Topic: Lets see who tells the truth
Ɔʎɹɐx's photo
Thu 03/06/14 11:09 PM
before or after having sex ?
what's the point of having sex with someone you don't love in the first place .... ?

MyNameIsJohnMays's photo
Thu 03/06/14 11:09 PM
Before. If you fall for the person afterwards, than you ain't really in love with the person. You just want sex, and well face it, that's not the purpose of a relationship.

Africpics's photo
Thu 03/06/14 11:10 PM
After sex;why ,it will make you to know the person am falling in love with is she sexual factor.

isaac_dede's photo
Thu 03/06/14 11:23 PM
Edited by isaac_dede on Thu 03/06/14 11:23 PM

Idk I'm not a relationship counselor or nothing lol but I here a lot of people say they feel in love with the person they've been with before sexing them. I was just wondering what other people's thoughts were at. N I personally think a lot of females fall head over heels after they get some bomb D. But then again what do I know...

IMO those women don't know what love is, they confuse love and lust, when you have sex with someone various chemicals fire off in the brain causing those "butterflies" nothing to do with love...but some girls think that is what constitutes love it isn't

dcastelmissy's photo
Fri 03/07/14 05:52 AM

Before ,the sex was the icing on the cake.


I agree with you Jack! :thumbsup:

Kaleijoscope's photo
Fri 03/07/14 06:37 AM

Before ,the sex was the icing on the cake.

This...,Totally...

 Maria195's photo
Fri 03/07/14 07:07 AM

before or after having sex ?
what's the point of having sex with someone you don't love in the first place .... ?



I agree with FOX.


For me I have to be in love with him in order to have sex...I never had sex in the past just to see if I will for in love with him. I have respect for myself too much :smile:

mightymoe's photo
Fri 03/07/14 09:17 AM

Do you fall in love before or after you have sex?

during... but i fall out of love a few minutes later...ohwell

no1phD's photo
Fri 03/07/14 09:19 AM
laugh happy laugh laugh laugh ...^^^^

no photo
Fri 03/07/14 09:26 AM
whoa scared

peachy78's photo
Fri 03/07/14 01:12 PM
Edited by peachy78 on Fri 03/07/14 01:13 PM
Honestly, I don't think I have every truly been in love with a man before having sex with them. I have never fallen in love because of bomb D as you said, but I have lost all feelings because of lousy D. lol Straight up, if I didn't have an emotional connection with him I wouldn't sleep with him, but I wouldn't go so far as to say it was love.

teebee79's photo
Fri 03/07/14 01:14 PM
Before

That's what makes it so hard to break up later noway

Heskey2219's photo
Fri 03/07/14 01:51 PM
It depends on what want in a relationship, but the truth is that true love is not after sex because it must certainly come.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Fri 03/07/14 02:10 PM


Do you fall in love before or after you have sex?

during... but i fall out of love a few minutes later...ohwell


no photo
Fri 03/07/14 02:16 PM

Honestly, I don't think I have every truly been in love with a man before having sex with them. I have never fallen in love because of bomb D as you said, but I have lost all feelings because of lousy D. lol Straight up, if I didn't have an emotional connection with him I wouldn't sleep with him, but I wouldn't go so far as to say it was love.


^^This.....:thumbsup:

regularfeller's photo
Fri 03/07/14 04:21 PM
Depending on how many beers I've had and if she's still there in the morning i reckon i could be in love with, uh, er, uh, whatsername.asleep smitten

Choobobabe's photo
Fri 03/07/14 07:29 PM
If I don't love him, I'm not having sex with him. I could never bring myself to even feel up to having sex with someone I don't love. There's just nothing there to drive it.

no photo
Fri 03/07/14 07:40 PM


Do you fall in love before or after you have sex?

during... but i fall out of love a few minutes later...ohwell


LOL drinks

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Fri 03/07/14 07:41 PM



Do you fall in love before or after you have sex?

during... but i fall out of love a few minutes later...ohwell




OMG Where did you get that great smiley!! I don't have that option, but that was my response too!

no photo
Fri 03/07/14 07:52 PM

Honestly, I don't think I have every truly been in love with a man before having sex with them. I have never fallen in love because of bomb D as you said, but I have lost all feelings because of lousy D. lol Straight up, if I didn't have an emotional connection with him I wouldn't sleep with him, but I wouldn't go so far as to say it was love.


Yep, I'm with you there. It has taken me a loooong time to fall in love in the past. I thought I was in love but experience after experience tells me there's always more to learn about love. I have to have a strong attraction and interest, but these days its all about the friendship. I've had dreams, all recently, where I've reached out for a friends hand, and when he held mine it made me orgasm! That's new! Not orgasms in my sleep but ones over hand holding... whew.

Sex can happen over feelings, but love comes with trust, and some people need a very long time to completely trust.