why is this taboo, or an unorthodox lifestyle?its not a game for me, its my 1st prefference so why the 'hate' for it? jealousy? whats your thoughts? davidjdavid

It's frowned upon.
More so the greater the age difference.

Personally I'd rather date someone my own age.
When I find my Luna she will be my age.
Maybe a couple years difference at most.

IF it makes you happy as a couple
Than Hell with what anyone else thinks...

It's just like older guys/younger women.

I think its smart. Young men can learn a lot about manners and class when they date a older woman.

Not necessarily as not all older woman are polite and classy.

This is very true.

I hear the name for it is a "Raker".

I have a problem with the word Mature. I don't feel very.

Just goes to show how ambiguous some words can be, meaning pjs as well.

Idk. I see no problem with it. I think some don't wanna evolve past it. You want what you want. It can be a generational issue for some. Welcome, btw :)

With me it came down to a conquest, going after an age that i couldn't have, like ever since
an early age if you had girls interested then they were your exact age, but if they were a year
younger you could never be seen with then, or even talking to then.the same as one year older was
fairly rare & didn't happen for me until grade 8.
By 19, legal drinking age, I looked young and had a hard time picking up the 25 & +,but some
friends didn't. the goal was to pick up a woman but older would of been a way biger accomplishment
by 21, I was a pro lol, it was a way to feel sexually matrue especially if
they had a kid/kids, a confidence builder for me. but after that I didn't really
have a strong preferance til my thirties, and young woman did nothing for me. my last girlfriend was
11 years younger & that was weird for me. Now I seem to get the interest of 24 year olds seems to be
the common age.must be a lot of then that age.
its just the cycle of life.
So its not taboo, do what you want have what you want, as long as its two consenting adults.

all the best, go have your life now,
Peace

Why do you think it's taboo? Why do you think there is hate for it, or jealousy?

My woman is more experienced than me....I am glad for it.


She knows what she is doing.

Younger women are like puppies...they need experience.

Women my age...(45)...still got some issues.

I love my woman ....age is not a factor.

I don't think it's frowned upon so much as it's just not everyone's preference.

Is that like cougar? I've never heard the term.

No, it's a term used by non cougars, when chased by younger men they decribe them as a "Raker". I had never heard it until recently.

I guess it's just not a US thing.

friend of mine is living with a guy who is 36 years younger than her



makes them both very happy
far as I can tell it's quite good



planning to visit with them next time we are in the same locale!

I agree with this 100 percent.

there are more important things than age to worry about.