Healthy argument?

Like a healthy broken nose or a healthy black eye?

How screwed up can you be to assume that getting into a fight is healthy?

My version of a healthy arguement is to drag them out to the middle of no where...throw em down a well and feed the ants and worms.

I would never do it.

What is your idea of a healthy arguement?

(Wont really matter....I will make sure you run)

OOOOOOHHHHH, Mamasita.

and again

"How screwed up can you be to assume that getting into a fight is healthy?" major wisdom here

Sometimes I think we forget what a fight is.

A healthy argument is an argument that doesnt happen. Questions like "Would you be upset if.." "How do you feel about..."etc; all asked prior to and out of consideration of your partners feelings being hurt, which is what a relationship is all about. Caring about the person you love. Loving the person you care about. You putting their needs above your own, and them putting your needs above their own. If you can envision a relationship like the two of you, back to back,..ready to meet the challenges of life together, you are not protecting YOUR front and the other protecting YOUR back...instead you are protecting your partners back, and willing to give your life doing so..your partner realizing the same,..you two become invincible. Finding someone who thinks like this is the problem these days...

Love, affection, and respect at the beginning of the "discussion".

Love, affection, and respect at the end of the "discussion".

Fighting doesn't happen in a ideal relationship. It only happens between immature people UNLESS, we are talking about personal transgressions.

Example: You get caught screwing the neighbor.

There is no "fight". The transgressor shows nothing but shame, pours on the apologies, and accepts the consequences whatever they are.


However, in the real world, people fight. Go for the nutz.

A healthy argument in a relationship is one where after the make up sex, you can't wait to argue again.