Women are always talking about honesty but whenever I am honest they don't reward me. For example, whenever I see a decent looking bird on here I send them a message along the lines - "I think you look nice and I would like to have sex with you. Are you interested?" But they only laugh or ignore it.

It seems to me you got to jump through lots of hoops to get women these days. I wish I could've been around during the hippie sixties or the viking era. Alas, nowadays you got to hangout with them in coffee shops and wine bars all day long before you can have your way with them and even then it isn't guaranteed.

Could it be because they think you are selfish and self centered and figure it would be such a poor physical exchange that it has to be laughed off? Sex seems to be something you want so much but are you really that good at it? Or did a prostitute , or and imaginary lover, tell you that you were wonderful, and you were ignorant enough to believe it? I see your rather teen like appearance and wonder if you are not infact a virgin and it is imaginative thinking.

Dude, are you deliberately seeking verbal punishment?

Him acting like a teenager who wants to lose his virginity?

No way!

Aww punkin, I feel so bad for you.
I think the hoop-jumping might stimulate my girl dog..

Maybe he's a masochist. Just can get abused enough.

As my response to the OP. All I can say is if I had a girl that sent me a msg saying she wanted to jump my bones my initial response would probably be to laugh at her. Especially if that's her opening line. Now if she asked me to fix her computer and then after said she didn't have money to pay for and could we work something else out...

Your good deed for the day?

Well, you certainly have mastered the hairstyle...

Attention seeker..is all I can say..is that even your real pic?

Seems to me that your head swells more with each new Topic you post

Cuddlebunny. Why would you question my profile pictures? Hahahha! Now I know you got the hots for me. Go on tell me I'm a stud. I know you want to.

Sometimes you just gotta put on your bigboy pants and learn to jump through hoops. Sometimes they even set them on fire. But you man up and jump through them. Complaining about the hoops only makes them get out whips and chairs. While whips can be fun when they put a chair in your face as well it kinda sucks. Those that get good at jumping through hoops and can do it without a cue are rewarded and praised for how amazing they are.

They aren't all like that mate. I've never been in a wine bar in my life and the only coffee shops I've been in were in Amsterdam and I've still managed to have sex with women without having to pay for it.

It isn't about having to lie to them. Women aren't so stupid that they can't tell that a guy wants to have sex with them if he doesn't just come out and say it. It's the other way round. They think that every guy wants to have sex with them, even when they might not, or want more than just that.

You're using the wrong aproach on here. Go on a casual sex site and ask them if they're up for it and see what happens. Those women are more than happy to cyber and unless you're really creepy or ugly you can chat away with them all day about what you want to do to them.

If you wish that you were back in the hippy days find a bird that wants to get stoned with you. More people smoke dope these days than they ever did and they aren't doing it in wine bars. Bollocks to wine bars. I've got beer in the fridge and I'll get a bottle of wine in for those "cosy nights in" that half of these women say that they like on their profiles. Ask them round to your place for a coffee. If you're lucky you can find women that aren't even interested in conventional dating. They're out there alright.

What you have to bear in mind though is that women are nervous of strangers and you've got to put them at their ease. "I want to have sex with you" is just a crap chat up line and even most of the ones that are looking for that sort of thing want a guy that's actually interested in them as a person. Do you actually like women, or do you just fancy them? What's the problem with taking a girl out for a drink anyway? I would rather do that than sit drinking on my own or with a bunch of arseholes that just talk about football. Find a girl that you've actually got something in common with. Even my brother has women coming round for a chat with him sometimes and he hardly ever even goes out of his flat.

And that, my friend, is some real good advice!


If a man can't even be @rsed to talk to a woman, how can he expect her to want to have sex with him? Anyone with a brain could work out that that is NOT how it works. If your only goal is a hole, as you so charmingly put it, and can't even be bothered to give a woman the time of day, go see a prostitute.

Strange Ideas you got about them Hippie-Days!

Unfortunately CrystalFairy, prostitution is not legal here. It is very hush hush. Where they are and how to make contact with them I do not know. I detest all the sneaking around anyway so even if I did know I wouldn't use them.

Well, I guess that leaves you with two options: either suck it up or change your attitude

You tell him Pacific.

lol i believe he is, but then again he seems so immature that he may actually believe there is nothing wrong with what he's saying. I started to reply to his post but just decided against it because he probably wouldn't understand my reply anyways lol seems rather desperate lol.

lol

I agree.