Topic: When tough dudes cry.............. | |
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Crying works for children...they have no emotional control.
Guys can and do cry....but it is only done in front of his pets...if a guy is crying in front of you...you are the one dating a pu$$y...that is the woman's fault for choosing to date some sobbing pansy. I got no idea why women cry all the damned time....apparently they can't help it.....I don't get it. Why having a vagina instead of a penis means it is okay to cry escapes me. Crying accomplishes nothing. It changes nothing. That being said....I cry like a 5 year old girl with a boo boo when I watch Extreme Makeover :Home Edition ....that is why I watch it alone. |
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There is nothing wrong with another crying... But now if either sex does it after a couple of dates shshsh what would they do if they don't get their way...
![]() Not saying I don't for I can't make it through a Lifetime movie without it happening. Or when I'm really upset ....But after a date don't work out ohhhh hell no... ![]() |
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There is nothing wrong with another crying... But now if either sex does it after a couple of dates shshsh what would they do if they don't get their way... ![]() Not saying I don't for I can't make it through a Lifetime movie without it happening. Or when I'm really upset ....But after a date don't work out ohhhh hell no... ![]() I cry when I masturbate.....I gotta use two tissues. Does that count? |
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Quit wasting the tissues....
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I ain't gonna have my dog clean up after me.....that's just wrong.
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I just took my daughter to dinner and gave her a flower shaped necklace for her 15 year old birthday. Unexpectedly I got all mushy when I explained to her I was giving her permimant flowers so they would fade away. Does that make me a wimp? If so I'm ok with that.
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Ha! I went on a couple of dates with this chick. I told her on the last date we had that we needed to be friends. She went into hysterics. She cried, was shaking, and then called me a "sumbitch" for being honest. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Like the world needs a reason for that. Still glad there is one. |
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I cry at....Funerals.........
not much else gets to me!!!!! |
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I am not into break up drama.
I make it clear what the boundries are and the consequences if you break them. I play by the rules and expect the same. If someone doesn't I am not going to scream and shout and sure as heck not going to beg anybody. Living around military communities where there are five men to ever woman you don't have to. If I break up with someone it is way past the crying thing. Generally it is total shock and awe because they come home and I am so gone they haven't a clue where I am. I have always had my own means so never been where I had to stay and take anyones BS. Over the early years I have had the whole crying, pleading, "please give me another chance" crap from a couple guys but if I have gotten to "gone" they are wasteing their time. I am not coming back and they are done. I have had one Ex that liked to have his side stuff on the road but I left him and he was ballistic for a long while; but I moved half a country away and took the kids enrolled them in school in someone elses name so he thought I was re-married years before I actually did. Here in California I had a guy with grown kids get loud mouthed in a store and I walked away and store security handled him. He sent his adult kids to plead his case, flowers, blubbering phone messages but that got him nothing but a no contact order. That really pissed me off more than made me sad. His friends/family busted his chops about it a long time. Shopping Center banned him for life. Blocked a couple scammers on their on line stuff but never actually went out with someone that went through the hole break up thing with. If I don't like someone I just stop taking the calls or they don't call me because I make it clear I don't play. When you don't put out, shack up, borrow money, accept a lot of gifts, or bring them home it is easy to bow out without drama. Even breaking up engagements a couple times you just hand them the ring and walk away. Usually they are in shock because I don't do the whole *****, piss, and moan thing and I do it in a safe public place where I can prove I gave the ring back. One time this rich bastard though he was hot stuff and I got enough of it. I handed him the ring back at his hoity toity country club and said he didn't want it. I called the waitress over to get my check, expecting to be escorted out, and the lead waitress ask if she could have it; he said he didn't care thinking I would try to get it, and she walked off with a half a carat. He tried to be pissy about it with her and the judge said she had to claim it on her taxes as a tip but let her keep it because it obviously wasn't an engagement ring with her. Which I thought was kind of funny because she paid for my meal and we ended up pretty good friends and I didn't know her from a stranger before that day. If I were to stop dating the guy I am dateing now I would not expect him to cry publiclly about it but he did cry when he took me over to see my dad's grave so it might get a little stressed. I didn't tell him about the burglury for a while and he was pretty upset about that. I tend to date guys that are HUGE "Protect and defend" types so they have learn the whole "public face" thing. |
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I just took my daughter to dinner and gave her a flower shaped necklace for her 15 year old birthday. Unexpectedly I got all mushy when I explained to her I was giving her permimant flowers so they would fade away. Does that make me a wimp? If so I'm ok with that. You all know my weird thing. GOOD DADDIES ARE SEXY. Good Daddy crying over his daughter in a tender moment, EXTRA SEXY. |
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i cry when i see my family and friends after being overseas for a long time. airports get to see my tears.lol
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Crying isn't such a bad thing...unless it's intentional and meant to manipulate. I wish I didn't cry so easily (for good things and bad things.) It's embarrassing, feels bad and trust me - I don't cry pretty.
I think I'd prefer a guy who could cry once in a while, though. I'd take it as a sign that they really cared and trusted me to see that they had sorrow. |
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Crying isn't such a bad thing...unless it's intentional and meant to manipulate. I wish I didn't cry so easily (for good things and bad things.) It's embarrassing, feels bad and trust me - I don't cry pretty. I think I'd prefer a guy who could cry once in a while, though. I'd take it as a sign that they really cared and trusted me to see that they had sorrow. ![]() |
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I have had two dudes (big tough dudes) cry when we broke up. Both times, I just sat there not knowing what to do. I mean we were breaking up so I didn't think it was right to hug them. I didn't feel horrible. I just felt awkward. I just didn't know what my reaction should be. What should I have done? Guys, do you feel awkward when some chick bursts into tears? TL tough guys wouldn't cry in front of a woman unless of course in the midst of breaking up she was hitting them with with a non-lethal object |
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