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hey, that's been happening to me the past week or so, I thought it was just my computer

I think maybe it's mingle playing up? Cause it happens to me as well

As for the thread, if a woman says no, then don't sulk about it, it's not her duty just cause she's dating you or married to you to have sex with you whenever you want it, go read a book or something, take her out for dinner, but it's not the end if the world and your not going to die if you don't have sex today

Yeah, from what I've seen that's what happens when mods delete a posting which happened to be the 1st on a new page.
For some reason or other that newly created page doesn't disappear

That's pretty much why I was suggesting masturbation. hahaha

I would like to find women interested in the exchange of mutual massages.is this asking too much?

just so the toy's name isn't "Bambi in Red Leather" that you brought home from Gus's "Playjamboree: Where We Meet To Swing"

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it depends on what your meaning of "deprived" is if you mean they stopped all together then to me they are now really just a friend, if you boil it down the difference between friends and intimate partners is sex. If they stopped then they are now just a friend, if wwasn't married to them I would tell them such and also tell them I want a lover and not just a friend, if they didn't want to be that then iI would let them know I was going to look elsewhere, if I was married I would explain the same thing

so dude you wouldn't be curious as to why she no longer wanted to shake it withya??

of course I'd be curious, because as I've stated in other threads I think "lack of sex drive" translates to "lack of attraction" that being said all things being equal I would hope they would communicate that with my, but if they are just stopping and using it ad a reward system than adios

If you were married, you would actually tell your wife that you were going to get it somewhere else? I think what you should do is talk about it and find out what is going on, maybe something is going on with her.
As women get older, I think our sex drive changes. When we go through menopause our whole body changes. Things do change with age but you can not talk to a man about it and make them understand. If it is menopause and you don't stick by your wife...then that is bad.
I just think a lot of people don't talk any more. Communication in a relationship is the most important thing. If you can not talk to your mate, you have problems.
Women are so easy to figure out...JUST LISTEN TO THEM!!

If you're looking for justification for cheating...keep looking. I've never had a relationship where they didn't want to have sex so IDK. If they never did I would want to know why.

if we had the money, we could buy all the sex we "need"...

hehehe...same goes

Of course i'd talk to them, if i didn't how would I know or not if they "didn't want" to be a lover. However, the essence of the conversation wouldn't change much if it was with a girlfriend or a wife, the bottom line would be "if you've decided not to have sex with me anymore, then you are just a friend,, of course you can change that, but if you don't have a desire to, then I'll be looking elsewhere" of course a divorce would precede the actual looking. But the end message would be the same, either this needs to change(and if that takes both of us to change than fine) or I'm gone.

I've deprived myself of sex my whole life, so I guess I shouldn't be commenting.

Come to think of it, are there any good old fashioned monasteries lying around? I know they're out of style in this day and age but there's got to be one around here somewhere. xD

I used to think it'd be nice to join a convent...I like the clothes and the crosses and the ceremony, but I'm not very good at taking direction, so that might not work out so well.

Only so much you can do...Stay and forgo sex, masturbate, have sex with someone else, masturbate, biotch about it, masturbate, end the relationship, masturbate, talk to a counselor, masturbate, get drunk, masturbate, get stoned, masturbate, immerse yourself in your work, masturbate, workout, masturbate, eat ice cream, masturbate, read books, or.........................................come up with your own solution(s) to the problem