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Topic: Do age does matters?
earlpaul Joined Sat 02/23/13 Posts: 2	Sat 02/23/13 02:28 PM
I like going out with younger ladys to have a good frend thay r fun but for a wife to big of age defrents

beaststud Joined Sat 02/23/13 Posts: 15	Sat 02/23/13 03:55 PM
Age doesn't matter everyone knows that

Queene123 Joined Tue 06/26/07 Posts: 17056	Sat 02/23/13 08:32 PM
Age doesn't matter everyone knows that ok would u date a 14yr old

jennychula2 Joined Sat 12/15/12 Posts: 1	Sat 02/23/13 08:53 PM
To me you are only as old as you feel and how you carry yourself.If I find someone and are on two different level's it than it really would not work.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 02/23/13 10:33 PM
Thanks mg but you know i realized that maybe i shouldn't post this topic. Now i'm ashamed. Not that i blame someone here but my insecurities kicked in again. oh please...many people have asked this "age" question before. For some reason it is a constant topic of interest and curiousity. mostly it would seem, from the younger who apparently want to know if older partners will accept them. There is no reason to be ashamed of posting, or of your English. It is fine, and quite good considering it is not your first language. Nothing had happened that harms your honor in any way the person who criticized your english is dishonored for wrong criticism and lack of hospitality I am sure most of english speaker on here would not fare well on a non english speaking site

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 02/23/13 10:35 PM
Age doesn't matter everyone knows that ok would u date a 14yr old I would assume he meant within legal limits, Queene

Winlei Joined Sat 01/26/13 Posts: 4048	Sat 02/23/13 11:15 PM
Thanks mg but you know i realized that maybe i shouldn't post this topic. Now i'm ashamed. Not that i blame someone here but my insecurities kicked in again. oh please...many people have asked this "age" question before. For some reason it is a constant topic of interest and curiousity. mostly it would seem, from the younger who apparently want to know if older partners will accept them. There is no reason to be ashamed of posting, or of your English. It is fine, and quite good considering it is not your first language. Nothing had happened that harms your honor in any way the person who criticized your english is dishonored for wrong criticism and lack of hospitality I am sure most of english speaker on here would not fare well on a non english speaking site Thanks sweetestgirl

yogi4yogini Joined Thu 02/21/13 Posts: 57	Sat 02/23/13 11:34 PM
Great topic, and one I've been pondering a lot since my ex's age and my daughters age spread is the range of ages I'm looking at in a new partner. I agree that age doesn't matter in friendships and fun, but long term intimacy and commuication, I think closeness in age is better. I find the energy and curiousity of younger women to be very appealing, so I am not going to pass up an opportunity to get to know them. And I learn from their view on the world as it is now to be refreshing, which keeps me from feeling so old. There may be pressure from relatives and friends applied to an age-spread couple. So how well that can be dealt with by the couple matters. Differances in sexual energies may be a challenge, too. Ultimately, the relationship will succeed or fail based on the ability to communincate and share effectively. After all, love triumphs over all.

YouMayBeTheOne Joined Sun 02/24/13 Posts: 4	Sun 02/24/13 04:55 PM
I can't even make sense of this question "do age does matter"! Sly

YouMayBeTheOne Joined Sun 02/24/13 Posts: 4	Sun 02/24/13 04:59 PM
the way the question is worded makes no sense. however, we get the drift. friendship can be any age, but a romantic relationship...it's very important for me. i would only be involved with someone, who was at least in the same generation.

lovelykandance Joined Wed 02/20/13 Posts: 5	Sun 02/24/13 05:01 PM
It depends on how you are.

Winlei Joined Sat 01/26/13 Posts: 4048	Sun 02/24/13 05:03 PM
I can't even make sense of this question "do age does matter"! Sly And what are you implying youmaybetheone? I know im wrong. SATISFIED? You dont have to slap it on my face again.

