You aren't ugly to anyone!

tell that to my ex

I use to think I was tough till I had to deal with press. This will humble a person faster than anything. Some have the job of trashing you. One magazine told me that it is their policy never to give a complete 10 to anyone. With the internet today everyone is press in their own way. They can twist things to the place where the original thought isn't even recognizable. I once had a press manager tell me "don't look at the 9 who are hating you, look for the 1 who is loving you".

What if 'your soul mate' is ugly to u, is it possible to still love them and hate their face?

Wasn't it Shakespeare or Christopher Marlowe who said;

"Who ever loved that loved not at first sight?"

I think it's harder. Beautiful women sometimes sit at home because the guys are too afraid she's 'out of their league' to date.

Can't even fathom that someone would see their "soulmate" as ugly.

No, to both questions. Beautiful people are single and Beautiful people loose their mate to another just like ugly people.

Finally, someone who answered the question. You are sooo right, but why is that? Why are most men so intimidated by beauty? What's so scary about it?

lol AGAIN....beauty is subjective

I beg to differ...I don't thank they have many choices in dating, I'm cute and I found it very hard...up until now that is, before hawt mess a serious hawt mess! It was extremely difficult to weed through the sleaze to get to the real. Beautiful people (skin deep people) on the other hand may have an even tougher time at it because they have to wonder is this person after their heart or if this person wants a trophy piece.

settling down that's another story!

Of course it is. If you REALLY love them though. And if you really do, you don't just suddenly lose feelings for them overnight. You try everything in your power to fix whatever is wrong in the relationship. You can right a wrong, but you can't wrong a right. What I mean by that is, wise words can't be ignored if people are listening. I don't ever get why a guys looks would be the deciding factor as to whether I stay with him.

Fear of rejection of course. After all, she can have 'anybody.'

Ok here's an example: We're all here talking, I met this guy who's the perfect match, the perfect everything, we talk on the phone we have so much in common, we can talk about everything, I have 'his picture' on my phone, all on my facebook. I'm so totally in sync with this guy and then when i mention Skype he tells me he has a 10000km road to build in Africa and he's being transferred there immediately as he's the senior engineer in his company,.....I find this suspicious so I question him and he comes clean, he's really an African in Africa and the handsome pic i fell in love with is his neighbor. 'Wtf' i'm like shocked... I thought i loved the guy, he was the one BUT the "so called real" picture of him i can't handle. I'm in love with the neighbor's smile, and skin tone, and the way he stands, etc and the personality of the 'fraud'

Where does that leave me? Building a road in Africa?

I get how it's hard to trust a man that only ever points out how hot you are ;) You don't want to be someone's trophy. You'd rather be treat as down to earth as possible.

Well said. I can identify with everything u said.

I'm uglier than homemade sin
I get all sorts of female action.
Why?
My attitude, self confidence and a way of being able to talk to them.
I see something I admire and tell them being able to shoot them some pheromones helps as well.
Sincerity when addressing them is a must.

Not to me... Ur moustache just looks like an up-side-down horse shoe over ur mouth. That's all.

If marriage is to be forever, it cannot be based on something so shallow like looks.