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Topic: Leave an ANONYMOUS or NOT SO ANONYMOUS MSG - part 20
Dodo_David's photo
Sun 08/18/13 07:07 PM
Dude, are you so conceited to think that woman will go for you because you are using an image of you without a shirt on?

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Sun 08/18/13 07:12 PM
You're not wearing a shirt Dodo! flowerforyou

krishk20's photo
Sun 08/18/13 07:13 PM

You're not wearing a shirt Dodo! flowerforyou
he he

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Sun 08/18/13 07:27 PM
yes I am a little nutty...I have a good :heart: tho :)

Dodo_David's photo
Sun 08/18/13 07:27 PM

You're not wearing a shirt Dodo! flowerforyou


My main image is a head shot.

Here is a better one of me:


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Sun 08/18/13 07:27 PM
Hi krishk! Where have you been?
I haven't seen you on in a while - I hope everything is ok!

flowerforyou

Dodo_David's photo
Sun 08/18/13 07:28 PM

yes I am a little nutty...I have a good :heart: tho :)


huh A little?

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Sun 08/18/13 07:33 PM


yes I am a little nutty...I have a good :heart: tho :)


huh A little?
:tongue:

I am an open free spirit,,,hurumphspock

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Sun 08/18/13 07:33 PM
Is that your "pensive" look? TeeHee!!! :tongue:

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Sun 08/18/13 07:35 PM
Edited by sweetestgirl11 on Sun 08/18/13 07:35 PM

Is that your "pensive" look? TeeHee!!! :tongue:


actually I believe that is my "are the settings on this daggone thing correct?" look

pensive or frustrated. take your pick...lol

Dodo_David's photo
Sun 08/18/13 07:42 PM
Are pensive people in deep thought or in deep ?

krishk20's photo
Sun 08/18/13 07:48 PM

Hi krishk! Where have you been?
I haven't seen you on in a while - I hope everything is ok!

flowerforyou
hi zee, everything is fine.

kissablekiss's photo
Mon 08/19/13 11:37 AM


Sexxxxxxxxxx ....y


Thank you.
welcome

burgundybry's photo
Mon 08/19/13 11:46 AM



yes I am a little nutty...I have a good :heart: tho :)


huh A little?
:tongue:

I am an open free spirit,,,hurumphspock



http://youtu.be/JN99jshaQbY

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Mon 08/19/13 02:23 PM


quite a claim young paduwanwinking :)

It sounds sexy so we'll go with it


do I risk shattering the illusion?

(sorry been reading about risk management and this somehow seems to fit, there is I suppose always risk in most things eh?)

but really. I am of the mind that I would rather forgo a night of passion and have our friendship forever should I have to choose :) sugarmanflowerforyou


But you don't have to choose, and even when you do choose that's not the choice you're making. That's just one of those sad lies we tell ourselves to justify being so scared of face planting that we deny ourselves all possibility of joy or exhaltation.

You never swap a long term friendship for a night of joy. The long term friendship will survive or not according to its own agenda,

No, all you do is forgo the night of passion, that's the only decision that's made. Sadly, with that decision you also inadvertently discard a whole pile of other potentially great things; the possibility of true love, the possibility of a few years of something like it, the possibility of expanding your circle of close friends and wider acquaintances, an orgasm or two, the possibility of a truly unique and exciting sexual adventure (for all you know you may be passing up the greatest **** of your life), an opportunity to make another human being really happy.

Human intimacy is so exciting because it can be the very best of us, but it's scary because it is also dangerous. Who knows we just might get hurt.


To forgo the night of passion is not some glib sacrifice we make in the noble endeavour of ensuring the well being of a lifelong friendship.

There are two reasons for which we will forgo a night of passion;

1. We do not find the other person attractive. If this is the case we should say so, as kindly as possible. But let's be frank some folk need pointers, and this is a chance to help them. Tell them they need a hobby to have more interesting stories to tell, or whatever it may be. This person has just paid us the highest compliment one human can give another, they deserve our empathy, respect, and honesty.

2. We're more scared of what could go wrong than we are excited by the possibilities. That's usually the ugly truth we are hiding from ourselves with our glib and evasive white lies.

This is it, this is all you ****ing get, there's no replays, extra time, or rematches. One shot, one hand, then it's over. No more chances, ever.

All of us exist on a razor's edge, with death never more than a breath away. Forgo nothing, I say. Have it all, and have it all right now.

The inside of a coffin is a dull, lonely and passion less place. Don't be in a hurry to climb in.

Shy_Emo_chick's photo
Mon 08/19/13 04:08 PM
There is no consequence to getting help. If you end up having to stay in a mental health unit, for a few weeks/months, then you're still not doing anything wrong. Getting help is vital. Just because society has taught us that it's weak, but it isn't. If you need it, go for it. You may not want to, but what more alternatives do you have? Would you rather stay in a rut? Or at least know someone is helping you move forward? ;)

oldhippie1952's photo
Tue 08/20/13 02:36 PM
I will love you a long time. I am sorry I broke us up with my egregious words, thoughtless and cruel I was.

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Tue 08/20/13 02:39 PM

I will love you a long time. I am sorry I broke us up with my egregious words, thoughtless and cruel I was.


Apology accepted hippie ...
lol
JK pard !
Hope you two work it out...
drinker

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Tue 08/20/13 11:23 PM
I crack me up sometimes...
:laughing:

Gonna be a whole lot of posts in here with my name on them
If no one wants to post after me huh ?
rofl


whoa

oldhippie1952's photo
Wed 08/21/13 03:06 AM
I'll go after you pard.


I'm sorry I'm not perfect. I make mistakes. I am sorry if I insulted you.

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