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Topic: If a man cheat what should the person do
BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Tue 02/25/14 06:43 AM
If a man cheat on u more than 2 time what should u do Perhaps it was just accidental, these things happen that way sometimes because some men can be seduced by a temptress, I say best to forgive and forget and give him another chance. How can you cheat by accident? Do your pants fall off all by themselves? Sorry I don't buy that excuse, its never an accident.

Vanadium53 Joined Mon 02/24/14 Posts: 8	Tue 02/25/14 06:50 AM
If a man cheat on u more than 2 time what should u do Perhaps it was just accidental, these things happen that way sometimes because some men can be seduced by a temptress, I say best to forgive and forget and give him another chance. How can you cheat by accident? Do your pants fall off all by themselves? Sorry I don't buy that excuse, its never an accident. "accident" in terms of seduction get that

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Tue 02/25/14 07:01 AM
If a man cheat on u more than 2 time what should u do Perhaps it was just accidental, these things happen that way sometimes because some men can be seduced by a temptress, I say best to forgive and forget and give him another chance. How can you cheat by accident? Do your pants fall off all by themselves? Sorry I don't buy that excuse, its never an accident. "accident" in terms of seduction get that No sir, you know when you are being seduced. You can either walk away or give in ,either way its a choice not an accident.

suttlekrissy Joined Fri 02/14/14 Posts: 174	Tue 02/25/14 07:03 AM
If a man cheat on u more than 2 time what should u do Perhaps it was just accidental, these things happen that way sometimes because some men can be seduced by a temptress, I say best to forgive and forget and give him another chance. How can you cheat by accident? Do your pants fall off all by themselves? Sorry I don't buy that excuse, its never an accident. "accident" in terms of seduction get that No sir, you know when you are being seduced. You can either walk away or give in ,either way its a choice not an accident. I totally agree. Very well stated

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Tue 02/25/14 07:05 AM Edited by BettyB on Tue 02/25/14 07:07 AM
If a man cheat on u more than 2 time what should u do Perhaps it was just accidental, these things happen that way sometimes because some men can be seduced by a temptress, I say best to forgive and forget and give him another chance. How can you cheat by accident? Do your pants fall off all by themselves? Sorry I don't buy that excuse, its never an accident. "accident" in terms of seduction get that No sir, you know when you are being seduced. You can either walk away or give in ,either way its a choice not an accident. I totally agree. Very well stated Thank you

Vanadium53 Joined Mon 02/24/14 Posts: 8	Tue 02/25/14 07:06 AM Edited by Vanadium53 on Tue 02/25/14 07:07 AM
If a man cheat on u more than 2 time what should u do Perhaps it was just accidental, these things happen that way sometimes because some men can be seduced by a temptress, I say best to forgive and forget and give him another chance. How can you cheat by accident? Do your pants fall off all by themselves? Sorry I don't buy that excuse, its never an accident. "accident" in terms of seduction get that No sir, you know when you are being seduced. You can either walk away or give in ,either way its a choice not an accident. things fall apart.you help a friend in need.assume her husband died and your the closest friend she has arnd.the the "accident" happens

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Tue 02/25/14 07:14 AM
If a man cheat on u more than 2 time what should u do Perhaps it was just accidental, these things happen that way sometimes because some men can be seduced by a temptress, I say best to forgive and forget and give him another chance. How can you cheat by accident? Do your pants fall off all by themselves? Sorry I don't buy that excuse, its never an accident. "accident" in terms of seduction get that No sir, you know when you are being seduced. You can either walk away or give in ,either way its a choice not an accident. things fall apart.you help a friend in need.assume her husband died and your the closest friend she has arnd.the the "accident" happens if you were married and your idea of comforting her is having sex with her you are cheating...plain and simple. No accident ..you knew what you were doing.

dannysy81 Joined Tue 07/16/13 Posts: 68	Tue 02/25/14 07:15 AM
Once is enough, twice is too much, thrice...uhmmm...i'd probably bang my head on the wall.. Save yourself from further pain that he can inflict upon you.

Duttoneer Joined Sun 07/01/12 Posts: 5060	Tue 02/25/14 10:57 AM
If a man cheat on u more than 2 time what should u do Perhaps it was just accidental, these things happen that way sometimes because some men can be seduced by a temptress, I say best to forgive and forget and give him another chance. How can you cheat by accident? Do your pants fall off all by themselves? Sorry I don't buy that excuse, its never an accident. The guy meets an old flame by accident say, they go for a few drinks at her place and it happens, he did not want it to happen. She just turned it on a bit and he succumbed to temptation a few times, can't blame him it was all too much for him maybe. Forgive and forget.

larsson71 Joined Fri 09/20/13 Posts: 2204	Tue 02/25/14 11:06 AM
If a man cheat on u more than 2 time what should u do Join him? Then you can see what the competition is like? Well, that's twice you've let him off with it, so go get a piece of the action yourself?

