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Topic: Do age does matters?
oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Wed 12/11/13 07:33 AM
Their hormones are raging sweetestgirl. Been missing you winlei!!

sybariticguy Joined Thu 09/27/12 Posts: 1639	Wed 12/11/13 07:38 AM
mental and emotional age matter, and they are USUALLY correlated with biological age although there are exceptions, as more and more people put off 'maturing' emotionally or intellectually,, Sadly very few peoples emotional age corresponds to their intellectual or social age for that matter. Most adults are functioning at about 17 in their abilty to share and respond to others needs, wants and desires.

Diana_Clemente Joined Sat 01/04/14 Posts: 22	Thu 01/23/14 04:42 PM
I dont take care of it.

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Fri 01/24/14 10:19 AM
More than real age, what's important is the mind age. Some people can be 60 and still be pretty inmature and there are some really mature young people. Anyhow, above all, what really matters, is being right for each other.... agree . True. But how come young guys think if you even so much as smile you want to jump in tha sack???? you mean thats not true?

jerseygirlSINGLE Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 3598	Fri 01/24/14 10:37 AM
I rather date men around my own age

paintecards01 Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 4725	Fri 01/24/14 10:37 AM
I rather date men around my own age Good idea, younger guys are extremely immature.

boonedoggy61 Joined Fri 09/09/11 Posts: 10425	Fri 01/24/14 10:43 AM
I don't let the age thing bother me, If two people are interested in each other then I think they should go for it !!!!!!

Boltonboy84 Joined Fri 01/24/14 Posts: 2	Fri 01/24/14 03:45 PM
Anyone from Bolton here?

yelquiamco Joined Sun 01/05/14 Posts: 24	Fri 01/24/14 11:31 PM
For me and relationship-wise, yes. I mean, for you to have a relationship there has to be a maturity level to be reached. Maturity and age comes a little hand on hand MOST of the time, so I guess age should be ONE of the factors. Although I know SOME may be old enough (greater in age) but still lacks a certain maturity and younger ones having more than the level if maturity naturally on their age, but still I think it is rare. I prefer guys a LITTLE older than or at the same age as me than those at the extremes.

KAWE221 Joined Tue 09/10/13 Posts: 1	Sat 01/25/14 01:36 AM
hello

cha7385 Joined Fri 11/22/13 Posts: 3782	Sat 01/25/14 01:47 AM
I prefer to date someone who's not too old to look like my dad or too young to look like my son..

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Sat 01/25/14 03:50 PM
More than real age, what's important is the mind age. Some people can be 60 and still be pretty inmature and there are some really mature young people. Anyhow, above all, what really matters, is being right for each other.... agree . True. But how come young guys think if you even so much as smile you want to jump in tha sack???? Because they are immature?

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Sat 01/25/14 03:56 PM
More than real age, what's important is the mind age. Some people can be 60 and still be pretty inmature and there are some really mature young people. Anyhow, above all, what really matters, is being right for each other.... I can honestly say I haven't met too many immature men my age. The only time they get immature is when they go through mid-life crisis. The ones that are immature usually will go for a younger woman so that explains why they are compatible with a younger woman. So its not that the younger person is mature; it is usually the older person acting immature by trying to recapture their youth.

markc48 Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 5536	Sat 01/25/14 04:07 PM
I'm not recapturing my youth. I'm enjoying my old age.

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Sat 01/25/14 07:37 PM
I'm not recapturing my youth. I'm enjoying my old age.

paintecards01 Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 4725	Sat 01/25/14 07:39 PM
I prefer to date someone who's not too old to look like my dad or too young to look like my son.. This.

Robertjohn007 Joined Sat 01/25/14 Posts: 12	Mon 01/27/14 01:32 PM
U r right

JohnDavidDavid Joined Tue 08/13/13 Posts: 334	Mon 01/27/14 04:05 PM
There seems to be a fine line (or general confusion) in the minds of some women between "immature" and "too serious."

paintecards01 Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 4725	Mon 01/27/14 04:11 PM
There seems to be a fine line (or general confusion) in the minds of some women between "immature" and "too serious." There should be a nice mixture, a happy medium. To be honest, I've known more immature older men compared to immature younger men. I was feeling snarky the day I made that previous post.... But basically, there's a time and place for serious and immature, the wise man is aware of that.

JohnDavidDavid Joined Tue 08/13/13 Posts: 334	Mon 01/27/14 05:39 PM
There seems to be a fine line (or general confusion) in the minds of some women between "immature" and "too serious." There should be a nice mixture, a happy medium. To be honest, I've known more immature older men compared to immature younger men. I was feeling snarky the day I made that previous post.... But basically, there's a time and place for serious and immature, the wise man is aware of that. Perhaps it depends on how "maturity" (an conversely immaturity) is defined: "In psychology, maturity is the ability to respond to the environment in an appropriate manner. This response is generally learned rather than instinctive. Maturity also encompasses being aware of the correct time and place to behave and knowing when to act, according to the circumstances and the culture of the society one lives in. Adult development and maturity theories include the purpose in life concept, in which maturity emphasizes a clear comprehension of life's purpose, directedness, and intentionality, which contributes to the feeling that life is meaningful. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maturity_%28psychological%29 The above indicates that a mature person knows how to act under given circumstances. Thus, one who is mature can decide when to act "playful" without being immature or childish.