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Topic: Things that are a'huge turn off'
Torgo70 Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 27387	Sun 12/02/12 11:37 AM
Mean. we've talked about this! Oh yeah!

pennyg281 Joined Thu 11/08/07 Posts: 4348	Sun 12/02/12 11:48 AM
Turn OFF's ??? For one, I cannot for the life of me understand why people make such a big deal about those who smoke. It's a habit that most enjoy. yes it make smell, and yes it MAY be bad for ones health. But those that complain are normally those that USED to smoke them selves. Most of these people walk down roads of thousands of cars buses lorries and such, but do not complain about the harmful s*** they are breathing in or the smell of fumes. Don't you know, that there are more people on DRUGS than those that smoke! not to mention all those that are quite happy to go out and spend hard earnt money and many that are given to them by the Government to live on, Supposedly?, and drink as much as they like but are quitye happy to chuck it up a wall where ever it suits them and then turn around to the partner and snog the life out of them!!! Reformed smokers, huh!! Oh hi, yes i'm new here. i do not have an attitude, I just do not like those who think it there right to dictate to others. Yes the subject is turn OFF's, but seems to me more of a dictatorship. Knowing what you like or don't like and what will allow or not allow when it comes to dating is not about dictating its about choices. I don't smoke, I have never smokes, I don't do drugs, and I might drink one or two mixed drinks every six months. I tey my best to be am honest person who has integrity. So If I choose not to date someone because they smoke,or drink heavily,uses drugs,uses foul language, or whatever reason I choose that is my choice, As I am sure that their are specific reasons you would choose not to date some women.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sun 12/02/12 12:18 PM
Turn OFF's ??? For one, I cannot for the life of me understand why people make such a big deal about those who smoke. It's a habit that most enjoy. yes it make smell, and yes it MAY be bad for ones health. But those that complain are normally those that USED to smoke them selves. Most of these people walk down roads of thousands of cars buses lorries and such, but do not complain about the harmful s*** they are breathing in or the smell of fumes. Don't you know, that there are more people on DRUGS than those that smoke! not to mention all those that are quite happy to go out and spend hard earnt money and many that are given to them by the Government to live on, Supposedly?, and drink as much as they like but are quitye happy to chuck it up a wall where ever it suits them and then turn around to the partner and snog the life out of them!!! Reformed smokers, huh!! Oh hi, yes i'm new here. i do not have an attitude, I just do not like those who think it there right to dictate to others. Yes the subject is turn OFF's, but seems to me more of a dictatorship. smoking comes indoors and gets in the curtains and carpets and the smell is not only repulsive but very hard to eradicate. and you can smell terrible personally in the matter of grooming. you may not be able to smell it but those who do not smoke can. it's awful. and second hand smoke is harmful when brought indoors where there is no escaping it. medical evidence is so conclusive regarding the harm of indoor 2nd hand smoke that indoor smoking is banned in public buildings, medical facilities and most businesses in the US. sorry - if u don't like. ur best bet is to look for someone who doesn't mind it.

jacktrades Joined Tue 09/11/12 Posts: 4395	Sun 12/02/12 01:01 PM
When they look down on you because of your occupation.

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48950	Sun 12/02/12 01:01 PM
Date failed to mention he still lives at home with mum & dad... 30+ 'really' Is doing so illegal where you live?

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48950	Sun 12/02/12 01:20 PM
For one, I cannot for the life of me understand why people make such a big deal about those who smoke. Are you serious? Smoking damages one's body and increases the chance that one will have a serious health problem. Second-hand smoke causes health problems in others. Cigarette smoke stinks and gets into just about everything. People tend to want to breath clean air, which is why so many non-smokers favor a ban on smoking in certain places. Let's get something straight. Nicotine is a drug. Its use may be legal, but it is still a drug. Nicotine is addictive, which is why smokers have such a difficult time quitting. You say that you smoke because you enjoy it? You enjoy polluting your lungs? You enjoy polluting the air that is immediately around you? Well, those things are a turn off to plenty of people for good reasons.

Bravalady Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 1034	Sun 12/02/12 01:21 PM
Turn OFF's ??? For one, I cannot for the life of me understand why people make such a big deal about those who smoke. It's a habit that most enjoy. Wrong. Even some who still smoke don't actually enjoy it, they're just unfortunately hooked. yes it make smell, and yes it MAY be bad for ones health. You are living in a dream world if you have any doubt whatsoever about the adverse health effects of tobacco for both the smoker and those around him/her. But those that complain are normally those that USED to smoke them selves. Wrong. I, for one, have never smoked. Most of these people walk down roads of thousands of cars buses lorries and such, but do not complain about the harmful s*** they are breathing in or the smell of fumes. Wrong again. Some of us live in the country, and many of us do object to other forms of air pollution. Unfortunately these other forms aren't as easy to deal with as just asking a tobacco user to be considerate. Don't you know, that there are more people on DRUGS than those that smoke! Two wrongs make a right in your world? not to mention all those that are quite happy to go out and spend hard earnt money and many that are given to them by the Government to live on, Supposedly?, and drink as much as they like but are quitye happy to chuck it up a wall where ever it suits them and then turn around to the partner and snog the life out of them!!! This is relevant how? Reformed smokers, huh!! Oh hi, yes i'm new here. i do not have an attitude, I just do not like those who think it there right to dictate to others. Yes the subject is turn OFF's, but seems to me more of a dictatorship. If this is an example of your not having an attitude, then I think you need a dictionary. Not a very promising way to make friends, IMHO.

