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| Topic: Is it harder for beautiful people to settle down? | |
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No matter how hot we think we are on the outside, more than likely we were born ugly and will die ugly. If you have a period that you feel you are within the envelope of the most desired prepare yourself cause your going to have to deal with the fall of your own ego's head trip. Absolutely love this statement MG! 
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if this is the right person, your soul mate, you can not get elsewhere, and this is valid for the beautiful people like the least beautiful 
What if 'your soul mate' is ugly to u, is it possible to still love them and hate their face? Wasn't it Shakespeare or Christopher Marlowe who said; "Who ever loved that loved not at first sight?" Can't even fathom that someone would see their "soulmate" as ugly. Ok here's an example: We're all here talking, I met this guy who's the perfect match, the perfect everything, we talk on the phone we have so much in common, we can talk about everything, I have 'his picture' on my phone, all on my facebook. I'm so totally in sync with this guy and then when i mention Skype he tells me he has a 10000km road to build in Africa and he's being transferred there immediately as he's the senior engineer in his company,.....I find this suspicious so I question him and he comes clean, he's really an African in Africa and the handsome pic i fell in love with is his neighbor. 'Wtf' i'm like shocked... I thought i loved the guy, he was the one BUT the "so called real" picture of him i can't handle. I'm in love with the neighbor's smile, and skin tone, and the way he stands, etc and the personality of the 'fraud' Where does that leave me? Building a road in Africa? This is probably more common than any of us know. People use the internet to live outside of themselves. Doesn't mean they are bad people, it just means they are not comfortable with who they are, or who they are at the moment, or they may indeed be a fraud, not only to others but to themselves. welcome to mingle btw |
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most people might be initially attracted to someone because of their looks but there has to be more going on - personality comaptability, similar goals, similar ways of approaching a relationship, wanting the same things out of one, and being trustworthy
I dont care how cute a guy is, if I can;t trust it is not going to work 
hey andrew 
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Yes, it is hard for us.
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most people might be initially attracted to someone because of their looks but there has to be more going on - personality comaptability, similar goals, similar ways of approaching a relationship, wanting the same things out of one, and being trustworthy I dont care how cute a guy is, if I can;t trust it is not going to work
hey andrew
Hey.
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most people might be initially attracted to someone because of their looks but there has to be more going on - personality comaptability, similar goals, similar ways of approaching a relationship, wanting the same things out of one, and being trustworthy I dont care how cute a guy is, if I can;t trust it is not going to work
hey andrew
yes agreed but sometime slip in motions |
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<<<Lol>>>
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by the way what is in beautiful... and what they want to settle down
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I think sometimes there ARE people out to deceive us for some personal satisfaction, as in the case of the man the OP refers to.
But in most cases I think we are more likely to find ourselves talking to someone who believes things about themselves that we just don't agree with. For instance they may think they're a funny person, but we see them in the forums making jokes at the expense of others, and may not think that's funny in the least. It's always astonished me how very differently some of us will describe the very same picture to one another. 
This doesn't make someone a liar, they simply don't share your visions or understanding of things and are therefore not compatible to you.
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Ok here's an example: We're all here talking, I met this guy who's the perfect match, the perfect everything, we talk on the phone we have so much in common, we can talk about everything, I have 'his picture' on my phone, all on my facebook. I'm so totally in sync with this guy and then when i mention Skype he tells me he has a 10000km road to build in Africa and he's being transferred there immediately as he's the senior engineer in his company,.....I find this suspicious so I question him and he comes clean, he's really an African in Africa and the handsome pic i fell in love with is his neighbor. 'Wtf' i'm like shocked... I thought i loved the guy, he was the one BUT the "so called real" picture of him i can't handle. I'm in love with the neighbor's smile, and skin tone, and the way he stands, etc and the personality of the 'fraud' Where does that leave me? Building a road in Africa? Go after the hot neighbour ;) Just joking. You might aswell move on. He clearly had issue's with HIS OWN looks, if he had to use someone else's photo and pretend it was him. If anything, he's letting HIMSELF down the most, because he just frauded and he knows it :) |
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f:ohwelll
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to settle iz wat matters a lot but it required sensitive most beauty lady out there follow money nd when the money iz finish they will hve problem I will advise they should look onto iz future if iz future iz bright just apply endurance
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Beautiful people have to make more desiscions than ugly people. Not bashing or challenging but I'm curious to know what you mean by this. Can you expand on this please? Good looking people have more options that they can pick and choose from. Ugly people got far less offers. I am not just talking about physical beauty...Ugly souls have the fewest options...No matter how they look.....those people should just try their best and be glad anyone wants to claim them. |
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Edited by
SperenzaSutton
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Tue 07/02/13 07:39 PM
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Beautiful people have to make more desiscions than ugly people. Not bashing or challenging but I'm curious to know what you mean by this. Can you expand on this please? Good looking people have more options that they can pick and choose from. Ugly people got far less offers. I am not just talking about physical beauty...Ugly souls have the fewest options...No matter how they look.....those people should just try their best and be glad anyone wants to claim them. What does an ugly person look like? |
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if this is the right person, your soul mate, you can not get elsewhere, and this is valid for the beautiful people like the least beautiful
What if 'your soul mate' is ugly to u, is it possible to still love them and hate their face? Wasn't it Shakespeare or Christopher Marlowe who said; "Who ever loved that loved not at first sight?" Can't even fathom that someone would see their "soulmate" as ugly. Ok here's an example: We're all here talking, I met this guy who's the perfect match, the perfect everything, we talk on the phone we have so much in common, we can talk about everything, I have 'his picture' on my phone, all on my facebook. I'm so totally in sync with this guy and then when i mention Skype he tells me he has a 10000km road to build in Africa and he's being transferred there immediately as he's the senior engineer in his company,.....I find this suspicious so I question him and he comes clean, he's really an African in Africa and the handsome pic i fell in love with is his neighbor. 'Wtf' i'm like shocked... I thought i loved the guy, he was the one BUT the "so called real" picture of him i can't handle. I'm in love with the neighbor's smile, and skin tone, and the way he stands, etc and the personality of the 'fraud' Where does that leave me? Building a road in Africa? My dear,just know that this situation had absolutely nothing to do with ''beauty'' as you may think! Seems to me like a this was just a plain simple scammer-because,we dont know if even the ''ugly'' pic of him is trully him!! Jmo |
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hi newbie after long time i c u online
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