Topic: what is the point
1Cynderella's photo
Sat 06/15/13 09:09 AM
Edited by 1Cynderella on Sat 06/15/13 09:13 AM
So..."Your emails are incessant and your texts are ludicrous...how soon can we meet? ", isn't working for you? what

Have you considered a bit of work on your own people skillz? spock




FearandLoathing's photo
Sat 06/15/13 09:26 AM
Arguably...There are far better methods of meeting people than jumping out and saying "Let's meet!"

My experience has been that it scares them just as much in real life as on the internet, if not more because I usually follow it with a comment of how we can check out my wine cellar afterwards.

This is why no one lets me have nice things.

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Sat 06/15/13 09:28 AM

Arguably...There are far better methods of meeting people than jumping out and saying "Let's meet!"

My experience has been that it scares them just as much in real life as on the internet, if not more because I usually follow it with a comment of how we can check out my wine cellar afterwards.

This is why no one lets me have nice things.


is your wine cellar vacuumed?

1j9b6c5's photo
Sat 06/15/13 09:32 AM
vacuum sealed for your protection. his cellar i mean, i like to go commando. ok, i'm leaving.

FearandLoathing's photo
Sat 06/15/13 09:32 AM
Who the hell vacuums their pris...Err, uhm...prism of wine.

...Yeah, who vacuums their prism of wine?

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Sat 06/15/13 09:33 AM

vacuum sealed for your protection. his cellar i mean, i like to go commando. ok, i'm leaving.
laugh

fear had had basement issues that go back several years

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Sat 06/15/13 09:35 AM
I don't want to meet anyone who don't want to meet me...
lol
But i do put myself out here "as is" so that there will be no disappointment if i do meet internet friends...
Face to face
drinks

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Sat 06/15/13 09:35 AM

Who the hell vacuums their pris...Err, uhm...prism of wine.

...Yeah, who vacuums their prism of wine?


I hope we are past the point where neighbors are disappearing???huh


anyway,

I'd be pleased to share a prism of wine on the stoop then

if the cellar is not vacuumed silly manwaving

FearandLoathing's photo
Sat 06/15/13 09:37 AM
My stoop is immaculate...Sweep my baby daily.

Ruth34611's photo
Sat 06/15/13 09:42 AM
I agree that it's time consuming and frequently disappointing as people are often much different IRL than they are online. I stopped Internet dating quite a while ago but there are some who have found their soul mates here.

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Sat 06/15/13 10:05 AM

I thaught the object of this site was to meet people does that include in the flesh you might say unsafe i say no risk no gain


Many of us have met people in person from here.

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Sat 06/15/13 10:06 AM

I agree that it's time consuming and frequently disappointing as people are often much different IRL than they are online. I stopped Internet dating quite a while ago but there are some who have found their soul mates here.


Hi Ruth!

TxsGal3333's photo
Sat 06/15/13 10:11 AM
Humm did you consider that maybe in reality they did not want to meet and that was their excuse... Some try to at least keep it nice...

Believe me if someone contacts me and I truly want to meet them it will be soon.. Normally I'm the one that brings up meeting first...

Which most the time is best to let the women ask.. If they live close and they don't suggest it within a couple a weeks I would suggest to speak up and ask them...Because some women still like the guys to ask them...

Now if you have in your profile your looking for a good time or just sex only then hell I would not even meet them....

Myself I'm looking for local.... I have meet a few and many either have pictures that are old can't hardly see them or they look nothing like their pictures.

Ohh and I'm really very clear the first meet I pay my way you pay yours.... If it goes any farther then I'm good with him paying if he wants too or we can go dutch a few times to get to know each other...I've never been shy to pick up a check..I've never felt the guy should pay for everything we all work for a reason....

All I can say if things don't work out at times one should look at how they are doing it first and make sure that the problem is not themselves first~~~~~~~whoa


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Sat 06/15/13 10:12 AM

My stoop is immaculate...Sweep my baby daily.


well my tushy acceptsflowerforyou

Ruth34611's photo
Sat 06/15/13 10:27 AM


I agree that it's time consuming and frequently disappointing as people are often much different IRL than they are online. I stopped Internet dating quite a while ago but there are some who have found their soul mates here.


Hi Ruth!


Hey Emily! waving

jemare's photo
Sat 06/15/13 11:06 AM

I have met 4 people from this site IRL. There are lots of real folks here. It just takes longer to meet in person. Patience is a virtue.

I don't have a current pic up because I was gone for four months and right now I'm accessing the site through my phone so I can't upload a new pic. Plus, I'm shy.


Good to see you back!!! I've enjoyed your posts. As a side note: I do remember your pics as I'm sure most regulars here do too. Hope to read more from you as you find the time flowerforyou

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Sat 06/15/13 11:48 AM
Edited by sweetestgirl11 on Sat 06/15/13 11:50 AM

Who the hell vacuums their pris...Err, uhm...prism of wine.

...Yeah, who vacuums their prism of wine?


BTW I vacuum EVERYTHING

so be mindful

the whole naughty maid thing makes it somewhat interesting

Ruth34611's photo
Sat 06/15/13 01:48 PM


I have met 4 people from this site IRL. There are lots of real folks here. It just takes longer to meet in person. Patience is a virtue.

I don't have a current pic up because I was gone for four months and right now I'm accessing the site through my phone so I can't upload a new pic. Plus, I'm shy.


Good to see you back!!! I've enjoyed your posts. As a side note: I do remember your pics as I'm sure most regulars here do too. Hope to read more from you as you find the time flowerforyou


Thank you!!! It's nice to be back. I missed you all. flowerforyou

4evababy's photo
Sat 06/15/13 02:13 PM

chickins why is everybody so scared today this site is obviously not for real people such as myself


well when you hear about people being murderd after meeting people off the net its hard not to be a lil weary

1Cynderella's photo
Sat 06/15/13 02:29 PM


chickins why is everybody so scared today this site is obviously not for real people such as myself


well when you hear about people being murderd after meeting people off the net its hard not to be a lil weary
It's so much easier for men to feel that way since they know if they're serial killers or not. :tongue: