I wouldnt rush out to meet someone the day after we where talking, I'd like to get to know someone, but I have no problem meeting people from the community that i have seen on here for a while. But I still wouldnt be stupid about where i met them.
Of course i say this after travelling half way across the world to meet a man who I had known only 5 weeks..THIS IS NOT A GOOD IDEA.

Women are very shallow creatures when it comes down to it and you need to be young, or rich or both to get their attention.

Character has nothing to do with it.

Men on the other hand will settle for almost anything.

So online dating is a tough business.

I set up a bogus online profile. and made up all these fantastic lies about myself to test my theory and got plenty of attention from women.

It's so sad but so true

You're cute.

Too bad you've just insulted every woman here.

the boy must have some free time

I am open to meeting a man of my interest in person. I have had no success on Mingle2 but talking to someone now off a Paid site and he is planning to meet me. He is from another State even.

I agree...some men tried to scam me on here, but I was too smart for that.

Obviously people would be initially drawn to people who appear confident, well off and everygirls dream man.
But I don't think that makes us worse than men.

I met and married a man on here, who is 50 so not young, and definately not rich, but he is a wonderful man.

And nobody can tell me that all the men on here who message me with suggestions, message me because they think my personality is so wonderful.

Soooooooooooooo it's worth talking to the few who do message you just because they really would like to get to know you..

There are so many wonderful people on here, you just have to ignore the drongos.

good ya seeya ... "drongos?" that must be an aussie expression lol

I'm guessing it must be, it's the same as a drop kick

Actually....this is a site where we talk about dating using good grammar.....and as such....you misspelled "thought".

Did any of that attention keep up when you told them the truth?

a lot of crazies and frauds on internet dating sites. it's part of the package. I just don't waste time on people like that, if they don't want to meet that's a big red flag! If someone was truly interested in dating they would meet right away to see if there is a connection or not. im sure if your new to internet dating that may not be the case. but once you have done it you will find nothing is accomplished in back and forth chatter. until you meet you have no idea what your getting into. so endless chatter is a waste of time! chatter does not make you safer!

LMBO

so wot if myspellings mo good

sowat if my spellings mo good

Never mind.