Depends on how much it costs....

I'd just make sure the present for the old lady cost more than the hooker.

At one time she must have pleased you sexually you married her. The true test comes after all the newness is gone. Sit down talk to your wife tell her what you truly want sexually.Tell her you love her, show her you care, be honest and you will find what your missing.

Can it wait til after the game?

You are right.

It's just so much easier to get a hooker than listen to the old gal go on and on and on.

I mean, my old lady lives three hours from here. I talk to her a couple times a day and it lasts up to 15 minutes. That is, if there's something important going on.

She told me, her and a girlfriend sat on the phone for two hours. Screw that! My attention span is maybe, 10 minutes and I'm ready to hang up.

Imagine, having to listen to a woman for hours on end. I'd blow mah brains out.

You love your wife,huh? Sex and love which is more important in a relationship...if you truly love your wife just as you've said,you should know how to stick to your wife inspite of her shortcoming... Sex is'nt everything player...

This is probably another troll but I will put my two cents in anyways.

I totally agree with this. One day OP you will be crying the blues when your wife leaves you over this. Its ALOT harder to find that person thats perfect for you than it is to get counceling for this issue. Just ask many singles in this chat?

I am agreeing that if you really loved your wife then you would not even be thinking about having an affair, as much as sex is important to you.

What did you really expect us to tell you? Puleeeeeeeeeese!

My mother used to say that cheats only cheat themselves.

She isn't dead. She just doesn't say it anymore.

Being she is your Wife; You should do all you can to keep your marriage together. Work on what is wrong til you work it out.

Some marriages are just bad and I don't agree that people should stick together no matter what. If this isn't just a troll thread and this guy is for real I wouldn't blame his wife for divorcing him at all and finding a guy that isn't going to treat her like that.

Maybe you need to spend more time on your wife like you do on your mistress? How do you know that YOU are really satisfying your wife? Maybe you have some shortcomings and she does not want to hurt you! LOL It would be quite ironic if she was cheating on you with your mistresses husband, now that would be something to write about!!!!
I do believe IF you are married then you NEVER cheat. IF you can not work it out between you and your mate, then you divorce each other and go your own way. If you are having sex with someone else, you don't know if that someone else is having sex with anyone else...what are you bringing home to your wife? This is how diseases get spread...just leave her so she still has some pride left.
You might think you are all that...but you my friend are nothing but a dawg!

Some marriages take more work than others. If he has the problems, then he should take steps, to correct those problems. I do not feel people should get divorced, when both are willing to work. Imo

if your wife would consider it cheating, than yes, it's wrong. pretty simple really.

Getting advise

I did all that and its still the same.

but plays an important part its a two way street.

I take care of my wife and like said sex is important and i dont know in what relationship it isnt. Im not a troll this is really going on.

and if it doesnt work?

Use the quote button Bulldog!

Goofball, your name definitely does NOT fit with your honest & insightful comment!

At the end of the day, most fully understand the difference between right and wrong. Even after my very own marriage-drama, I know that what my wife and I did was flat-out wrong. When you are married to someone, there are supposed to be your "other" your "partner" = your yin to their yang. The ratio varies depending upon the couple, but it needs to be a symbiotic environment to work even halfway well.

Talk to your wife, be honest while keeping her feelings in mind, and let it be what it be. Besides, cheating is kinda fun & exhilarating, but it is too much work and nearly always ends in some serious mental anguish/pain. Sometimes physical pain too...

At the end of the day, I don't want anybody to feel anything like I feel last June. It changed me forever. When you talk to her (if you do) it will likely change her forever.

I know this topic is a touchy one. I know my actions havent benifited anyone but myself and the woman ive been cheating with. The thing is we all deserve to be happy in our marriage but theres always a flaw. My wife is happy to me thats all that counts. Whateva she dont know isnt going to hurt her. Im not going to divorce my wife. If somewhere down the line she happens to put one&one together ill deal with it then,but for the time being shes happy im happy.