The last man I had dated about 8 times over a course of maybe 6 weeks, right? Well, now that I think about him, he really didnt divulge a whole lot about himself. If I didnt say something, we would basically just sit there in silence. I had to initiate all conversations and only then would he add to the conversation, but nothing too deep.

Then I found out he was a player and once I told him that i really liked him and wondered if he felt the same way, he bailed. That must be the player way? Not reveal a whole lot about yourself and let the gal do all the talking? That way, you don't have to remember all the BS you told her?

Next guy I go out with, I'm gonna keep my cards close to my chest as well. To think that I revealed so much of myself to this man, he basically revealed nothing, and that's the end of that! Why do that all over again?

Nearly all women (and men) have had similar experiences to you.

What I realised is that I needed to stay true to myself because doing anything else would be trying to be a player myself.

You haven't got a 'problem', they have!

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A woman actually admits that she talks too much?

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Its good you count your words. It would save you lots of trouble. Let the man search you out; your likes and stuffs pertaining to that. Don't just hand him over a handbook of your life.

This advice is right on target. Side note try the all around country bar in Taylor theres a lot of friendly bluecollar people there who enjoy conversation. Have fun and good luck and remember good conversation is a gateway to the soul.

Is it me, or does your photo remind anyone else of a mugshot? No, if you told a player that you liked him, he would probably start taking advantage. You probably scared this guy who seems a bit weird to begin with. Don't worry about talking too much, at most it is annoying. Plus, the truesatan wants to talk and how can miss with that

Women should stay quiet until spoken to, huh?

There is a little bit of truth in this. In no way am I saying a woman should stay quite and/or be submissive but some women do have a tendency to not shut up once they start talking. Some guys are just not into talking all that much, unless it is something they are interested in sharing.

Be careful there, your word count is getting a bit high! LOL

Pffffft.
It is they who listen too little.

Perhaps the men who want quieter women should look for the shyer, quieter women?

I was recently informed that men don't care about a woman's thoughts, accomplishments or anything else they have to say. They are simply interested in whether or not you will have sex with them.

So, I've stopped bothering them with conversation.

Ahh! After my phone call how I told him I really liked him and whether he felt the same, he just replied, "yeah, I do." I kind of pointed out things that were changing in our dating status, such as he stopped sending me cute little texts in the morning, howhe would forget to call me like he said he would, etc. Later that date, he sent me a text that said, "I think I am scared of you" and "You've got guts." We did see each other another time or two after that.

So, maybe I did scare him off with that revelation?

Think he'll ever call me again? I did text him one last time and said if you ever want to grab a drink after work, let me know.

Think he will?

Sorry probably not, because by now he is also embarrassed. There maybe somethings you could do: like go to some places where he hangs out and "run into" him. But you need to just be happy and act like nothing happen and let any conversation flow naturally.

Now that you mention it, her main image does remind me of my mug...

...err... Never mind.

Shaboom!