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Topic: Players
vanessagambles Joined Sat 03/02/13 Posts: 5	Sat 03/02/13 05:39 AM
If you have come across one of these turds do us all a good turn and name them.

vanessagambles Joined Sat 03/02/13 Posts: 5	Sat 03/02/13 06:11 AM
Three out of the four guys I met on here are active players. I got played by one hook line and sinker and he didn't use a condom....

USmale47374 Joined Sun 06/24/07 Posts: 835	Sat 03/02/13 06:50 AM
If you have come across one of these turds do us all a good turn and name them. Sounds like you need to move slower, Vanessa. Give the "turds" enough time to hang themselves before sharing too much of yourself. Having said that, I wish you the best of luck on Mingle and with your life in general.

vanessagambles Joined Sat 03/02/13 Posts: 5	Sat 03/02/13 07:19 AM
Thank you, these guys are so convincing, constantly making contact one way or another so you feel you know them... they have built up lots of experience.

palomaa Joined Sat 02/16/13 Posts: 3	Sat 03/02/13 07:58 AM Edited by palomaa on Sat 03/02/13 08:01 AM
There are lots of players very very active on here... I haven't been caught out but my friend was recently, she is really taking it hard that she fell for it she really did like the guy. Cruel, just go pay for sex openly then innocent girls don't get conned .

CremeBrulee Joined Tue 11/06/12 Posts: 2726	Sat 03/02/13 08:44 AM
Three out of the four guys I met on here are active players. I got played by one hook line and sinker and he didn't use a condom.... Oh My God!! Whaaaaaat??? Eish! Not good my dear Paloma! Please ladies,lets go slow.....these guys..they are cute,believable and all that,but,lets guard our lives-we are very easy targets i know! Sorry P,i hope you are safe-healthy wise? Now am glad i live far from most....

Jtevans Joined Fri 08/10/07 Posts: 30654	Sat 03/02/13 09:19 AM
i'm a player I play video games all the time

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45397	Sat 03/02/13 11:11 AM
This thread has been edited of member names. Please do not post ANY other member's name on a public forum such as this. If you suspect a scammer, report them. soufie Site Moderator

juliecreadie Joined Fri 03/01/13 Posts: 3	Mon 03/04/13 03:47 AM
Open two accounts, one real one a honeytrap so when you start getting more serious and your being lead to believe your the only one. Add him to the honeytraps favourites and she how far he runs with it no harm with him chatting but asking to meet up with someone else means your not the only one...

tulsaok73 Joined Thu 02/28/13 Posts: 13	Mon 03/04/13 04:06 AM
not a player, i'm just a man, who is looking for love, if i find it, i will be with that woman FOREVER. thats how i was raised. but so far no women seem interested. :(

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Mon 03/04/13 04:38 AM
Open two accounts, one real one a honeytrap so when you start getting more serious and your being lead to believe your the only one. Add him to the honeytraps favourites and she how far he runs with it no harm with him chatting but asking to meet up with someone else means your not the only one... just FYI....opening multiple accounts will only get you in trouble. Mingle only allows 1 account per person 12) Multiple profiles are not allowed. You may only have 1 profile per user. Users who are found to have created multiple profiles may have all of their profiles banned.

Zydeco1970 Joined Mon 03/04/13 Posts: 3	Mon 03/04/13 07:22 AM Edited by Zydeco1970 on Mon 03/04/13 07:23 AM
Total agreement on USmale47374's advice. Well said. The line about the one guy not using a condom left out an important truth - she didn't MAKE him wear one. It's of the utmost importance that women play safe online. Remember that these people are strangers - don't jump too fast into a physical relationship with someone you do not know!

CremeBrulee Joined Tue 11/06/12 Posts: 2726	Mon 03/04/13 08:23 AM
Total agreement on USmale47374's advice. Well said. The line about the one guy not using a condom left out an important truth - she didn't MAKE him wear one. It's of the utmost importance that women play safe online. Remember that these people are strangers - don't jump too fast into a physical relationship with someone you do not know! Si,well said!

palomaa Joined Sat 02/16/13 Posts: 3	Mon 03/04/13 12:22 PM
your missing the point,that being many men are using this free site as a free sex site jumping one to the other intentionally, they are so good you get taken in then dropped... the point is you are being warned to stay safe and on guard as hes a player and doesnt use protection probably ever

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48948	Mon 03/04/13 01:44 PM
Three out of the four guys I met on here are active players. I got played by one hook line and sinker and he didn't use a condom.... Just what is your definition of a player?

juliecreadie Joined Fri 03/01/13 Posts: 3	Mon 03/04/13 01:57 PM
Just a thought, calm down... Have a friend join.

juliecreadie Joined Fri 03/01/13 Posts: 3	Mon 03/04/13 01:59 PM
Well we would not want to break any rules would we....get a friend to join there ya go sorted

vanessagambles Joined Sat 03/02/13 Posts: 5	Mon 03/04/13 02:21 PM
Before anyone else starts pick holes out of me... I have met and dated 4 men from this site over a period of time... I slept with one guy I thought was so genuine to the point where we had a relationship.. Nothing sleazy or one night stand.... A relationship over a period of time. I used contraceptives so no condom was used...THEN HE STARTED MAKING MOVES ON A FRIEND AND THEN ANOTHER GIVING THEM ALL THE SAME SPIN. THAT'S WHEN I SAW HIM FOR WHAT HE WAS AND STILL IS but hey kick me when I'm trying to help others not make the same mistake !!!

vanessagambles Joined Sat 03/02/13 Posts: 5	Mon 03/04/13 02:31 PM
A player is a man who pursues a women leading her to believe there is a relationship, but his sole intention is to seduce her into having sex, going from one conquest to the next with no remorse...

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48948	Mon 03/04/13 03:59 PM
A player is a man who pursues a women leading her to believe there is a relationship, but his sole intention is to seduce her into having sex, going from one conquest to the next with no remorse... What gave you the idea that a man should be exclusively yours once you have begun to have sex with him? No rule or law prohibits a single man from having sex with a woman and then moving on to another woman. If you want a permanent relationship with a man, then marry him.