What is the best status to be in ?

Which ever that makes you happy~~~

Very confusing..

I prefer single.

Status?...Are we being graded?

i vote single..u may get lonely @ tyms bt trst me,u d get a break..no mo wrryng abwt hw ur acts wil affct ur partner

dating sucks

“It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman.” But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband.


IF sex is not a need, its best to stay single, in my opinion

if sex is a necessity, its best to commit to a partner , also my opinion

There's no better or worse, it's about being happy with where you are.
For me right now, it's being single. But as soon as I will meet the right guy, that will probably change.
Not sure if I'd want to be married again though.

Personally I would not want to get married, but I would spend the rest of my life with someone.

To a man, I think the marriage contract is a bit ridiculous. My father was divorced twice and both times he lost his house, car and kids. My mother was also divorced twice and both times she got his house, cars and kids. Why would anyone sign a contract that says if you ever decide not to be together the other person can take your stuff? Makes perfect sense to a women though, if she doesn't want him anymore she gets to take his stuff and find a new guy to scam.

divorce is nasty sometimes, but there is no mandate of what the other will get,, they have to want and accept it

and when kids are in the picture, its not about one person getting the others stuff,, its about the children not having to suffer because of the parents mistakes


I personally think that the one left to bring up the kids SHOULD be getting whatever is available to do that so the children aren't punished

single adults should be able to look after themselves,,,,

just my opinion

though, I don't think I would have a 'legal' marriage again either, I probably will opt for a simple religious ceremony,,,,without government involvement,,,

hopefully I wont marry some guy who thinks his 'stuff' is more important than the welfare of his children,,,,but hopefully I will be in a position that it wont matter if he does,,,,

neither is best, griping about the past or what happened to someone else makes it harder to move on. when there is a lot of bitterness I feel it is best to remain single.

I know of situations where divorce penalties were ridiculous for one partner...both for the female as well as the man. I also know of very amicable divorces that were very fair. a lot of folk recommend prenups....wouldn't cohab. w/out one :)

I totally agree wth u..msharmony..its actually based on scripture..wat u say!...iv been single for quite a while..its not bcos ders a shortage of men..but simply bcos..i get to choose who i want in my life!!..im so inluv wth me..im attractiv..intelligent..independent..&vry happy wth me!!.. I dnt feel sexualy frustrated!..i no sumday..il meet sum one i desrv &vicer versa..all gud thngs..*** to those dat wait!!..happy single!!

lovely,, kudos to you

Thanx fwend!

amen to that. well put....no doors closed in particular, no absolutes there for me either, no definite plans no real like or dislike for the institution...just don;t feel I really need it one way or the other....

In canada, you don't have to be married to lose all that. You just need to be living common law for a certain amount of time. i think its that way in some US States as well.

Your question is vague and ambiguous its almost as if you are bereft of sentient status

married to someone you hate..but will give a few hand jobs
single, to wait a true love
hmm