notsoincognito Joined Fri 11/30/12 Posts: 178	Sun 12/02/12 01:59 PM Edited by notsoincognito on Sun 12/02/12 02:24 PM
Date failed to mention he still lives at home with mum & dad... 30+ 'really' Is doing so illegal where you live? Not illegal.. for me personally I would prefer my date to be independant & have a home/flat of his own... personal preference P.S I have my own home

Unknow Joined Thu 04/01/10 Posts: 1482	Sun 12/02/12 02:41 PM
Turn OFF's ??? For one, I cannot for the life of me understand why people make such a big deal about those who smoke. It's a habit that most enjoy. yes it make smell, and yes it MAY be bad for ones health. But those that complain are normally those that USED to smoke them selves. Most of these people walk down roads of thousands of cars buses lorries and such, but do not complain about the harmful s*** they are breathing in or the smell of fumes. Don't you know, that there are more people on DRUGS than those that smoke! not to mention all those that are quite happy to go out and spend hard earnt money and many that are given to them by the Government to live on, Supposedly?, and drink as much as they like but are quitye happy to chuck it up a wall where ever it suits them and then turn around to the partner and snog the life out of them!!! Reformed smokers, huh!! Oh hi, yes i'm new here. i do not have an attitude, I just do not like those who think it there right to dictate to others. Yes the subject is turn OFF's, but seems to me more of a dictatorship. smoking comes indoors and gets in the curtains and carpets and the smell is not only repulsive but very hard to eradicate. and you can smell terrible personally in the matter of grooming. you may not be able to smell it but those who do not smoke can. it's awful. and second hand smoke is harmful when brought indoors where there is no escaping it. medical evidence is so conclusive regarding the harm of indoor 2nd hand smoke that indoor smoking is banned in public buildings, medical facilities and most businesses in the US. sorry - if u don't like. ur best bet is to look for someone who doesn't mind it. let's see how much you enjoy smoking 10-15 years from now when you are on 02 and having to puff on the inhalers because you are sob (lOl short of breath).

Mystique42 Joined Thu 04/12/07 Posts: 5045	Sun 12/02/12 03:09 PM
smoking, being late and not calling, lying

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 15063	Sun 12/02/12 04:08 PM
Stingy, Tight or Conservative men. Any man that is a clutter box meaning he never throws anything out.

creativekev Joined Tue 11/27/12 Posts: 7	Wed 12/05/12 04:19 PM
I like a person to be Independant, Does that mean she can sit on FORUMS all day and night?

Muaness Joined Mon 11/05/12 Posts: 2993	Wed 12/05/12 04:23 PM
I like a person to be Independant, Does that mean she can sit on FORUMS all day and night? If that's part of her job or maybe if she has no job and seeks more joy.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Wed 12/05/12 05:16 PM
Baldness...also guys who are into women who look like men....

creativekev Joined Tue 11/27/12 Posts: 7	Thu 12/06/12 04:54 PM Edited by creativekev on Thu 12/06/12 04:58 PM
For one, I cannot for the life of me understand why people make such a big deal about those who smoke. Are you serious? Smoking damages one's body and increases the chance that one will have a serious health problem. Second-hand smoke causes health problems in others. Cigarette smoke stinks and gets into just about everything. People tend to want to breath clean air, which is why so many non-smokers favor a ban on smoking in certain places. Let's get something straight. Nicotine is a drug. Its use may be legal, but it is still a drug. Nicotine is addictive, which is why smokers have such a difficult time quitting. You say that you smoke because you enjoy it? You enjoy polluting your lungs? You enjoy polluting the air that is immediately around you? Well, those things are a turn off to plenty of people for good reasons. Are you and all anti smokers for real?, get a life, Seem there are too many very bored people on here, who have nothing better to do than sit on forums, day and night. Strange place this!!!

dk62 Joined Sun 10/30/11 Posts: 40	Thu 12/06/12 05:16 PM
When they look down on you because of your occupation. Ditto

willing2 Joined Sun 06/08/08 Posts: 20221	Thu 12/06/12 05:17 PM
Not putting out at the first hello. I'm not snooty like that.

willowdraga Joined Sat 10/13/12 Posts: 957	Thu 12/06/12 06:52 PM
Prejudice against other races, cultures, sexual orientation, religions or lack of, body types, economic status, quick to judge others as lazy worthless when they couldn't possibly know it, etc... Conversation consists of down talking all of the above Conversation consists of all the wrong they see in women and their exes

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Thu 12/06/12 06:59 PM
Not putting out at the first hello. I'm not snooty like that. any expectation that I plan to put put at all - any pestering about it -tho I might be interested in intimacy because I friggin say hello is not an idication- it happens when at happens - and it's not going to happen with someone I have known for a few days or even weeks....

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48950	Thu 12/06/12 07:19 PM
Are you and all anti smokers for real?, get a life, Seem there are too many very bored people on here, who have nothing better to do than sit on forums, day and night. Strange place this!!! People who are in denial about the harm done by smoking.