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| Topic: Should I or not text my ex boyfriend for his bday after a br | |
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If you decided to break up with your boyfriend because he wasnt ready for a committement, he always change his mind but u still love him and his birthday is coming up during the break up and we have no contact..should you atleast send a txt msg saying happy bday or nothing at all??! Keeping in mind the break up was like a week ago and we were in a relationship for 3 years..
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NO! Not unless YOU want the DOOR WIDE OPEN again!
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I honestly do love him and want him back but i just dont know if he really values our relationship..thats why i decided to break up and just concentrate on my self for now
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I m ready
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I honestly do love him and want him back but i just dont know if he really values our relationship..thats why i decided to break up and just concentrate on my self for now The question you need to ask yourself is: If I got him back would he be any more ready for a commitment than he was before? My guess is that you know he wouldn't be, despite the fact that you say you love him. The reason you broke up was because he wouldn't commit, or at least that's the impression you gave. Move on, or be willing to accept his terms if you just can't live without him, and by the way, this doesn't sound like something you would be happy with at all. JMHO |
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Your call, just be prepared to deal with the consequences... and there will be consequences
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Well, it's a birthday and lots of friends will send HBD's, so i guess one more coming from you isn't too many, but keep it short and impersonal,that way if he doesn't react the way you wanted, no big deal,you saved your pride and i guess,it's time to consider your options..either way, goodluck!..
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Well, considering the time that you were together and not knowing anything about the dynamics of your relationship it's a 50-50 chance that he would like it or no. You never know. There are some people unable and unwilling to forgive others and would take it the wrong way mainly If they see themselves as honest and close to perfection.
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Just accompany it with a package delivered containing a dead mouse and a tiny die-cast battleaxe, to ensure there are no mixed signals.
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You're in luck if it was only a week ago since you broke up with him. As the longer you leave it, the more you procrastinate. I thought twice about sending an ex a birthday card, as it can make them think you want them back. So I thought it was better to just leave him alone. Why not just go partying or something, to help distract yourself from him? I would. The more he's on your mind, the more it'll tease you, but you're doing it to yourself. There's plenty of single hunks available
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There is nothing that says you cannot have a
decent relationship with the past, and/or ex's. You could send a polite birthday note, that requires NO reply. That way, you have done a nice thing, and they have options. |
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Just don't text him a jpeg of your boobs, that might confuse things o_O
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