would you have sex with your lover if he/she asks you for?

No, i would not till after marriage.

I think the word "lover" generally indicates a sexual relationship anyway...

Humm if they are you lover then your already having sex with them... so why wouldn't you have sex with them..Besides they should not have to ask you for it should be a natural thing...

I came here to say that. Otherwise, they're your friend...

You mean if she was bored of a soft Touch And
she wants it rough in every. .. yeah I could
do that for her, that's what I'm willing to do
for her.
That's Love

Timing is everything.

If he asks in the middle of the Red Sox playoff game, well the answer is a resounding no. During the season, it depends on the opponent, inning, score, and who's pitching for the Sox. If we're playing the Yankees...definite "Not now honey, after the game."

If it's during a football game or Bruins game, that's what they make halftime and intermissions for.

If we're home, then the answer is generally yes, yes, and oh yes please! (except for the previously mentioned Sox related automatic no )

If we're out at the movies, on a dinner date, or dancing in a bar, well maybe not right that second, not going at it like rabbits in the middle of a restaurant, ...but I'll give him a raincheck for when we get home, or depending on how many drinks I've had, on the ride home.

A "lover" already implies you're engaging in sex with your partner. The only issue here seems to be the "when he/she asks for it" part. For me, it's all about the timing.

We are going to have to call you {{{{missrighttiming}}}

"Timing is everything" (I can see in your future)

So missright is sitting at the sox game for
the World series, game 7 a man sitting
close by struck up a conversation,saying
isn't it strange that one of the best seats
in the house is empty.
misswright explained that's where my husband has sat for the last 35 good years but has recently past.
well the man passes on his condolences but has to
ask "it's a shame that you couldn't have brought a friend or a family member. misswrite replies, " well normally I do but they're all a the funeral.

Yes timing is everything! The sox won by the way

Your sight is a bit fuzzy on this one I'd say, except for the Sox winning it all hopefully!

Mistake number one...you see it taking the Sox 7 games to win the world series.

Secondly I've never had a husband, nor will I ever have one. The thought of getting married is as horrifying to me as the thought of Dustin Pedroia in a Yankee uniform! And 35 good years? Geez, how old do you think I am?!? Don't answer that!

Lastly, I wouldn't be so cold hearted to skip my man's funeral. I would most certainly put the fool on ice and hold it 'til after game 7 and the Sox victory parade. It's the other part that stops working temporarily.

Yup Pony, timing is everything, so time to get back on topic. sorry OP

Ask me for it? Is that how it's supposed to go?
(Sorry, friggin' SHeridan's doing me head in)

When they say hold on. How long is that suppost to last?

No guy has ever had to ask me. I think one thing just leads to another ;) No asking should need to be done. I can't imagine a man/woman saying "Can we have sex tonight?". How would they even word it? Normally it just happens.

10 minutes

off coarse

If shes my lover she don't need to ask just give me the look and its on. After having kids you learn to get it in while and when you can.

I think,him asking for xx would be a bit too much for me...i mean,usually,in a normal relationship,things/actions flow and follow...one leads to the other-and the mood sets the tone!!

Actions speak louder than words...

Yes if shes my lover I would do anything for her.

Thank you for saying this Last night I got somewhat confused, really couldn't remember being asked or asking, ever. Started thinking I'd missed out on something.
I agree with your posting :)

I'm usually on tap for my partners anyway so no need to ask just start lol

thanks :) Were you a bit drunk? I remember you mentioning Sheridans gone to your head.