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Tue 02/25/14 11:22 AM
If a man cheat on u more than 2 time what should u do Perhaps it was just accidental, these things happen that way sometimes because some men can be seduced by a temptress, I say best to forgive and forget and give him another chance. How can you cheat by accident? Do your pants fall off all by themselves? Sorry I don't buy that excuse, its never an accident. The guy meets an old flame by accident say, they go for a few drinks at her place and it happens, he did not want it to happen. She just turned it on a bit and he succumbed to temptation a few times, can't blame him it was all too much for him maybe. Forgive and forget. bullchit... cheating is cheating...and excuses are not going to work...

dcastelmissy Joined Thu 08/01/13 Posts: 39633	Tue 02/25/14 11:26 AM
If a man cheat on u more than 2 time what should u do Perhaps it was just accidental, these things happen that way sometimes because some men can be seduced by a temptress, I say best to forgive and forget and give him another chance. How can you cheat by accident? Do your pants fall off all by themselves? Sorry I don't buy that excuse, its never an accident. The guy meets an old flame by accident say, they go for a few drinks at her place and it happens, he did not want it to happen. She just turned it on a bit and he succumbed to temptation a few times, can't blame him it was all too much for him maybe. Forgive and forget. bullchit... cheating is cheating...and excuses are not going to work...

2KidsMom Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 58206	Tue 02/25/14 01:08 PM
If a man cheat on u more than 2 time what should u do get a body bag.. add him to the basement.. wait what..

Brizzlekicks Joined Wed 02/19/14 Posts: 250	Tue 02/25/14 01:22 PM
If a man cheat on u more than 2 time what should u do get a body bag.. add him to the basement.. wait what.. Dammm remind me to never piss you off.

LowRange Joined Sat 12/28/13 Posts: 664	Tue 02/25/14 01:37 PM
If a man cheat on u more than 2 time what should u do Perhaps it was just accidental, these things happen that way sometimes because some men can be seduced by a temptress, I say best to forgive and forget and give him another chance. How can you cheat by accident? Do your pants fall off all by themselves? Sorry I don't buy that excuse, its never an accident. "accident" in terms of seduction get that thats no accident. ..you have the right to say no, anything you say can and will be held against you in the court of law or her law....couldn't resist. :

Fracus16 Joined Tue 12/31/13 Posts: 104	Tue 02/25/14 01:39 PM
Yes MM, I agree 100%. Cheating is cheating! I like how this thread has now moved to the man being focused. I assume by man we are speaking of woman as well. Lets break this down. Both partners have an agreement, verbal, Written or a sixth sense. Doesn't matter. An agreement was made. Now, one of the parties thought and acted out on their own behalf without discussing the prior commitment and Agreement with the other party involved. We could psycho analyize this until we're. Blue in the face. Fact being, cheater not only betrayed the trust issue. That alone takes a very long time to obtain again, if ever at all. Also, the cheater is a selfish person to the 10th degree! To put aside another persons feelings and more important put aside their dignity is beyond repair. That is why its wise to not attach yourself, your identity to anyone, relationship, job or group.

Fracus16 Joined Tue 12/31/13 Posts: 104	Tue 02/25/14 01:49 PM
Moe..... without dignity a person is still a person. Kind of. Some mentioned Lorraine Bobette. If her partner didn't cheat, do we honestly think she would have carried out an inhuman act? No way. She carried that out because in her mind that was a way to get respect, gain her dignity back. So... I don't think we are human when our dignity is taken only because we commit inhuman acts at that time. Hensed....Temporary Insanity!!!

Annie Joined Sat 02/15/14 Posts: 25	Tue 02/25/14 03:34 PM
The truly scary thing about undiscovered lies is that they have a greater capacity to diminish us than exposed ones. They erode our strength, our self-esteem, our very foundation. , the full trust is not there, already, we can forgive, but how can we forget???? hitting,badmouthing i think is not the best thing to do, JUST WALK AWAY, and let the cheater come to his senses, its painful of course, but its only the summation of being truly cared and love. him.

Annie Joined Sat 02/15/14 Posts: 25	Tue 02/25/14 03:36 PM
The truly scary thing about undiscovered lies is that they have a greater capacity to diminish us than exposed ones. They erode our strength, our self-esteem, our very foundation. , the full trust is not there, already, we can forgive, but how can we forget???? hitting,badmouthing i think is not the best thing to do, JUST WALK AWAY, and let the cheater come to his senses, its painful of course, but its only the summation of being truly cared and love. him.

Annie Joined Sat 02/15/14 Posts: 25	Tue 02/25/14 03:37 PM
The truly scary thing about undiscovered lies is that they have a greater capacity to diminish us than exposed ones. They erode our strength, our self-esteem, our very foundation. , the full trust is not there, already, we can forgive, but how can we forget???? hitting,badmouthing i think is not the best thing to do, JUST WALK AWAY, and let the cheater come to his senses, its painful of course, but its only the summation of being truly cared and love. him.