When I was 17 I cheated. I kissed "another" girl at a party. I felt so guilty, I had a tearful confession the next day. That was the last time.

I get, "I CALL BS!!!" all of the time....I suppose I have "emotionally" "cheated" since then.....but it seems that the idea of guys being true and faithful is impossible to believe.

If it makes you feel any better, I don't trust women either.

somehow...yes

I think what is really important is to be able to trust yourself.

A woman will believe anything a man says........ if he happens to be the first liar shes met!!!!

I was told to not assume there aren't others with just as much (or little) character or honesty or intelligence,,,etc,,as I have

I am a faithful woman, so I have no reason not to believe there are faithful men

although I don't think the culture stigmatizes them quite the same way for being 'promsicuous' or running from their responsibilities after (children)

Gotta doobie in one hand and a drink in the other?

^^^^^
That's it right there, and the rest are just stupid stiff pricks to me
at least thats how I look at them when I'm in a relationship
Its within her I need to trust
and my motto (slogan) that I live by is respecting my woman
is respecting myself.
it might help to love one and be mean to the rest.
One woman I was with for 6 yrs said "I don't have to ever worry
about woman with you, you don't like woman at all "I don't"?
"No! Your not very nice at all" Thats because they can't cut me off.

I've been cheated on, never cheated. It sucks.

"If you can't trust. You can't be trusted." -Ben Folds

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SgdR6s9btBE

I have only ever been with guys who do not cheat.
Lotsa weeding goes on.

So, I am a believer :-)

The only solution is trust and time. But it's trust and time that you lose. I lost 5 years once, 10 years the second time, and 2 years the third time. I don't stay, I leave them to their wares. Very frustrating.

Trust? What`s that? Is there really such a thing? I`ve still yet to see it as I`ve been the one cheated on, but yet was the one getting double checked on in my past relationships. I think it`s why I gave up on dating and just prefer to be a bachelor anymore.

Now sex on the other hand Pun intended. That`s something I miss from time to time, but that`s why God allowed most of us to be ambidextrous. Rosie or Jill

I've never been able to grow a good garden, I do ok with house plants though.

Sometimes you got look deep inside youself and find the real you.than you will understand people.women if men dont treat you right--- find the" WHY"

Buh some guys are just too jealous

Most women do not trust men they know nothing about. They listen to the things you tell them and remember it. I will call you at 7...and you blow it off call late or another time and use an excuse. It wont win you any credit. The guy who does follow through on his word, communicates, is consistent most likely will be trusted by his actions backing up his words.

Think of the guy who is the most irresponsible person you know. Might be fun as hell to hang out with. Everyone likes him life of the party. Goes through jobs, women, money, booze, moves a lot, lives in the moment always, wild crazy untamed. This is the guy you want to be least like for women to trust you. Even though we still like him to have the fun side as well just when its us hes included in the fun.

My husband cheated on me several different times after 18 yrs of marriage so after we started talking again I cheated on him with his best friend but we were not
Back together yet ....... But I looked at it as a payback and if he truly loved me he would feel the hurt I did And do you know till this day he still cries. After 6 years When he calls to speak with his son and told me if he never did what he did I would have stood by his side forever and he realizes that now that was his lesson my lesson was too wrongs don't make it right

Anyone that has ever been cheated on or lied to will have a difficult time finding the ability to trust again. It gets even worse if it happens multiple times with different partners. You even get so you don't trust yourself anymore. The real question, it seems to me, is how do you regain that ability?

What you stated is very true...the more infidelities, the more lack of trust and disbelief at anything that person tells you. Trust can be re-established in new relationships, it's not impossible, but it is very difficult. The only option there is to find a partner who is willing to be patient and understanding of the things you have experienced in past relationships, and be willing to prove with love and time, that they truly are different and can be trusted. Unfortunately, those are truly hard to find. JMHO