It annoys me how so many nice looking birds settle for average looking guys.

They're looking for something with more depth of character. They see the inside of the package rather than the outer packaging. Substance means everything, not looks!

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soufie
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I agree. I would rather be with an average guy that has personality than a good looking guy that doesn't.

Let's face it, women today would rather be with a Woody Allen than a Napoleon Bonaparte.

WOW you learned that lesson very quickly. Maybe there is hope for you lawgiver. Time to start another thread!

I know for a fact that the dude my ex is with now isn't as good looking as me and he has a small penis. She says that he's just easier to boss around.

What else can they do since you won't show them your face? And if I understand correctly, every guy is average looking compared to you?

Woody Allen or Napoleon? Oh my god, if each and every man looked like that ... I'm starting to feel slightly sick
Woody Allen is gross, friggin pedo


PUKE I'd do without

Gimme the rugged good looks of Sullivan Stapleton

@ TawtStrat, how do you know he has a small penis? You been a peepin' Tom??

I'm about as comfortable picking a man based solely on looks as I am basing my next vehicle purchase on the leather interior.

It doesn't run too good, but it's fun to sit on?

I would take Woody Allens glasses on Woody Harrelson.

I Know eh? Those pretty little Bluebirds just won't leave those old crows alone.

maybe people just aren't as shallow as you. I rather have a woman who is good in conversation and makes me laugh. we also all have our own view on what is attractive. just because you may see a hot woman with a certain man that you may find not attractive, doesn't me she doesn't find him the hottest guy in the world. who is good looking or"hot" is completely subjective. I could look at that same "hot" girl and average guy and say why is that attractive man with that average woman.

personally I like woman who are a bit chubby. I'm not talking fat, but not skin and bones either. I also don't find blonde woman with big breasts attractive. usually a lot of super models in magazines are just ok when I look at them. with tv,magazines, and what not dictating who is attractive and who isn't. it's hard for people to really take a good look at a woman or man, and realize they are attractive to them, and not care what anyone else thinks if they don't conform to societies view on who is "hot". they would be a lot happier.

not really trying to offend you OP, but if you haven't figured out that people see beauty where they want, I can see why you may be still single.

Most women look at the overall package. So as looks may be the first thing to attract attention, a man's mind, and personality will generally win overall.
A good personality can make an averagelooking man handsome/desirable.
A bad/crappy personality can make the most incredible looking guy ugly.

Beauty fades, if you like someones personality your relationship is more likely to last.

I'm single ready to mingle

Duh why do you think so many strippers like the nerdy & geeky types

I don't know you tell me. I don't hangout in places like that.

No Crystal, she told me that he's got a smaller penis than mine while we were in bed together but he wasn't there. She cheated on him with me at the start of their relationship. She also told me that he needs viagra if they want to have an all night shag.

So yeah, I'm better looking, ten years younger, more virile, taller and more well endowed but because I'm not prepared to let her treat me like a doormat I told her that it was over and five years later she's still with him and still telling me intimate details about him and treating him like a mug because he doesn't even know that we are friends and that she still flirts with me.

Tawtrat, are you sure she is not just telling you what you want to hear? Women are deceivers, they tell lies to inflate your ego so they can laugh at you when you become complacent and then they pop your bubble and watch you deflate with joy. They even admit to faking orgasms.

They don't fake orgasms with me mate. What would be the point of that?

But to answer your question, for sure she plays mind games but I've actually met the guy and seen pictures of him on her Facebook and he's really not that hot. I had a three year casual relationship with this woman and we argued constantly but she kept coming back for the sex. She doesn't actually tell me that much about him because she knows that it's a touchy subject but she says that he can tolerate her moods and she admits that he would have to be a pushover to put up with her. She may have met this guy on one of our "breaks" but I was the one that finished it. She actually told me that I needed a younger woman and I certainly don't need viagra to go all night. It was an abusive relationship and yeah, she said plenty of hurtful things to me. I basically couldn't do anything right apart from sex. She's a big believer in astrology and I'm a scorpio and she's an aries.

I'm not insecure about the way that I look, or about my ability to satisfy a woman in bed but it is difficult to find women that I click with personality wise. I'm not whining about that. I'm seeing a pretty girl right now that really likes me and my ex can say what she likes about me because I'm not going there with her again. I play along with her flirting but that's as far as it goes.

Wow, sounds like the two of you should meet! Match made in haven, lol.

Lawgiver, why would women have to fake orgasms with you? I thought you were such a stud?