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I'm about to go cook some tacos. But before I go I want to start this post to get feed back on what you think flirting. I don't consider myself a flirt. I just like joking with people and I'm a fairly friendly person. I don't know if anyone on here has considered anything I've said to be flirtatious. Which is also part of the reason I'm doing this thread.
I've noticed that some people seem to think that just because someone is nice to them that it means they're flirting. Has anyone else noticed that? Later people. Perhaps I'll have replies to this when I come back and maybe I won't. Time will tell. hahaha |
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Social skills vary considerably and some folks interpret any conversation as an overture though it my not be your intention. The more sophisticated the person the more accurate their social perceptions. Learning how to read different cues of friendliness to genuine interest are difficult and easily misinterpreted but its not your job to clarify your intentions but simply enjoy your social interactions and let others feel or see it as they choose.
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I, too, do not think I have ever flirted on here.
Also, I agree that some people think you have a thing for them if you merely chat with them. They should really ask, sometime. |
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Yeah, had a discussion about this with a female friend on here. She just considered it to be joking around.
The way that I look at it, there's a difference between flirting on a public forum and flirting in private messages. Some other people may not see it that way though. What are you supposed to take seriously? |
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Thank you to those who replied while I was cooking and eating. hahaha
Hope if anyone else has any questions on the topic or feedback they will feel free to post. |
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Edited by
2KidsMom
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Wed 01/22/14 07:01 PM
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Sup Sup Izzy man...I think your real Trill.
Sherrie~Pie I wonder how, I come across to people? It is hard to tell sometimes ....whether someone likes you...or just joking or just being friendly. I have made that mistake before..thinking someone really liked Me..when they didn't...they were just being friendly |
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What is trill?
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I, too, do not think I have ever flirted on here. Also, I agree that some people think you have a thing for them if you merely chat with them. They should really ask, sometime. no means yes |
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What is trill? Your true n real... ..your trill |
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This actually reminds me of one time I was talking to some guy on here in a thread and at one point he felt the need to say he wasn't gay. I seem to recall my response being something like what a coincidence I'm not gay either. lol
Didn't seem to get I was just talking since no one else was talking to him. hahaha |
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What is trill? Your true n real... ..your trill Why can't it be trull, trell or trall? lol |
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I wouldnt know he was flirting ..I'm kinda dense that way but I have been accused of flirting once in ahile
Seriously speaking..some people do get it all wrong when I'm just being nice and silly. And yes there is a difference in what and how you say things on the forums and in private. I do know of a few here that openly flirt with everyone |
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I don't read into things enough to know when someone is flirting. So unless a girl were dry humping my leg I would probably be clueless. lol
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All I read was tacos. Flirting is usually useless, but tacos...
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Social skills vary considerably and some folks interpret any conversation as an overture though it my not be your intention. The more sophisticated the person the more accurate their social perceptions. Learning how to read different cues of friendliness to genuine interest are difficult and easily misinterpreted but its not your job to clarify your intentions but simply enjoy your social interactions and let others feel or see it as they choose. This. |
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All I read was tacos. Flirting is usually useless, but tacos... Sorry the tacos are gone. lol |
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Dammit Izzy.
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Well if I had known you wanted some I would have saved one for ya. But it probably would be moldy by the time you claimed it. lol
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Yeah moldy tacos sort of kill the mood. I just had a plate of fries, so I'm good.....
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Maybe next time I can spray one with lacquer for ya. The it will keep longer. lol
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