Ty Cynderella:
Exactly, at least we did have a convo last night (yup on fb). He explained somewhat and said he needs time. and of course he ends it with.. ...I love you. Seeing this is the 2nd time he has done something like this to me. I am giving him time, all the time he wants. I deleted him and blocked him after our convo. He has my number.lol

Thats probably whats up but he denies it.

you put a guy off a couple times most will move on........when a guy says he loves you it could be ways that are not in the ways hear in your head....... we hear things through OUR filter. to touch a man's heart is not the same as a touching women's... most of us use on others what works on us...if you had his heart.... he would move heaven and earth to always be with you.i will give a hint we guys get our worth on what we do, for woman its relationships.when a guy feels good about himself when he is with you....like feels needed, makes a difference, feels manly,important in someones life etc. then when he away from you he misses you and can not wait to get back to you.....good luck...i suggest a good life coach or dating coach to get to the real issues.

Christian Carter writes about "how to keep him" and often addresses issues like "why does he suddenly say he needs time/freedom when you thought everything was fine?"
He explains from a man's point of view, what can be going on, why a man comes up with a statement like that.
It won't take away your pain, but it might help you understand.
http://www.catchhimandkeephim.com/

Men can be pansies.

They will lie cuz they scared of confrontation.

They can also act like monkeys.

They'll swing from one woman to another without letting go.

The ball is in your court.

Will you allow him to hang on?

Yeah, it does sound more like something that a woman would do.

He's got you where he wants you though. You have said that you love him and it sounds like you would take him back in a heartbeat. Now he can say to you later that anything that he's doing just now was "just on a break".