Yet again wisdom from the mouth of Mg.

As some had spoken about kids being a contributing factor in the amount of sex a couple has I dunno if thats really true. Kids being in the picture just means we get creative with how we go about having our adult fun. Like locking the laundry room door and pressing her against the washing machine in a passionate embrace from out of nowhere. Or coming home for lunch and some afternoon delight.

I'm a pretty passionate person to begin with so for me it happens a lot in a relationship. I also saw people mentioning the honeymoon stage. I haven't ever noticed a difference even with the woman I had been with for a few years.

I know for a fact that my fire for her wont stop burning just because time passes. Its a part of my life and my how I show my love. If my fire and passion for a person stops theres bigger issues with the relationship as a whole and she's likely not the right one for me.

There really is nothing greater than being able to completely share your whole being with another.

Well said lionsbrew.
That really sums me up to. However in my case over years I was being drifted apart and no matter what I did to try to relight the fire for her it just was in vain to the point where we only had passion whenever she wanted which wasn't a lot.
Also just so people know I made a big effort and tried various ways to help us. But I truly believe you cant make someone want what you want.
The phrase leading a horse to water comes to mind.
Maybe I didn't have the courage to break up a marriage and a 14 year relationship.
I meant my vowels when I said them, through thick and thin and hard times i will always be there. Shame it wasnt reciprocated.
And it wasnt due to lack of sex that we separated by the way.

All part of life's experiences man. We live and we learn.

Yeah I suppose.
But the heartache and needless arguing hurts.
It's unnecessary.

In the grand scheme of things we are not hear for too long and by the time we find the right person it doesn't last long at all.

Warms my heart when you see an old couple that have been together for 40 years and they still love each other.
They must have had bad times at some point.
Depends on what people are prepared to argue over, is the argument really necessary or could it be said that it's not worth it and lets move past this.

Funny I don't feel over sexed!

Perhaps I'll feel differently after I get my 3 hours tonight.

It is a hard and fast rule right? My man must comply on my birthday and if he gripes, I'm printing this **** out!!

I dunno. Sure, in a perfect world I'd have sex really often, but sex is only one form of intimacy. My man and I 'negotiate' sex, but it's not like we sit down at the beginning of the week and hash out a hard and fast deal. He works a ton, and sometimes he just can't find the energy. I suffer from health issues, so sometimes I can't comply with his wishes. Frequency rates aren't set in stone, nor should they be.

We may not always be able to have sex when we want, but we're always intimate and that's more important.

3 hour sessions are reserved for birthdays anniversaries Christmas & or new years.

And misswright your starting to frighten me with your sexual prowess.
You over sexed minx...


Funny I don't feel over sexed!

Perhaps I'll feel differently after I get my 3 hours tonight.

It is a hard and fast rule right? My man must comply on my birthday and if he gripes, I'm printing this **** out!!

I dunno. Sure, in a perfect world I'd have sex really often, but sex is only one form of intimacy. My man and I 'negotiate' sex, but it's not like we sit down at the beginning of the week and hash out a hard and fast deal. He works a ton, and sometimes he just can't find the energy. I suffer from health issues, so sometimes I can't comply with his wishes. Frequency rates aren't set in stone, nor should they be.

We may not always be able to have sex when we want, but we're always intimate and that's more important.




No there are no rules and to make some could damage a relationship.
So long as you both are happy and willing when the opportunity arises (nice pun there)
Then that is a good healthy relationship.

When you have 4 women and only a 3 pack of condoms?

"Didn't get it "
then your Compression should be fine.

more like,How much is not enough?

How much is too much?

When it interferes with work or taking care of the kids! Other than that, whatever works for you. :)

I think that to start off saying that sex is different for everyone is the right answer. For some couples every day may not be enough, while for others once a month is to much. I think that if you still desire your spouse then you will want her every day because you love her everyday. The question is that life comes along and dictates your mood or feeling i.e. long hard day at work, kids drive you crazy, or just to tired. What happens if your in the mood and she's not. Start off with some relaxing quite time together and set the mood hold her kiss her gently give her a message or prepare a nice hot tub for her to relax in play some soft music. Amazing how her mood can change when she sees how much you care about her. If you love her I mean really love her she is the most important part of your life then sex will be an important part also. Be more romantic gentle and kind.

I guess... there's nothing like too much.... !!

Coz I Cant imagine life without it!!!

Yeah....another name for a woman's vagina. Another other questions? Ask Google.

Recycle!!!!

Thank you.

Wow I guess I am the only one going with out sex? Or are we talking about when we were married? If we are talking about being single and having sex..then maybe I need to change my ways? I abstain from sex and I have for over 4 years now. OH THE GASPS I CAN HEAR THEM NOW!!
When I was married or in a deep relationship, it seemed like OMG is there anything in life as good as sex? We were one of those couples that just looked at each other and could not keep our hands off of each other.
As for now..I have not found the person to even think about any kind of relationship. I am not the kind of person just to have a sexual relationship with just anyone. I am a strange or what???

Unsure, you're not the only one. I haven't had sex in years and years....it's not a big deal...and I think most people who brag about how much they do it aren't really doing anything...

Thank you paintecards, it is good to know that I am not strange and I am not the only one that has respect for myself all of these years. Life does go on with out a sexual relationship!!! SHOCKER EH???

ok im not a man and also looked at your profile and you are younger than i am so i can only answer this as a woman at your age cause i was.. for one it depends on age.. but wben i was your age and and at the prospective when i was your age.. i would say.. a good 5 times a week maybe 5 times... i dont know what you are really asking for.. i mean u dont dont mention your partners age.. so what is your answer? edit.... and that was for making love to someone who loved me and i loved them.. not just sex