Topic: can some one stay without sex
JulieMP's photo
Wed 07/24/13 11:06 PM
not sure of the question.

sex is awesome. sex is not love.

miko1960's photo
Wed 07/24/13 11:14 PM
Guess I could stay if shes a good cook.

unsure's photo
Wed 07/24/13 11:21 PM
It depends on why are we not having sex if we are in a
relationship? If it is a religious reason or we both have
agreed to wait until we are married, then yes I can wait
and I would have no problem with it.
Sex does not make a relationship, it just enhances it.
I know that when I start dating someone, I give myself a
certain amount of time before I even consider sleeping with
them. To me, if you sleep with someone right away..you become
confused. Sex boggles your mind and you are not sure if you like
them for the sex or if you like them for other reasons. So I
honestly hold off on the sex for awhile.
If you hold off then you also find out IF that person likes you
for you or were they just out for sex. IF they decide to wait
and they keep coming around, then you know they must like you
and it has nothing to do with sex.
I am like everyone else, I like sex but I want to make sure
that I am with the right person! flowerforyou

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Wed 07/24/13 11:27 PM
Can you as individual survive without sex ? yes.
Do you have the ability to stay without sex forever ? yes .

The question is can you enjoy life without sex ?
well that depends on you , people give away sex for different reasons (nuns for ex. for a religious purpose) and they feel good about life, others just need sex and intimacy to feel happy and satisfied.

Jesusprincessmt's photo
Wed 07/24/13 11:31 PM

It depends on why are we not having sex if we are in a
relationship? If it is a religious reason or we both have
agreed to wait until we are married, then yes I can wait
and I would have no problem with it.
Sex does not make a relationship, it just enhances it.
I know that when I start dating someone, I give myself a
certain amount of time before I even consider sleeping with
them. To me, if you sleep with someone right away..you become
confused. Sex boggles your mind and you are not sure if you like
them for the sex or if you like them for other reasons. So I
honestly hold off on the sex for awhile.
If you hold off then you also find out IF that person likes you
for you or were they just out for sex. IF they decide to wait
and they keep coming around, then you know they must like you
and it has nothing to do with sex.
I am like everyone else, I like sex but I want to make sure
that I am with the right person! flowerforyou


I agree with this post. I used to think I needed sex, but now after so many years I see I do not need it. Involving sex in a relationship does cloud the ability to think clearly. Unless you have a mature relationship, there will be questions about the relationship and therefore, will be hard to focus on if it is sex or the actual person you enjoy.

krupa's photo
Thu 07/25/13 12:02 AM
Love is first.

Sex comes way behind love.

Give me love...Sex will come when it should.

naughtyfru's photo
Thu 07/25/13 12:21 AM
Noooo.... Bcoz sex is a another form of love ! It depends " d person is lusty or in love "

no photo
Thu 07/25/13 08:49 AM
Agreed with angelika..

1Cynderella's photo
Thu 07/25/13 09:03 AM

Love is first.

Sex comes way behind love.

Give me love...Sex will come when it should.


:thumbsup: Here here! drinker

ridewytepony's photo
Thu 07/25/13 11:31 AM
Edited by ridewytepony on Thu 07/25/13 11:33 AM
your question is asking "can someone stay in a sexless relationship"

yes cellabasy exists! there called Nuns!

they ain't giving nun & they ain't getin' nun

but I'm free from all so fucc em all

personally I'll put up with her been a C U Next Tue for 10 days a

month and forego sex on her heavy days and straight vaginal

fornication as the only form of sex, thats fine but I've spent lots of

time single, or separated time in my relationship so there's no way

I'm going to be with her for extra sexual frustration, so I can run it by

hand. I take it persanal and will feel insecure about what I have as well

as frustrated and if she's nice through it all, then i'll think she's a nice person

thats.....well we won't call her "careless with the truth" but we will call her

confused. same as if I feel she's dutty f♡ing me. then I'm gone! I can pay a pro for that!

and probably cheaper. so I say be free of all n fucc em all

I can deal with, that's the f...ing I get for the f....ing I get , ...but if your only f....ing the

big head...... I don't know... doesn't sound like a good deal to megrumble

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Fri 07/26/13 12:50 AM

not sure of the question.

sex is awesome. sex is not love.

this is practice also laugh refind after experiance

no photo
Fri 07/26/13 02:24 AM



there could be reasons why you would do without sex. first could be a medial condition. Would you jeopardize a marriage or true love for the sake of sex? Would you be able to live with your conscience if you went out seeking sex for your conveniences and not think of your partner?



Agreed...well said
well why are the needs of one partner more than the other. If one partner wants it all the time and one wants it rarely why then is the one that wants it rarely aloud to make the other unhappy for their happiness. Shouldn't the one that wants it rarely allow the other to satisfy their needs or it doesn't work at all. That's why unless you are compatable with sex, an act that everyone (with exceptions) wants, it will never work in the long run. Trust me I've been there before. The cheating never happened we were not cheaters but it took along time to figure out that we didn't match and over that time alot of resentment grew and that killed off any spark we once had. So to answer your question can you have a relationship without sex? VERY RARELY



I agree. it deosn't mean that anyone has to do any cheating - that is not justifiable. Short of that the relationship would probably end so the person wanting that level of intimacy can find it elsewhere.

I am not talking about intervals where a couple goes without sex being as frequent - like during a pregnancy or an illness. Those are usually temporary situations where things get back to normal.

But if there never was a "normal" to begin with - that would be when there is a problem - when one partner never did have a sexual desire that could accommodate their partner. that relationship won;t work

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Fri 07/26/13 05:13 AM
i cant live withoutblushing :cry:

indianadave4's photo
Fri 07/26/13 05:05 PM
Sure, people stay married everywhere.

Goofball73's photo
Fri 07/26/13 05:31 PM
I think the late, great Patrick Henry stated it best when he said, "Give me sex, or give me death". I'm certain my history is accurate on this.

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Fri 07/26/13 05:33 PM
Possible but not healthy. Men's biology demands it. Not sure about women. If you don't use it you lose it.

markc48's photo
Fri 07/26/13 07:27 PM

pls asking question and i we love to get some answers can some stay without sex
Not at my house.laugh

1Cynderella's photo
Fri 07/26/13 08:26 PM

I think the late, great Patrick Henry stated it best when he said, "Give me sex, or give me death". I'm certain my history is accurate on this.

rofl

I've known people who sleep through class but wet dreams during Civics class? REALLY GOOF!

ArtGurl's photo
Fri 07/26/13 09:01 PM

Sure, have already managed 10 hours up to now...



laugh

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Fri 07/26/13 09:04 PM

I think the late, great Patrick Henry stated it best when he said, "Give me sex, or give me death". I'm certain my history is accurate on this.


apparently we didn't go to the same college OR your patrick henry is from a parallel universe with government of the sex, by the sex, and for the sex

wait.....that does sound like the U.S.


I think I want a refund on my undergraduate tuition!!! lollaugh