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Topic: Strong morals.
MindfreakMandy Joined Sun 08/29/10 Posts: 269	Tue 09/04/12 11:01 AM Edited by MindfreakMandy on Tue 09/04/12 11:07 AM
I want people with strong values and morals to chat here! That means people who would only have sex if they're in a relationship with someone they love. This is for people who are against that "open relationships" crap, one night stands and friends with benefits! This is for people who would never cheat on their partners or do anything sexual or cross emotional boundaries with someone who is in a relationship!!!

prashant01 Joined Wed 05/06/09 Posts: 14148	Tue 09/04/12 11:15 AM
Ok,I'm here!

MindfreakMandy Joined Sun 08/29/10 Posts: 269	Tue 09/04/12 11:17 AM
Hello! Welcome!

prashant01 Joined Wed 05/06/09 Posts: 14148	Tue 09/04/12 11:22 AM
Thanks,any thing special?

TBRich Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 8232	Tue 09/04/12 11:29 AM
I never cheated in any relationship, however when not in a relationship, I have "fallin' in love, for one night" on many occasions. Where does that leave me?

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48948	Tue 09/04/12 11:29 AM
I want people with strong values and morals to chat here! That means people who would only have sex if they're in a relationship with someone they love. This is for people who are against that "open relationships" crap, one night stands and friends with benefits! This is for people who would never cheat on their partners or do anything sexual or cross emotional boundaries with someone who is in a relationship!!! What morality standard are you using to determine right from wrong?

MindfreakMandy Joined Sun 08/29/10 Posts: 269	Tue 09/04/12 11:30 AM
Common sense.

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48948	Tue 09/04/12 11:32 AM
Common sense isn't a morality standard, because it is quite subjective.

MindfreakMandy Joined Sun 08/29/10 Posts: 269	Tue 09/04/12 11:34 AM
Well what do you want me to say? My morals have nothing to do with religion, nor were they imposed on or taught to me by my family.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Tue 09/04/12 11:37 AM
Common sense. You think you have more common sense because you wait longer to have sex? And those who have sex with people they're not in love with have less common sense? What if they don't cheat on their partners? Does that give them an edge? What are you basing this common sense on? Your own moral standards?

prashant01 Joined Wed 05/06/09 Posts: 14148	Tue 09/04/12 11:42 AM
hell,I thought, mandy would gift me some cold drink at least!!

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48948	Tue 09/04/12 11:48 AM
Well what do you want me to say? My morals have nothing to do with religion, nor were they imposed on or taught to me by my family. So, does this mean that your version of strong morals is completely self-made?

MindfreakMandy Joined Sun 08/29/10 Posts: 269	Tue 09/04/12 11:50 AM
Yes. And nobody has any business getting uptight and being on this thread if they have a problem with my morals. I want someone to tell me ONE negative thing about them.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Tue 09/04/12 11:57 AM
Yes. And nobody has any business getting uptight and being on this thread if they have a problem with my morals. I want someone to tell me ONE negative thing about them. They work fine for you and that's great. Why be negative toward others, though?

MindfreakMandy Joined Sun 08/29/10 Posts: 269	Tue 09/04/12 11:58 AM
Yeesh, I just wanted to find like-minded individuals to chat with. And what's good about cheating?

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48948	Tue 09/04/12 12:07 PM
Yeesh, I just wanted to find like-minded individuals to chat with. And what's good about cheating? You say that you want a conversation with people with strong morals, and yet, your morality standard is self-made, which means that nobody else will have a morality standard just like yours.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Tue 09/04/12 12:09 PM
Yeesh, I just wanted to find like-minded individuals to chat with. And what's good about cheating? Who said there was anything good about cheating?

MindfreakMandy Joined Sun 08/29/10 Posts: 269	Tue 09/04/12 12:09 PM
But there are others who share my values. Nothing in life is 100% original.

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48948	Tue 09/04/12 12:23 PM
Allow me to illustrate how subjective one's self-made morals can be. I want people with strong values and morals to chat here! That means people who would only have sex if they're in a relationship with someone they love. The above-quoted statement implies that it is acceptable to have sex with someone to whom you are not married as long as you love that person. Yet, such out-of-wedlock sexual activity is not considered to be moral by some people who have a different morality standard, people who also claim to have strong values and morals. So, are both types of morality standard acceptable on this thread?

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Tue 09/04/12 12:25 PM
I never cheated in any relationship, however when not in a relationship, I have "fallin' in love, for one night" on many occasions. Where does that leave me? In the "Sinner's Pit" with the rest of us.