I met a girl online we had several text messages then we decided to meet. We met at a little Mexican restaurant for a bite to eat. conversation was good, we didn't have to try. We sat at the bar I was there waiting on her and when she got there I asked for a table but she wanted to sit there at the bar. We had a good time We are going to go out again and we still talk online. The thing that bothers me is the entire time we were out she didn't look at me, she constantly looked away

see what happens this time

Maybe she is shy and once you have met a few more times she will be able to look at you. I know I am shy and I usually find it hard to look at someone right away.
Give it time...but if she continues looking away, just ask her why she never looks at you when she talks to you. Maybe that will break the ice a little bit too.
Good luck.

People usually look away to break the connection.
Cut the intensity as it were.
Very interesting.

thanks I'll let you know

may the gods be with you..

I agree here.

She could have been really shy

This. My immediate thought was she might be shy.

7 tips on how to KISS a guy
for
the
FIRST TIME
1. Avoid being nervous
First kiss can make you nervous.
If you stress out, then
everything
can
go wrong. Just relax and enjoy
the moment. Do not show any signs
of nervousness at the moment,
this
can
be a turn off for the guy.
2. Avoid pungent smell Avoid foods with pungent smell.
This includes garlic and onion. If
you
are
going on a dinner date, then
have something mild. Also, have some
mint or use a mouth freshener
before
your
date. Bad mouth odour is a
major turn off for any guy.
3. Keep your lips kiss ready
Soft lips are an instant turn on
for
a
man. So, keep your lips kiss ready
for
the situation. Apply a lip balm
to
make your lips smooth in
texture. Do not overdo your lip makeup.
Avoid
applying too much of lipstick on
your
lips.
4. Go easy on kissing When the moment is right, just
get
closer to your guy. Make an
eye
contact, because that heats up
the moment. Place your hands on
his shoulders and gently brush
your
lips
on his. A soft stroke should be
perfect for your first kiss.
5. Wait for the perfect stroke
When you touch his tongue,
pause
for
a moment. If you get a positive reaction, then continue with
the
kiss. Just go by the flow of the
moment
and make your kiss a special
first one.
6. Do not feel awkward If you
feel awkward or nervous,
then
everything can go wrong. It is
important to feel good about the
whole thing. Feeling awkward
also
indicates that it is a forced
kiss.
Do not spoil the moment with this
behaviour. First kiss should
make
you feel good and positive.
7. Talk about the first kiss
There is nothing wrong in discussing
about the first kiss. Talk to
your guy
regarding the kissing style. Tell
him
your choice and style of kissing. When you discuss the kissing
types, you kind of become
more
comfortable
regarding the whole thing. It
will become much easier to kiss
your
partner.

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forever grateful to you for enlighting them with your

"How-To" instruction manual.....

In the words of the late, great Jack Soo, "Very well put."