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Topic: I need someone to talk to. I am feeling real bad
stephen84usa's photo
Tue 01/07/14 11:37 PM
My heart is hurting.. its like the feeling of a broken heart.. I put my hand over my heart and with every beat, it hurts..I just cant take it anymore...

boredinaz06's photo
Wed 01/08/14 12:00 AM


Hang in there, whatever is going on is only temporary. If its over a chick, don't be a jackass and just move on. Be strong and don't let the world get ya.

If we never had struggle or heartache life would be pretty damn boring.

Face up and carry on, for the sun will rise againdrinker

stephen84usa's photo
Wed 01/08/14 12:12 AM



Hang in there, whatever is going on is only temporary. If its over a chick, don't be a jackass and just move on. Be strong and don't let the world get ya.

If we never had struggle or heartache life would be pretty damn boring.

Face up and carry on, for the sun will rise againdrinker


I usually listen to music when I'm feeling down. Atlanta Rhythm Section, among other groups in that genre of oldies classic rock but The pain is still present but oldies music is the best anti-depressant for me.

boredinaz06's photo
Wed 01/08/14 12:16 AM




Hang in there, whatever is going on is only temporary. If its over a chick, don't be a jackass and just move on. Be strong and don't let the world get ya.

If we never had struggle or heartache life would be pretty damn boring.

Face up and carry on, for the sun will rise againdrinker


I usually listen to music when I'm feeling down. Atlanta Rhythm Section, among other groups in that genre of oldies classic rock but The pain is still present but oldies music is the best anti-depressant for me.


Do what you gotta do and keep on keepin on:thumbsup:

stephen84usa's photo
Wed 01/08/14 12:24 AM
I just cant stop feeling that burning sensation in my heart.. I feel like I am dying inside. How do you fix something like that? Yeah music for me is like an anti-depressant but it can only help so much.

stephen84usa's photo
Wed 01/08/14 12:45 AM
I have been hurt by women my whole life and it is burning my heart..

stephen84usa's photo
Wed 01/08/14 01:10 AM
... and I'm not a bad person...I dont know why I have to be hurt all the time..

Rizajune's photo
Wed 01/08/14 01:36 AM
It takes time to heal a broken heart. It's so hard at first, but believe me everything will get better as time goes on...

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Wed 01/08/14 01:41 AM
Try reading the Bible. The words in it gave me enough comfort when the same things happened to me and prevented me
from taking my own life .

stephen84usa's photo
Wed 01/08/14 02:00 AM

Try reading the Bible. The words in it gave me enough comfort when the same things happened to me and prevented me
from taking my own life .


I go to Church from time to time and yes the bible does help when your emotionally disturbed. I'm happy you didnt take your own life, because that would be devastating to a lot of people who know you.

Emyugwu's photo
Wed 01/08/14 02:25 AM
I have like problem of meeting people I suppose to miss ,and missing people I should meet

Emyugwu's photo
Wed 01/08/14 02:27 AM
yes , time they say heals all wounds

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Wed 01/08/14 03:30 AM
Edited by CremeBrulee on Wed 01/08/14 03:32 AM

... and I'm not a bad person...I dont know why I have to be hurt all the time..


This may sound insensitive,BUT,JUST SNAP OUT OF IT ALREADY!

I've read quite a good number of your threads,responded to some even,but seems your are not doing anything about the things you moan about!

Its all in your hands,just do something about your situations before you crass out on us!!

Well,jmo!

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Wed 01/08/14 03:38 AM


... and I'm not a bad person...I dont know why I have to be hurt all the time..


This may sound insensitive,BUT,JUST SNAP OUT OF IT ALREADY!

I've read quite a good number of your threads,responded to some even,but seems your are not doing anything about the things you moan about!

Its all in your hands,just do something about your situations before you crass out on us!!

Well,jmo!

drinker

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Wed 01/08/14 05:35 AM
The pain of a broken heart can do more damage than any illness, but I wouldn't trade this bleeding for anything in the world. It's your choice though to see it for what it is and allow it to be a strength. For a long time I suffered the torture of loosing, just like a lot of others here. This is a big factor and component of mingle after all. Life for whatever reason has handed many of us what we thought was a separation from love, but I think maybe we did the separating. Life is a path, and we can find the happiness on that path or refuse to look at the possibilities because we choose to stay inside of that shell. That shell does nothing but keep us looking inward and blinds us to look at ourselves for what and who we really are, who we really can be.

the BeeGees made it romantic

And how can you mend a broken heart?
How can you stop the rain from falling down?
How can you stop the sun from shining?
What makes the world go round?
How can you mend a this broken man?
How can a loser ever win?

but they also gave an answer

Please help me mend my broken heart and let me live again.

Mending and living, is far more productive than staying broken. It doesn't really matter how long it takes. It's our years to make work or fix or stay broke, but what if we become a better, more sensitive, outgoing, caring and sharing person? One that gets past what others think and steps out of that shell? What if we become bigger than ourself?

That's what I want to do. I want to be bigger than me. I want people to know they have worth, and that worth means something. It can't be all about me, or what people think of me. It's got to be me thinking outside of my own self.

This for me, is how I find my way back to love. I don't think love ever leaves us, I think we leave love.

jonny63's photo
Wed 01/08/14 07:04 PM
Feeling pretty bad about yourself because you didn't live up to someone elses expectations? Wow, I bet that no one on this site has ever been through that......

Get back up and shake it off! I know it just sounds easy but nobody can do it for you. When you get a little older it may be a bit easier, and I'm sayin if its happened once it'll probably happen again. Life will always be a pain in the a$$!

Go get a hooker, maybe that'll help.:angel:

soufiehere's photo
Wed 01/08/14 07:33 PM
When what you want most from life eludes you,
the pain can be overwhelming.

But it is part of the journey, part of life itself.

You can change your pathways, see things positively
instead of negatively, this can help.

Like mg1959 said, we have all been where you are.
You have no idea what wonderful things may lay in
your path in the now and in the future.

It is worth it to find out.

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Fri 01/10/14 06:08 AM
trust in God n pray abt all u goin thru n cast all ur burdens to Christ fo He cares fo u

MoonsDragonLionWolf's photo
Fri 01/10/14 08:33 AM

My heart is hurting.. its like the feeling of a broken heart.. I put my hand over my heart and with every beat, it hurts..I just cant take it anymore...


Join the club alongside everyone else.
Grab some duct tape and patch up your heart.
From there move on and leave the past behind you.

Even if all of the Mountain Dew is gone! :angry:

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Sun 01/12/14 04:14 AM
Awwwwwww.....just sending you some hugs :)
Just know whatever your going through it will pass.
You have to know your own self worth.. God loves you and if he can love you, then you are worth being loved.
Never let another human being define you. .if you are doing everything that you can to be a great person in a relationship especially and that person doent value and appreciate you just let them go. You can cry but dont cry for long. Pull yourself together and move on. Women like confident men and right now you are just heart broken but not broken.
Read your bible and pray and continue to be wonderful you. Find the things in life that make you happy,and hopefully a true woman will see that and appreciate you for the man you are . I hope you feel better :)

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