awww! and it was the good one to

I don't think that noticing someone's looks means that person is only into looks.

And to all the ladies complaining, I find it hard to believe you never notice how men look right away.

I don't even look. That's how respectful I am towards women.

Ha!

Look at me for my personality and intellect.

Ok....put your personality and intellect in a bikini.

Expecting a guy to NOT check you out physically is just plain stupid.

Yes...we can and do admire wit, charm, intelligence and all that crap....we also admire the physical stuff too.

Believe it or not...2 minutes after I am introduced to a lady....I haven't had the time to get to know her deep inner beauty...I HAVE had the time to look her over.

Some of y'all resent it...too bad.

Pornography may have ruined a lot of men's concepts of women's bodies and Sex.

But, the Lifetime channel, chick flicks and romance novels have ruined women's concept of actual men in actual reality.

OLE'!!!

Her outward beauty would always caught your attention...Nothing but the truth!

Im sure the notion of this thread was in poor taste too, since it pretty much celebrates the sum of a woman in her body parts. Women exist in a rape culture and this sort of thing is a reminder.

Normally, I'd just laugh it off, but now it's personal and you've just pissed me off. You've just crossed over the line, baby (we gonna take this thing a lil' bit DEEPER)!!!!
Take some time and read the entire tread and you would notice, the author did respond -not to alarm or offend, but "to look at a woman's body secretly!" -pg 3.
This should tell you something. If it doesn't, then let me refresh your memory becoz you're totally out of context when you suggest the a notion of this thread is in "poor taste" :
Let me give it to you this way!
Speaking of body parts!!! Lets talk about the senses.
Sight, taste, touch, hear and smell. You got a problem with that????
Humans are critics/judgemental from any point of the view.
Tasting anything without looking at it first, we can't be conclusive, satisfied or ready to move on with it.
Touching without seeing what it is, we can't be conclusive, satisfied or ready to move on.
Hearing without seeing what it is talking or making noise, we can't be conclusive, satisfied or ready to move on.
To smell something without looking to see what it is, we can't be conclusive, satisfied or ready to move on.
When I speak in terms of move on, I simple suggests we humans always have to have the last word in anything. And without sight sweetheart, not much of anything means or is worth anything at all!
Shall I continue?????
You want some more of this or we can drop this and just move on!!!
Your apology accepted!
Have a nice day!

I don't agree that this thread is in poor taste or with this militant feminist notion of a "rape culture" but I also disagree with the comments above about sight. I am visually impaired and what a woman looks like isn't actually that important to me. It's hard for me to make eye contact I'm afraid ladies, so sorry if I don't give much of a damn about your smile or the "windows to your soul" but I am interested in body shapes.

Personality is very important to me and I would take someone that I liked as a person anyday over someone that I didn't, no matter how hot she was. If I'm considering someone as girlfriend material though I do want to know how big her bust and butt is and if I'm getting on well enough with her and I don't think that she's going to take it amiss I'll just ask what size bra she wears.

I know this is suppose to be for the guys but I must say something. Ladies, you can not tell me that when you are out with your girls you don't sit there and talk about a guy when he walks past you. When we use to go out, we use to judge how nice looking their butts were so lets just be honest here, we do the same thing they do.
Sure we do it out of fun and we are not planning on leaving with anyone BUT we still do it. BUT the men eat it up, they actually stop and end up talking to us and asking why was you saying a number when I walked by? LOL so that is a good way to meet a man!!
But honestly I look for someone with personality and if they don't have that, forget it!!!

My main point is we have to realize, sight is one of the five senses that dominates. Visually impaired or whatever, sight plays a significant part in our lives. If you would take a survey, which I will do here - If you could keep only one of all five senses, which one would you prefer to keep? I think the majority would have to go with sight.

As swift the orb its voyage makes
From east to welcoming west
Thus life will its brief journey take
Twixt birth and eternal rest.

The morrow's but a breath away
Casting shadows on thy face
Hence must ye fill each enchanted day
Before life moves on apace.

Steal kisses now,beneath the bough
Whilst lips are pure and sweet
Banish sombre furrows from thy brow
And encircling sorrows cheat.

Young men will ne'er a maiden spurn
And may buxom matrons kiss
Yet this lesson ye must learn
Wrinkled crones he'll surely miss.

I'm not disputing that but you claimed above that without sight "we can't move on" and this is false. I've dated women and even committed myself to having sex without having a good look at them first. You may be biased towards one of your senses and it may be true that most men are but please explain to me how it is that you can touch a woman's body (as you claim above) and not be turned on enough by that? Do you have to do it with the lights on or something?

Let's be honest here. Most guys would shag a hole in the wall and they aren't all that fussy about looks as long as she's up for it.

Your rant might be easier to read without all the annoying smilies.

straight woman here! but... Aren't the female breasts wonderful!

Hmmm Just curious, do these women ask you your butt and penis size?

Boobs and of course booty

I'm not disputing that but you claimed above that without sight "we can't move on" and this is false. I've dated women and even committed myself to having sex without having a good look at them first. You may be biased towards one of your senses and it may be true that most men are but please explain to me how it is that you can touch a woman's body (as you claim above) and not be turned on enough by that? Do you have to do it with the lights on or something?

Let's be honest here. Most guys would shag a hole in the wall and they aren't all that fussy about looks as long as she's up for it.


The worst thing we can do at this time would be to continue to force this issue out of context. You used the can't. I used the word ready. There's a big difference. The fact is we can't move on with this communication, be it just plain having fun and gathering information about people's choices but rather making things complicated much more complicated and irrelevant. I guess my next thread will be having something to do with complicating our relationships with others. That's funny how one word quoted incorrectly can change things. The word satisfaction plays a big part here and it surenuff cancels out any ideas relating to not wanting to move on as opposed to not being able to move on.

I must have a really crap sense of humour. I wasn't being that serious on this thread, . Not even about hiding away, but I will hide away NOW :cries: ;) YOLO. Live it.

You may be biased towards one of your senses and it may be true that most men are but please explain to me how it is that you can touch a woman's body (as you claim above) and not be turned on enough by that? Do you have to do it with the lights on or something?

Let's be honest here. Most guys would shag a hole in the wall and they aren't all that fussy about looks as long as she's up for it.


See, ...the question was regarding the first thing a man looks at when he sees a woman...
Now, I'm here trying to explain to you, what most men don't realize is, men don't have anything to lose when it comes to sharing their bodies, time or any type of engagement with the opposite sex (maybe their health). And they also seem to fail to realize, 90 percent of the time, sex is the doorway to a woman's heart. I don't have sex with anything or anybody just to participate in the act. And I don't have sex with a woman that is less appealing by sight viceversa her charm and or intelligence. You can talk to a woman all day and you won't break her heart until you share that one inner most secret - her private life. When you go there, her heart becomes vulnerable.
That's the difference between you and I.
Now, lets see if we can get back to the subject...