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Topic: Things that are a'huge turn off'
graywolf55's photo
Sat 02/16/13 02:09 AM

pessimists
bigots
victims
bullies
egocentrics (people who obsess over what someone should do for or give them and rarely consider what they should be giving in return)


of course, physically,
bad hygiene
odors
extreme weights(visible bones and rolls of flesh are equally unappealing to me)
body hair
tats and piercings


100% correct,But what is wrong with"body hair"Maby i'm old fashion but "shaving everything?"The only thing that grows even after death is HAIR!!Even your nails grow!Keeping it groomed is the problem,but your preferences are yours!People faking themselves is a problem"Jeckle &Hyde"Pretending they are someone they are NOT untill you commit,Then h e-double- hockey sticks comes out of them?Be yourself is the only way to go or LIE forever!Just saying.

chelynn44's photo
Sat 02/16/13 02:44 PM
Edited by chelynn44 on Sat 02/16/13 02:44 PM
Turnoff.. someone who is tooooooo serious. Don't know how to take a joke or laugh a little. Someone who is wanted to take you out, but you're the one paying all the time. 50/50 always people... and someone who smells like a piece of meat sitting out for years.. (don't know how it smells but sounds awful.) :)

MsSly's photo
Sat 02/16/13 06:05 PM
Edited by MsSly on Sat 02/16/13 06:07 PM

Date failed to mention he still lives at home with mum & dad... 30+ 'really'


In this economy I honestly don't see that as a problem.

I have a friend that would have to move in with me if it were not for her Son living with her to help out.

What gets me is that you didn't out where, who he was living with before you dated him. He could have been living with his wife.


Sly

banks1930's photo
Sun 02/17/13 10:09 AM
A woman who acts ghetto and curses constantly, arguing just to take her frustration out on me, taking advantage of my kindness, acting dumb because she thinks its cute.

msharmony's photo
Sun 02/17/13 10:24 AM


pessimists
bigots
victims
bullies
egocentrics (people who obsess over what someone should do for or give them and rarely consider what they should be giving in return)


of course, physically,
bad hygiene
odors
extreme weights(visible bones and rolls of flesh are equally unappealing to me)
body hair
tats and piercings


100% correct,But what is wrong with"body hair"Maby i'm old fashion but "shaving everything?"The only thing that grows even after death is HAIR!!Even your nails grow!Keeping it groomed is the problem,but your preferences are yours!People faking themselves is a problem"Jeckle &Hyde"Pretending they are someone they are NOT untill you commit,Then h e-double- hockey sticks comes out of them?Be yourself is the only way to go or LIE forever!Just saying.


I agree, and who we 'are' is always up to us and potentially changing,,,

I should amend body hair to say hair that is not on top of the head or in the pubic area,,,,anything resembling fur,,lol, as opposed to tiny body hairs that are natural for keeping us warm

Chatimer's photo
Sun 02/17/13 07:22 PM
- women who are helplessly addicted to facebook who feel the need to enlighten the world that they're having a coffee and about to take a crap.

that is all.

mountainwatergirl's photo
Sun 02/17/13 09:41 PM


pessimists
bigots
victims
bullies
egocentrics (people who obsess over what someone should do for or give them and rarely consider what they should be giving in return)


of course, physically,
bad hygiene
odors
extreme weights(visible bones and rolls of flesh are equally unappealing to me)
body hair
tats and piercings


100% correct,But what is wrong with"body hair"Maby i'm old fashion but "shaving everything?"The only thing that grows even after death is HAIR!!Even your nails grow!Keeping it groomed is the problem,but your preferences are yours!People faking themselves is a problem"Jeckle &Hyde"Pretending they are someone they are NOT untill you commit,Then h e-double- hockey sticks comes out of them?Be yourself is the only way to go or LIE forever!Just saying.



Wow! So true about lying forever. I love that you said that!

mountainwatergirl's photo
Sun 02/17/13 09:58 PM
When a man thinks gross, explicit sex jokes or terms are funny.

Angelajwilli's photo
Sun 02/17/13 10:05 PM
turn offs!!
Smokers
liars
snobs
men that look down at because occupation and my background

Angelajwilli's photo
Sun 02/17/13 10:06 PM
Edited by Angelajwilli on Sun 02/17/13 10:07 PM
turn offs!!
Smokers
liars
snobs
men that look down at me because occupation and my background

bad hygiene
texting and talking on their cellbphones.

DaySinner's photo
Sun 02/17/13 10:11 PM
I think lying turns me off most, even insignificant lies.
Especially if a woman overreacts defending herself if I bring it up.
Its a sign that communication is going to be a problem.

of course all the others...
bad hygiene
extreme weight
etc.. etc..

I like hair on a woman. I won't say where :banana:

yeanothanks's photo
Sun 02/17/13 10:11 PM
Turn OFF's:

-Submissiveness-
-Sex seeking on first date-
-Bad Style-
-Greasy Hair-

Florydyan's photo
Tue 02/19/13 07:04 PM
Oh boy do I ever know the Jekyll to Hyde thing!
I hate drunks!
Oh, I do enjoy a few beers fairly often, but obnoxious drunks are the worst thing in the world!

I'm 56 and I was married for 23 years, and its is so hard now to put up with the stupid idiosyncrasy's of people now that I am so set in my ways.

I know EXACTLY what I want and don't want, and most people fall under the "don't want" heading.

Oooh...drunks...people with tattooes all over their bodies...piercings....religious whack jobs....super fems (I'll explain if you want to know?)....

I'm almost too different to be able to connect with anybody.
Does anyone else feel like that?
You know...like your life experience has been so out of the mainstream that nobody will ever understand where you come from?

I'm a white guy and I had a black wife.
After 23 years I guess you could say I relate on that level in a far different way than you would ever expect from looking at me.

Yeah, I know that non-religious thing is a turn off to many, but you might be surprised just how old school and moral I am in my conduct, its just that I hate religion and don't need it to be a good guy.

I love comedians like Bill Maher...Chris Rock...Dave Chappelle....Lewis Black...Stephen Lynch...Christopher Titus...Ron White...

Comedians are the REAL preachers IMO...


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Tue 02/19/13 08:11 PM
number one is poor hygiene.. second is bad attitude.. third is extreme shyness

Toodygirl5's photo
Wed 02/20/13 12:23 PM
Older men, who look like, they are a few months pregnant.noway

no photo
Wed 02/20/13 12:24 PM
Men who are stuck on their past relationships, whether they're still not over them, or are so bitter/angry/cynical because of them.

Jennerling's photo
Wed 02/20/13 01:19 PM
Bigotry
Bad hygiene
humorless
snobs
gossips
fake/poser/wannabes
liars
hypocrites
naivety
narcissists
explode

no photo
Wed 02/20/13 11:52 PM

Older men, who look like, they are a few months pregnant.noway


Older women with their own spare tire that they cannot see. Even when they are pointing out someone else.

kc2372's photo
Sat 02/23/13 08:30 AM
Dirty hands & finger nails...you weren't really gonna touch me with those were you? noway

xxL4LUNCHBOX's photo
Sat 02/23/13 08:38 AM
A CHRONIC HAYFEVER SUFFERER AND DIABETIC GIRLFREIND.

WHO HATES GETTING CHOCLATES AND FLOWERS laugh

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