why is it when people dont have an image they get no replys im blonde, blue eyes, athletic but have no picture but people say its the inside that counts so people reply to people with no image and stop being picky

Why is it that you won't upload a photo? Got something to hide?

In today's world it is sad but it is true...they go by looks.
A lot of people don't care what is on the inside, if you do not have that first connection by looks...then they skip you!
Good Luck

Without a pic, that's just hearsay.

So you're saying from now on I'll have to go to a pub or club wearing a blind-fold cos I find the inside more important than the outside? Or better yet: YOU entering the club with a bag over your head.
Way to go to find a partner!

Saying the inside is more important, doesn't mean to say people don't want to see you! It means: we look beyond less pretty looks. So if you're not Brad Pitt, we'll forgive you.
But still wanna see ya.

If it's what's on the inside that counts why tell us that you're blonde, blue eyed and athletic anyway?

"Hey, I'm a bald midget with bad breath and two heads. Stop being so picky."

First its looks, then its the inside. Thats the problem with online dating. In the real world, when you meet through friends or family, you do notice the look but noticing ones personality comes alot faster in person. They will see if you are a b..ch ot a nice person much sooner. People online can fake it for much longer.

What I'm trying to say is that in real life, in person, someone sees the way you talk, the way you walk, the way you hold yourself and conduct yourself. How you click and vibe together. A homely person can quickly become beautiful as their soul shines through and vise versa.

Online, its very hard to do right away. People tend to look at a pic and form their own fantasy around the person. Its like that when people fantasize about celebs and they are just people like us with flaws...and they say most actors ore boarderline crazy

Get the poonta?

People are so shallow. I don't look at the pictures. All I want to know is what size bra they wear.

LOL you are going to sit there and tell us that you do not look at pictures? So what now we need to post our bra sizes too...OMG men are so shallow and all they want are boobs!!!

What is on the inside matters MOST. But that doesn't mean that what's on the outside doesn't matter AT ALL.

With the dating pool so vast now, thanks to technology, people are quick to skip over profiles without pictures. We have to have something to narrow the field, and for most that's the attraction factor based on what we see. We're visual creatures. Getting to know somebody takes time. Knowing if you're attracted to somebody physically takes about two seconds. And since we need to have both a physical attraction and an emotional draw to the person due to their personality, it's easier to eliminate people based on the physical part first. Certainly more efficient than the other way around.

We may not like it, but them's the apples.

now we can actually agree on something!

Sure, I would prefer it if they put measurements on profiles, rather than vague body shape descriptions like "slender" or "a few extra pounds". Why not?

Geez!

People want the illusion that you are somewhat real in their minds.

You got to admit looking at profile pictures is better than looking at blank profiles. It just means you have to work harder at attracting people on here. Which is bad news for me because my personality sucks.

Well Dude, just upload a pic anyway. You mentioned how
handsome you are and that people say that you're hot.
Take the chance. Put your pic up, and have all the ladies
go ga ga over you.

You wouldn't be the first handsome man with a bad
personality to get a woman.

Not that Im interested. Just curious when one makes bold
statements like that.

No biggie either way. He can put up his pic, and maybe
myself and the other guys can go sulk in a corner.

And if they have a sense of humour.