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Is it time for conkers already? I thought I'd left the playground behind me years ago...maybe not
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I have to wonder why the weight issue comes up so much with men. Either men are complaining that women are too big, or in this case, that women aren't going for bigger men. Why worry so much about it? If you don't like someone because of their weight, why not move onto someone else? Or, if someone doesn't like you because of your weight, move on! We all have preferences. Not all of us will fit into everyone else's preferences. My guess is pure unadulterated laziness. Maybe a lack of a hobby. Not to mention shallow insecurity to boot. In most cases I won't see a chiseled man 6'3", muscle defined individual walk with a size 18. HELL NAH. They complain because they can. Eh, you'll find all types that will date bigger girls. Just as you'll find all types that will whine about bigger girls. |
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Edited by
Simonedemidova
on
Tue 11/06/12 11:32 AM
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I am not huge or skeletal, and I haven't had any problems meeting people in my life. In fact it was harder when I was 109 lbs because I think more men were intimidated to approach me. I have better luck as an average size woman as being more approachable. I don't search for perfect looking males either. It could funny jokes, nice smile or eyes. There are a number of factors.
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Boy, didn't realize people would get so fired up in here! I think it was a good question. Yes, people have preferences, that's true. But I've definitely been treated as "less than" because of my size, and I would hate to have someone think I treated them the same way. Looks/size, it's all fluid. Personality is what's important in my book.
The kind of looks I'm interested in are how kind a man's eyes are, and the kind of looks a man gives to a woman he loves. To me, nothing else matters. Anyhoo, just my lil ole opinion. ;) |
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lol.. Am big also but dont really have preference to a particular kind. But i know big women who dont want big men cause according to then when they have sex their big stomachs comes in the way and makes it difficult.. In my country big women want slim men cause skinny men have large privates. This is the truth. Lol. Anyways, slim, fat, not a problem for me. Oh.. You cute and is that a live dog on your pic album? What breed is it? @ poster
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Interesting insights: Plain physical attraction. Low self esteem. Breeding qualities. hypocrites . Beautiful people can be ugly inside. Ugly people can be beautiful inside... Beauty is beyond physical :) |
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