Thank you!

Possibilities... I would love to kiss a guy I met here that has an awesome smile, beautiful brown eyes, lovely heart and definitely lips to kill for.

Havent you heard women are intriguing creatures? We love and hate at the same time

Thank you! Glad you like it!

Well, thank you! Your words are really inspiring too. Have a great day and dont forget to dance yourself.

I opened my eyes to a new day
New opportunities
Lots of different possibilities
Still the ache remains inside my heart
But I can see the sun shinning through the shades
It slips into my bedroom
Uninvited and unaware of the warm it brings.

A new day has begun
The covers seem like a perfect refuge
But one shall not avoid reality or run away from it
The burdens from yesterday should not be dragged into today.
I managed the courage to breath deeply
and suddenly I got it... Life goes on
With you or without you in it.

A new day full of new presents
Smiles, hugs, laughs are abiding for me.
A new day to make an inventory of the daily goals
Baby steps towards the main goal.
Looked into the mirror and gave a big smile to the woman infront of me
I had forgotten how beautiful she is
and even when things are to get better
I remember that a new day awaits for me so,
I turn the music on and as a mandatory action
My body dances to the rythm and I know...
There is pain in my heart but in front of me
is the possibility of a brand new day.

For the first time since we met
I can tell you that today...
Im as angry as I can be with you.

Today, I dont care If you are okay or not
If your usual being is having a good or a bad day
Today, you manage to make me so upset that
I feel like climbing the highest mountain and
scream out of the top of my lungs
Im so angry at you!

Today, you really dont have a pass to my heart
but more likely to my frustration and anger.
Today, I wish I have never met you and I wish
I could forget about you.
Maybe, tomorrow may be different but today...
Oh, today you outdid yourself!

Why do I keep trying? Is the constant question on my heart
Why do I continue to care? If its so easy for you to leave
Why do I concern myself thinking about you? If its clear that you dont
Why do I have the feelings that I do?!

Today, I am so very glad we are so far away and which is even better
I feel the same distance between my heart and your soul.
Today, I wish you could feel a little bit of the pain that your
abscence leaves in within my soul.

Today, you didnt want to share your time, your life, your being with me
and thats alright because... Today, I dont give a damn!

You are welcome. Sometimes, its nice to leave resentments or pain aside and focus on the good things that those experiences left behind. I'm glad you liked it.

Tonight, this one is for you. For the man that made me and broke me.
For the one whose lips were soft and words where harsh.
For the guy that shared my bed and my love for so long.
This one goes to you wherever you are.

To the one whom I shared a last name and a bank account,
To the man that in a sense made me the woman I am today.
To the brave and coward man blended in one.
To the one whom I cuddle with for so many nights.

This one goes to you, because not everything was black and white,
Because not everything was evil and bad,
Because one day we share much more than life itself.
Tonight, I am thinking about you but not with a sense of lost
but with the logical thinking of you being far away
with the distance and time within us.
To the stranger I don't know, to the man you have become.


To the guy that has suffered and has been tormented of the past
To the one that has asked for forgiveness
To the one that wants to change.
This one goes to you because we belonged together once and tonight... I thought about you.

She stood still
thoughts rushing in her mind
hundreds of possibilities lying ahead
her cold heart was awaken
her lifeless soul had finally stood up.

There she was, staring at a picture.
Someone who was completely unaware of her existance
made her heart beat so fast that blood was rushing through her veins
Who was he? What could she say? What could she do?
and yet... She stood still.

Maybe an hour went by with her hesitating heart
not being able to make a logical and coherent decision
Finally, she got the courage to submerge into his world
he seemed to be not only handsome but quite amazing
but... She stood still and waited for a few days.

It wasn't just the way he looked,
it wasn't because of his athlethic body or his amazing brown eyes.
It wasn't that he seemed to be irreverent and rebel.
It was something that she knew about him inspite of having no idea of who he was.
So, after a few days she got the courage to get his attention in a mild way.

Waiting wasn't easy as it usually never is
the idea of not hearing back from him was very clear
but what a surprise when he finally replied.
Oh, was she happy!
He had said: "Hi" and she said: "Hello" and then a story begun... Would it end up being that they fall in love?
Who knows?
Truth is that the journey shared in a daily basis
has become her motivation to be a better human being
the reason why she is smiling everyday.

He said: "Hi" and she said: "Hello" and the whole world turned.

What a great day this was and how much I wish my friend was here so the end of the day would be perfect.

There is a very difference between not giving up and going the extra mile to accomplish a goal within your relationship than to have a constant struggle and fight. I believe that what you are saying is that you are willing to do anything, go anywhere and loss anything in order to be with the one you love but from there to say that figthing your way through love is the right way to go is somewhat different. Nonetheless, I do agree with the fact that in order to make a relationship work you always need to step out of your comfort zone but yeah, when two people love each other quarrel, arguing and fighting are not really there if they are is because one of them is more interested on mantaining their own end than to, within reason, giving more than taking out from it.

I believe the worst thought one can have is to think you are not good enough for something or someone or that you have nothing to offer.

I am VERY selective of whom I respond to and it has to do with a few variables. What they wrote on the profile and on the email they sent to contact me. Their pictures and what they tell me, where they live, what they are interested, the age difference if there is any, their probable relationship expectations and their looks. I know this may be too much for some people but there is really no point on making someone feel bad about an awkward "Thank you but no thank you" email answer. It's just me and how I do things but I am not saying its the best or even the acceptable thing. You wanted to know and so I answered your question. If you are not getting too many responses then you may want to consider a few reasons and not only one.

As someone that gave more than took from others. Like the best hugger ever!!

Well, I guess that depends on the kind of woman you are talking about. Some don't mind and some get paid to do it so, if you're into it you know where to look for it but if you are talking an old school type of girl such as myself the answer is obvious. Of course not.

I can only speak for myself. I want someone that is not looking among a dozen options, someone for whom my friendship is enough to keep him coming back for more. Someone that is funny and is not afraid to say "I miss you" and get chessy from time to time. Someone that is faithful and down to earth. He doesnt have to be perfect or even wealthy I dont care for none of those. I only want someone that is willing to do a monogamous relationship since the very first stages of friendship. Most men do not agree with this concept and they try by all means possible to keep their options open but that is such a turn off for me and pretty much that person is going to the friends zone no doubt. I mean, after all If you like the guy and you get along there is no reason to not develop a nice friendship but the moment I know I am only an option then he totally becomes another choice for me. Hope this helps ;).

I have been reading this kind of posts for a while now. I know a lot of guys here are into sex chats and all but I mean it doesnt take that long to spot someone that is going on that direction. I have been able to go past the idiots and to be honest I have met unbelievable guys here. I mean I am currently talking to someone that is not only a great guy but has a unique personality and is into so many artistic hobbies that it's amazing every time we talk on the phone. I have also made great friends more than a handfull and so I get really surprised that among thousands of guys people continue to complaint that there are only pervs on this site when I have been lucky enough to find so many that are worth it. Sorry, to hear about your bad luck though and I don't mean to rain on your parade or anything If anything I am looking to encourage you. There is someone just right for you, you just need time.

Depends on the person but from the ones I have met I would have to say that I like younger better.