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Topic: I think I talk too much
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Thu 11/22/12 06:12 AM
... it is better to keep silent and let everyone think you are stupid then to open ones mouth and remove all doubt. Words i learned to live by.

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Thu 11/22/12 06:44 AM

You thought having sex with him on the very first date would make him commit? Wow. Sex is sex. Anyone can treat your body as dispoable. Am I telling you that you've been used? I am. You were obviously prepared to have sex so soon after meeting him, so..................


Judgemental much?

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Thu 11/22/12 07:45 AM


80 percent of women's conversation:

Gossip about friends, workers, and family. It just gets old after a while. I frankly don't care about other peoples business.


80%?? really?? that high?? or maybe it's just the 'age' of the girls in that percentage..?

I LOVE talking.. the last conversation I had with a man (just today as a matter of fact) was on the upcoming trends in technology and its effects on todays younger generations and how they view currency with a loss of value.. personally I have nothing to say about my friends, business associates OR family(other than as a referencing point) when I'm on a date.. I'd rather talk about current events and what makes the other tick.. (not necessarily in that order) other topics of interest stay well away from the typical mundane chatter.. my mind needs engaging before anything else..

that said.. I tend to believe talking is a good thing but engaging is key.. if he can't hold a conversation and doesn't divulge much of himself.. you could just straight up and ask if he feels uncomfortable with your chatter.. if they can't engage your mind.. why bother wasting both your and his time? but that's JMO :wink:


:thumbsup: Talking too much or not enough, sex on the first date or not.....When the connection is right, none of it matters...

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Thu 11/22/12 08:32 AM

You thought having sex with him on the very first date would make him commit? Wow. Sex is sex. Anyone can treat your body as dispoable. Am I telling you that you've been used? I am. You were obviously prepared to have sex so soon after meeting him, so..................


Hey, I never said I had sex with him on the first date, second, third, fourth or fifth. It was actually the sixth. If that makes any difference, and I thought we had a lot of chemistry going on and got along well.

So I don't know where you got the sex on the first date thing from.

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Thu 11/22/12 08:53 AM


You thought having sex with him on the very first date would make him commit? Wow. Sex is sex. Anyone can treat your body as dispoable. Am I telling you that you've been used? I am. You were obviously prepared to have sex so soon after meeting him, so..................


Hey, I never said I had sex with him on the first date, second, third, fourth or fifth. It was actually the sixth. If that makes any difference, and I thought we had a lot of chemistry going on and got along well.

So I don't know where you got the sex on the first date thing from.


Some people are very judgmental and read things that they want to read, rather than what's there. Don't worry about them. You don't need to explain the reasons you had sex to anyone.

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Thu 11/22/12 10:03 PM
Edited by Rawrr_Girl on Thu 11/22/12 10:04 PM
So I don't know where you got the sex on the first date thing from.
I read it too fast. My apologies. I do that sometimes when I'm in a rush and about to go out. frustrated. Again, I apologize. flowerforyou

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Fri 11/23/12 05:54 AM
Apology accepted.

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