Hello my beloved sisters!
I'd really appreciate your feedback on the following please.
My question to you is taken from 2different passages in the bible

The first passage is: Genesis 27-29
The summery of this story is when Jaboc stole Esau's blessings and therefore escaped to Laban's place since Esau wanted to kill him.

The 2nd passage is: 1 Kings 17:8-24
This one was when there was a drought and poverty in the land since people didn't wanna here God's word through Elijah.

Now ladies these two guys had two things inconmon,
The first one was:
* Coming across lacking WHILE having God's blessings.
* They both had to initiate a relationship for acceptance,
Jacob had to break the ice with Rachel,
Elijah had to do likewise with the window.

My question to you fellow sisters in Christ is:
What will it take you to give a benefit of a doubt to a fellow brother who wants to pursues you and maybe you are interested, THOUGH he comes across lacking this particular requirement that's in your list of requirements as seaching for your mate?

Can we have this discuss ladies relating our seach to the two opening passages by Jacob and Elijah.

Much appreciation for your shared thoughts on this subject!!

in person , it is much easier to extend that doubt while taking time to get to know someone and watch their behaviors in different situations

on line, not so much,, words without substance are much easier to pull off on the computer ,,,,

I am not a lady, I just like them. You hit the nail on the head. I can say anything I want and come across as Billy Graham's mentor and be a slease bag in person.

To be safe, 1. Choose carefully. 2. arrange an informal meet in a VERY public place for lunch or coffee, not dinner. Ask questions and watch body language and the eyes. Women are so much better at this than men are. We tend to look other places :-). If you get a bad "vibe" excuse yourself and be polite and say, "You seem like a nice person, but I don't think we are right for each other."

The other alternative is a video call on Skype. You can always block him later. BE SAFE.
Bill