wolfchic I agree completly, if the rest of us would just take a page from the bible, where it says come as you are the world would be a much better place, one don't have to be a Christion even to just except people as they are with all of their warts and blimishes.

I really wish there was a perfect man out there lol..

Ofcource the perfect man exists-in your head!!

Although,there's also another one you should be hunting for-the one perfect FOR YOU!! That one exists even in reality!

There is. But he prefers Dos Equis.

*Says 'No' ten thousand times*. Perfect is more or less a means to an end. No-one is perfectly handsome, perfectly proportioned, perfectly anything. I've just never liked the word ever since being young. It reminds me of females making themselves throw up, in order to be slim. I know some men do that too. We shouldn't need the word 'Perfect'. It seems like a very sculptured word. Nobody will ever fit into that mould. We can just be the best we can be. Perfect is the illusions you see in reality shows and MTV music video's. And I also don't buy into that silly cliche poster, on the back of a bus, of a woman with perfect white teeth. They always seem to have unrealistic, over-enthusiastic smiles.

Would you settle for mr "You'll do" ?

no perfect person, but the mind is a powerful thing,, when we think we are 'in love' we can convince ourself as such a thing as perfect,,,,

I thought I met "My Knight in Shining Armour" one time......he turned out to be a retard wrapped in Tin Foil.......But try try try again......lol lol

Boy oh boy!!
The never ending trials(frogs)!!
Arent you glad you have the courage,the strength and the hope agains all hopes to get up and try again??

Beautifully worded; love it!

Frogs, toads, retards in tin-foil are the staples of everyday life for most females; shame really, but as I posted in some thread yesterday, hey, I'm to as near perfect as you can ever experience. Yes, of course, I feel great, I've just had some medication and WoW!
Frogs, toads, etc. really do make the world a boring place, don't they; they're all the same and now that I think of it again with my medication, of how interesting I am and what a pleasure I am to be around, I really can't help but realize that a world full of me's would be absolutely brilliant and almost like a religious experience. This is what women want! Of course, it won't last and my medication will eventually wear off...perhaps I can put it into an IV and take it with me all the time...oh wow, the colours!

If the perfect man exists, then he is searching for the perfect woman, who isn't a member of this site.

...Only in your dreams
Only in your dreams...

Hey! I'm perfect! I'm just the only one who knows it cuz everyone else is imperfect!

Hey I know im perfect, and you know how I know, cause my mommy told me so, and mommy never lied.

Amen!

But,

It was also Mommy who put that gift under the christmas tree,told you Santa brought it last night while you were asleep-a payment for being such a ''good boy''(read naughty boy)!!
Ha ha ha ha haaa

Try to look beyond the imperfections.

Damn trolls!!!

If the perfect man did exist, have you been through the trials in life that would help you to recognize kindness, repentance, fortitude, and attitude of understanding, sincere gestures given in an honest way, tenderness, love and hope, a reckless disire to find true love in an imperfect world? Would accept a perfect man in to your world of regrets, poor choices, and consequences? Would he be happy with the person you are today? Then change, restructure, rebuild, empower yourself. Would this perfect man have to be perfect or just a man who could atone for his weaknesses and find grace in your acceptance? How will you recognize him if you don't respond, or reach out to simple smiles, nudges and friendly hellos? Is being a perfect man for you making a man choose your happiness over his integrity, or can you wait for the seed of friendhip, then love to grow in a a perfect relationship? Does a lack of patience make him imperfect or are you giving life a reasonable chance at connectiing to him? Will you allow that neither you or I are perfect in accepting a perfect man? Can you cook and clean and spruce yourself up once in a while to allure your perfect man? Have you the hope and belief that an honest and truthful relationship can still exist in this vast expanse of romantic deprivation? Will you get past looking at a picture to reading a profile and emailing while the perfect man is still around to hear your beckon call? Will you call out the qualities you call perfect yet allow this man to show you his inner and outer soul? What keeps you from finding this genuine and trusted soul who yearns for nothing more than everlasting love and friendhip? It begins with belief, hope, faith, doing, acting upon your instincts. Who can resist the perfect woman, unselfish and kind, a friend to all, one who helps those who cannot help themselves, one who does not prey on your carnal lusts, but holds intimacy in high regard? Are you such a woman? Are you such a man?

If he is such a man, then by all means get off your lazy couches and try to become the perfect match as well.

(not written to offend anyone, please forgive the rant)...


LW2, but not for long. I've reached out to a half dozen of you this week. I intend to hear back from my new friends. Don't be scared. Just be yourself and see who you and I become.


LW2, empowered, hopefull, a hopeless romantic, a gentleman. Dream big. Keep your eyes on the prize. Be, Become, Enjoy friendhips. Drown the enemy called despair. Give love a chance.