Topic: Do you believe in longdistance love affair???
meche4love's photo
Fri 08/09/13 07:53 AM
Yeap

teebee79's photo
Fri 08/09/13 07:54 AM
Friendship sure!
Romantic relationship .. NO.

Why does it seem like people want to disregard the importance of looking into someones face and touching them, holding them ..making love to them.

Falling in love with someone's mind is wonderful... but only being able to see them 2 or 3 times a month, is craziness.


meche4love's photo
Fri 08/09/13 07:54 AM
Really?

teebee79's photo
Fri 08/09/13 07:58 AM

Really?


Reallyindifferent

TBRich's photo
Fri 08/09/13 08:03 AM
Thank goodness Rose deleted her account- she looks exactly like my ex- I was staring at her pic and waiting for it to explode into a screaming banshee with large sharp teeth and yellow eyes- gave me nightmares

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Fri 08/09/13 08:08 AM

Thank goodness Rose deleted her account- she looks exactly like my ex- I was staring at her pic and waiting for it to explode into a screaming banshee with large sharp teeth and yellow eyes- gave me nightmares



bahahahahaha....((((((TB)))))):heart: smooched flowers

TBRich's photo
Fri 08/09/13 08:15 AM


Thank goodness Rose deleted her account- she looks exactly like my ex- I was staring at her pic and waiting for it to explode into a screaming banshee with large sharp teeth and yellow eyes- gave me nightmares



bahahahahaha....((((((TB)))))):heart: smooched flowers


I am glad my life brings such joy to people

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Fri 08/09/13 08:16 AM



Thank goodness Rose deleted her account- she looks exactly like my ex- I was staring at her pic and waiting for it to explode into a screaming banshee with large sharp teeth and yellow eyes- gave me nightmares



bahahahahaha....((((((TB)))))):heart: smooched flowers


I am glad my life brings such joy to people

awwwww......cmere...(((((TB)))))hugs...:heart:

gkbass's photo
Fri 08/09/13 08:32 AM
in any relationship i believe the concept of love must first be understood then the relationship is founded. regardless of the distance, love i mean true love should be the motive and basses of thr relationship. peace

raj884u's photo
Fri 08/09/13 08:34 AM
Edited by raj884u on Fri 08/09/13 08:35 AM
Yes i believe.. If i meet a person onl9 n i feel she is the one for wich i always dreams .. She is ma perfect match ..ma dream gal ..then i won't let her go from ma lyf only coz she is far from me.. I know one guy who met a girl onl9 their online chat converted into long fon calls n 2dy they r living happily 2gethr

no photo
Fri 08/09/13 08:36 AM
LDF=Yes! :wink:
LDR=No! noway
Godspeed!CyPoet :smile:

oldhippie1952's photo
Fri 08/09/13 08:40 AM

The only issue with an ldr, might be how the other person's government accept immigrants into their country. Some governments are trying to stop people moving to other countries. Mainly because they just realized that they might aswell use people from their own country, to get jobs. I feel this would affect ldr's. I suppose it would depend where they're from. You'd have to do a bit of research.



I did the research, we are trying to get a fiancee visa right now, doing the necessary requirements.

krupa's photo
Fri 08/09/13 08:50 AM
Well....at least a few people got faith ....looks like a lot of people don't.

LDR's do work.....what kills it for people is their own unrealistic expectations.

LDR's take work and patience. Most people want instant gratification and they want it NOW!!!

That is the exact reason they are alone. Across the country or across the room....makes zero difference ....it takes work.....patience ....loneliness ....and the stick to it attitude to make it to a long term goal.

Most people just think they deserve love handed to them on a silver platter.

Love ain't deserved ...it is earned.

If you just want someone to be with you right now.....go pick up some equally lonely and lazy skank at a bar....have fun for a month or two....then, when the easy way falls apart.....come on back.

I can write this down for you again.

no photo
Fri 08/09/13 11:36 AM
may be:tongue:

ss244's photo
Fri 08/09/13 09:24 PM
distance will change the human cycology,it's not good to humans

unsure's photo
Fri 08/09/13 09:32 PM
I think maybe if you live in the same country, maybe. I am not real fond of LDR..but if you only live a few hours away, that is not bad.
Now if you fall in love with someone that is 9000 miles away, like I did, it is never going to work. It cost way to much money to keep flying back and forth and the phone calls are terrible.
I must have been crazy to think I met the man of my dreams on the other side of the world.

Shy_Emo_chick's photo
Mon 08/12/13 02:30 AM
I can't honestly afford to go anywhere, other than my own country, right now. The economy just makes it harder to. The more harder you try, the more the government stops you, so unfair world. So if someone I met from oversea's wanted to REALLY TRULY be with me, then they'd have to relocate. But it takes both people in the ldr to make it work. So like I said earlier, if you want an ldr, you'd better ask the other if that's what THEY also want.

Shy_Emo_chick's photo
Mon 08/12/13 02:43 AM

but if you only live a few hours away, that is not bad.
Now if you fall in love with someone that is 9000 miles away, like I did, it is never going to work. It cost way to much money to keep flying back and forth and the phone calls are terrible.
I must have been crazy to think I met the man of my dreams on the other side of the world.


I totally agree. I think some get attracted to us, then they get too carried away, and they don't stop to think of the reality of it. Some online guy once nagged at me for having night's out with friends, incase I slept with anyone. Well, did he really expect me not to, just because he had expectations? Wow. laugh. He was on the other side of the world, for crying out loud. Some guy in another country, trying to warn guys off me from my own country is hardly gonna be a threat. laugh Did he really expect me not to have sex with anyone when I was single and feeling like it? indifferent I'm human, but he believed in repression. Ugh.

Tifalockheart's photo
Mon 08/12/13 03:17 AM

Well....at least a few people got faith ....looks like a lot of people don't.

LDR's do work.....what kills it for people is their own unrealistic expectations.

LDR's take work and patience. Most people want instant gratification and they want it NOW!!!

That is the exact reason they are alone. Across the country or across the room....makes zero difference ....it takes work.....patience ....loneliness ....and the stick to it attitude to make it to a long term goal.

Most people just think they deserve love handed to them on a silver platter.

Love ain't deserved ...it is earned.

If you just want someone to be with you right now.....go pick up some equally lonely and lazy skank at a bar....have fun for a month or two....then, when the easy way falls apart.....come on back.

I can write this down for you again.


mmm interesting but how can you stick to it like a long term goal Romance is from your heart not your head.
yes love is earned but isn't it better to learn together not over the phone or cyber..
So when you two do meet up or hook up, you have nothing to learn from each other won't that be boring...(just saying i don't mean to up set anyone):wink:

eyemaflirt247's photo
Mon 08/12/13 07:38 AM
No.... Too much temptation in my reach & visa verca