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Sun 02/24/13 10:21 PM
age is an illusion were older behave younger and vise versa but in a relationship it shouldnt matter unless that person is superficial and petty .less selfishpeople will accept a person with children .its like your best sunday rost what goods the roast without something on the side and a lil gravy. I think that is harsh. People shouldn't be considered selfish just because they won't accept a person with children. Why should they take responsiblity for someone's kid? I wouldn't accept someone with kids either. I am 52 years old; have a full time job; a house to take care of; my military obligations; so I am way to exhausted to take care of a child. So before you pass judgements on others; you need to understand why. Age also is not a illusion; it's damn real. Grey hair, wrinkles, weakening eye sight, aches and pains; with eventually facing death. These things are very real and not an illusion. I challenge anyone that is 20 or 30 years younger than me to understand what its like to age. They don't have a clue of what you are going through especially when someone is in menopause or going through mid life crisis. So; of course that matters in a relatioship; because relationship comes from the word relate. A large age gap is too hard to relate. Also being older; dating a younger person does not make you feel younger; its just a remind of how old you really are. so we penalise age ,single parents colour, creed lifstyles were will we just keep going the disabled the afflicted then after all the filters used we ask.were are all the real people...psst there the real people you penalise what your searching for is a comic book hero now. thats what i was saying so we use too many rules we box ourselves in to tightly...i wasnt being offencive with my post but ..using freedom of speach and opinion I don't think its penalizing someone if you don't want to date them for whatever the reason is; its called a preference. All I am saying is that some people don't prefer to date someone with kids but that doesn't mean you have the right to call them selfish. I wouldn't date a yonger man either as its not my preference. So, you are saying people should just settle so they won't be considered selfish? We all have our preferences and if someone wants to search for a comic book hero; who are we to judge them.

Deba Joined Mon 08/27/12 Posts: 2	Mon 02/25/13 06:34 AM
Age.... Its always a big factor if the difference is huge.... But if the difference is small and love is there i don't think it creates any difference...;);)..

Deba Joined Mon 08/27/12 Posts: 2	Mon 02/25/13 06:39 AM
....;);).... Well and perfectly said..

Winlei Joined Sat 01/26/13 Posts: 4048	Mon 02/25/13 06:56 AM
Hi debs? Welcome. Haha.

MetalShadow6 Joined Thu 02/14/13 Posts: 924	Mon 02/25/13 09:27 AM
Age doesn't matter everyone knows that ok would u date a 14yr old I would assume he meant within legal limits, Queene I think that is leegal in Iran or Iraq, or least that is the youngest you can marry. It has been about seven years since I last looked at that chart.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Tue 02/26/13 07:13 PM
Age doesn't matter everyone knows that ok would u date a 14yr old I would assume he meant within legal limits, Queene I think that is leegal in Iran or Iraq, or least that is the youngest you can marry. It has been about seven years since I last looked at that chart. I think that's a chart I can do without....you would think they'd be ashamed the old perverts....I recenly read somewhere about a shiek marrying a 13 y/o....disgusting & I mean that wholeheartedly. cultural and religious differences just do not excuse pedos, IMHO

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Tue 02/26/13 07:14 PM
Thanks mg but you know i realized that maybe i shouldn't post this topic. Now i'm ashamed. Not that i blame someone here but my insecurities kicked in again. oh please...many people have asked this "age" question before. For some reason it is a constant topic of interest and curiousity. mostly it would seem, from the younger who apparently want to know if older partners will accept them. There is no reason to be ashamed of posting, or of your English. It is fine, and quite good considering it is not your first language. Nothing had happened that harms your honor in any way the person who criticized your english is dishonored for wrong criticism and lack of hospitality I am sure most of english speaker on here would not fare well on a non english speaking site Thanks sweetestgirl you are welcome winlei and I like your new photo!

Winlei Joined Sat 01/26/13 Posts: 4048	Tue 02/26/13 07:21 PM
Age doesn't matter everyone knows that ok would u date a 14yr old I would assume he meant within legal limits, Queene I think that is leegal in Iran or Iraq, or least that is the youngest you can marry. It has been about seven years since I last looked at that chart. I think that's a chart I can do without....you would think they'd be ashamed the old perverts....I recenly read somewhere about a shiek marrying a 13 y/o....disgusting & I mean that wholeheartedly. cultural and religious differences just do not excuse pedos, IMHO Marrying as in "MARRYING"! Gosh is it acceptable to church? (SPEECHLESSSSS)