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Wed 03/27/13 09:51 PM


Goofball, your name definitely does NOT fit with your honest & insightful comment!

At the end of the day, most fully understand the difference between right and wrong. Even after my very own marriage-drama, I know that what my wife and I did was flat-out wrong. When you are married to someone, there are supposed to be your "other" your "partner" = your yin to their yang. The ratio varies depending upon the couple, but it needs to be a symbiotic environment to work even halfway well.

Talk to your wife, be honest while keeping her feelings in mind, and let it be what it be. Besides, cheating is kinda fun & exhilarating, but it is too much work and nearly always ends in some serious mental anguish/pain. Sometimes physical pain too...

At the end of the day, I don't want anybody to feel anything like I feel last June. It changed me forever. When you talk to her (if you do) it will likely change her forever.
spock

I understand really i do and im really sorry for your experience and you're right its fun but we have an understanding and its just sex trust me. If i were to talk to my wife it would be over. so lets leave it like it is.

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Wed 03/27/13 09:44 PM


Goofball, your name definitely does NOT fit with your honest & insightful comment!

At the end of the day, most fully understand the difference between right and wrong. Even after my very own marriage-drama, I know that what my wife and I did was flat-out wrong. When you are married to someone, there are supposed to be your "other" your "partner" = your yin to their yang. The ratio varies depending upon the couple, but it needs to be a symbiotic environment to work even halfway well.

Talk to your wife, be honest while keeping her feelings in mind, and let it be what it be. Besides, cheating is kinda fun & exhilarating, but it is too much work and nearly always ends in some serious mental anguish/pain. Sometimes physical pain too...

At the end of the day, I don't want anybody to feel anything like I feel last June. It changed me forever. When you talk to her (if you do) it will likely change her forever.
spock



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Wed 03/27/13 09:44 PM


Goofball, your name definitely does NOT fit with your honest & insightful comment!

At the end of the day, most fully understand the difference between right and wrong. Even after my very own marriage-drama, I know that what my wife and I did was flat-out wrong. When you are married to someone, there are supposed to be your "other" your "partner" = your yin to their yang. The ratio varies depending upon the couple, but it needs to be a symbiotic environment to work even halfway well.

Talk to your wife, be honest while keeping her feelings in mind, and let it be what it be. Besides, cheating is kinda fun & exhilarating, but it is too much work and nearly always ends in some serious mental anguish/pain. Sometimes physical pain too...

At the end of the day, I don't want anybody to feel anything like I feel last June. It changed me forever. When you talk to her (if you do) it will likely change her forever.
spock



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Thu 03/21/13 07:19 AM

Just to point out this is clearly a troll posting, considering this person has already made up their mind no point in making this posting its just to get people riled up.


We all know that cheating isnt a good thing and im not trying to get people riled up but i know if you understood the situation or see things threw my eyes you would probably have a different opinión

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Thu 03/21/13 07:07 AM


I know this topic is a touchy one. I know my actions havent benifited anyone but myself and the woman ive been cheating with. The thing is we all deserve to be happy in our marriage but theres always a flaw. My wife is happy to me thats all that counts. Whateva she dont know isnt going to hurt her. Im not going to divorce my wife. If somewhere down the line she happens to put one&one together ill deal with it then,but for the time being shes happy im happy.


And yet,you asked!!!

I asked cause im human and regardless of my actions i do feel guilty sometimes. Just wanted to see if there maybe someone out there who may understand the situation.

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Wed 03/20/13 08:51 PM

Goofball, your name definitely does NOT fit with your honest & insightful comment!

At the end of the day, most fully understand the difference between right and wrong. Even after my very own marriage-drama, I know that what my wife and I did was flat-out wrong. When you are married to someone, there are supposed to be your "other" your "partner" = your yin to their yang. The ratio varies depending upon the couple, but it needs to be a symbiotic environment to work even halfway well.

Talk to your wife, be honest while keeping her feelings in mind, and let it be what it be. Besides, cheating is kinda fun & exhilarating, but it is too much work and nearly always ends in some serious mental anguish/pain. Sometimes physical pain too...

At the end of the day, I don't want anybody to feel anything like I feel last June. It changed me forever. When you talk to her (if you do) it will likely change her forever.
spock


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Wed 03/20/13 08:49 PM
I know this topic is a touchy one. I know my actions havent benifited anyone but myself and the woman ive been cheating with. The thing is we all deserve to be happy in our marriage but theres always a flaw. My wife is happy to me thats all that counts. Whateva she dont know isnt going to hurt her. Im not going to divorce my wife. If somewhere down the line she happens to put one&one together ill deal with it then,but for the time being shes happy im happy.

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Wed 03/20/13 04:44 PM
and if it doesnt work?

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Wed 03/20/13 04:43 PM
I take care of my wife and like said sex is important and i dont know in what relationship it isnt. Im not a troll this is really going on.

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Wed 03/20/13 04:39 PM
but plays an important part its a two way street.

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Wed 03/20/13 04:36 PM
I did all that and its still the same.

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Wed 03/20/13 04:35 PM
Getting advise

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Wed 03/20/13 09:05 AM
promises can be broken depending the circumstances.

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Wed 03/20/13 09:04 AM
We know the answer to that one.

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Wed 03/20/13 08:58 AM
Honestly, how important is sex in a relationship or even marriage?

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Wed 03/20/13 08:51 AM
I understand what you all are saying beleive me i do,but its a two way street right. If i satify her do i deserve the same? She cant hack it cause she has no stamina cause of her weight. I love her cause of her personality shes everything i want in a woman just sex is the only flaw and she doesnt look on these things so no worries mr.knowitall.

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Wed 03/20/13 06:54 AM
Say you meet a guy you start dating. You fall in love with him and everythings going great. The time comes to make love and when you do youre not satisfied cause his penis doesnt do it for you what do you do?

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Wed 03/20/13 06:49 AM
Doesnt work that way killer. We love everything about our partners just the sex isnt good. We're eachothers medicine that keep eachother in our marriage.

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Wed 03/20/13 06:40 AM
Ive cheated and the person who ive cheated with is in my same shoes. Her husband doesnt satify her. Whats wrong with filling that void with no strings attached?

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Wed 03/20/13 06:36 AM
Im a married man,love my wife and shes awsome,but shes a big girl and really cant handle things in the sack. How does that sound? Picture it hunny im leaving you cause youre overweight dont sound good.

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