fear rejection and been viewed as weak in all aspects

cococabeza Joined Fri 12/13/13 Posts: 590	Tue 04/01/14 06:48 PM
Giving birth..brought up memories of my stbx husband...1st child: him asking constantly if I needed anything..happy. 2nd child: him with his hands in his pockets and looking for a tv, to watch the hockey game. Yup.. he has his priorities. I think men are afraid of being judged harshly by their male peers.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Tue 04/01/14 06:56 PM
What I fear most...is not being there for a loved one.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Tue 04/01/14 06:58 PM
.. oh yeah .I. I ran back up top to take a look... .. I would say childbirth... yup definitely wouldn't want to do that...no way no how........lol I don 't think it's anything you need to worry about, but it does make u guys look like sissies...lol

xXSlave4uXx Joined Tue 03/04/14 Posts: 308	Tue 04/01/14 07:10 PM
After being unfaithful in various ways my husband told me his biggest fear isn't loosing me but me sticking around and doing the same things he has done too me.... Oops

Maria195 Joined Fri 10/04/13 Posts: 7361	Tue 04/01/14 07:18 PM
To come too soon and leave his woman half way!

TBRich Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 8232	Tue 04/01/14 07:27 PM
If your self-esteem is based on whether a woman rejects you or not, then you got some more serious issues

regularfeller Joined Sat 11/10/12 Posts: 2394	Tue 04/01/14 07:38 PM
Heres a good article. It argues that what men fear most is rejection. It hurts like hell when a man is rejected. http://wordonfire.org/WoF-Blog/WoF-Blog/March-2014/What-Men-Fear-Most.aspx My fear is not having asked in the first place. If you don't try you done the rejecting for her. I like to brag that I have been turned down by some of the prettiest women you ever seen. I've also been loved by some of the prettiest women you ever seen. If this is your fear - stop rejecting yourself! If a fish don't take your bait do you blame the fish or the worm?

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Tue 04/01/14 07:40 PM
If your self-esteem is based on whether a woman rejects you or not, then you got some more serious issues not everyone has your mature disdain for feminine wiles...lol

jacktrades Joined Tue 09/11/12 Posts: 4395	Tue 04/01/14 10:50 PM
German Proverb: Fear makes the wolf look bigger.

gibbs1602 Joined Wed 02/26/14 Posts: 5980	Tue 04/01/14 11:52 PM
i fear,... developing a relationship with a woman mentally simular to Lorena Bobbitt...

gibbs1602 Joined Wed 02/26/14 Posts: 5980	Tue 04/01/14 11:58 PM
After being unfaithful in various ways my husband told me his biggest fear isn't loosing me but me sticking around and doing the same things he has done too me.... Oops ouch!

NorCalSwe Joined Sun 03/09/14 Posts: 2438	Wed 04/02/14 12:42 AM
Miss Franky...in the library...with a bat

dcastelmissy Joined Thu 08/01/13 Posts: 39633	Wed 04/02/14 06:56 PM
1. Loss of identity 2.Failure 3.Rejection

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Wed 04/02/14 07:14 PM
.. okay truth be known a strong woman...

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Wed 04/02/14 09:16 PM
.. just means you're still human blondie.. it's a tough profession you're in...

NorCalSwe Joined Sun 03/09/14 Posts: 2438	Wed 04/02/14 09:29 PM Edited by NorCalSwe on Wed 04/02/14 09:29 PM
I fear not being strong enough . A glimpse into my world......last night I was with someone when he died. My voice was the last he heard and my touch the last he felt . As I held his hand I told him not to be afraid and that it was okay to let go. I didnt know this man and yet i felt an overwhelming sadness as I watched him take his last breath ....relieved his suffering had ended. My ex worked in nursing home in Aberdeen.....said she got tired of meeting nice and interesting people and then having to say good-bye. I tell you what I told them.....thank god you were there to hold their hand and they didn't have to die alone. I hope someone like you Blondie is there for me when it's my time to go.

kc0003 Joined Fri 05/11/07 Posts: 26382	Wed 04/02/14 09:45 PM
I fear not being strong enough . A glimpse into my world......last night I was with someone when he died. My voice was the last he heard and my touch the last he felt . As I held his hand I told him not to be afraid and that it was okay to let go. I didnt know this man and yet i felt an overwhelming sadness as I watched him take his last breath ....relieved his suffering had ended.