Topic: I wanna know if I'm ugly?
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Wed 08/29/12 04:02 AM
Am I ugly? Please be honest.

Ladywind7's photo
Wed 08/29/12 04:17 AM
flowerforyou NO, not even close to ugly. Are you hearing this....YOU ARE GORGEOUS. You may need to work on your self confidence. Be gentle with yourself, all sorts of things must be going on in that head of yours because of your bf issue. You will be ok.

Kaleijoscope's photo
Wed 08/29/12 04:22 AM
YES...

YOU

ARE...



right to ask this question..because minglers can tell you, you are attractive,yes you are!,and hope that you gain more confidence..welcome to mingle2!

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Wed 08/29/12 06:44 AM

flowerforyou NO, not even close to ugly. Are you hearing this....YOU ARE GORGEOUS. You may need to work on your self confidence. Be gentle with yourself, all sorts of things must be going on in that head of yours because of your bf issue. You will be ok.


I'm really not use to this kind of exposure, I never been on forums especially on a dating site. And you are right. So many things is in my head that I couldn't sleep, eat and think. I know I have low self esteem as well. But in real life, I always pretend like I'm confident and no one could tell how deeply wounded I am. The truth is I really want to focus on my job. But its so hard when I could only think of my BF...

Ruth34611's photo
Wed 08/29/12 07:10 AM
No.

Totage's photo
Wed 08/29/12 07:35 AM

Am I ugly? Please be honest.


Who cares? Look around you, you'll notice that women are attracted to all kinds of types. Ugly is subjective.

But, you have to like you for you. If you can't do that, fix the issues preventing from doing so.

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Wed 08/29/12 08:34 AM



Who cares? Look around you, you'll notice that women are attracted to all kinds of types. Ugly is subjective.

But, you have to like you for you. If you can't do that, fix the issues preventing from doing so.



I'm really trying to fix myself up and be a strong character, but its so hard. I really don't know what to do. How can I change myself... I'm really am lost in life. I just wanna focus on my job, foreal tho. I just can't keep a straight mind. My thoughts tend to shift to old memories that hurts. I need help. I barely can sleep. And I really feel bad because this isn't the right place for this kinda topic and I feel like writing a whole page. I dunno I think I need some kinda help.

Totage's photo
Wed 08/29/12 11:04 AM
There's nothing wrong with seeking professional help, if you feel that is what is needed. Sometimes we can't always see what is wrong, or know how to fix it on our own.

Nobody is perfect, we all have our issues. Sometimes we can deal with them on our own, sometimes we need help.

There's nothing wrong with enjoying your job or anything, but if you're using it as a coping mechanism and a way to escape your problems, then it's not any better than an addiction to drugs.

Ladywind7's photo
Wed 08/29/12 11:36 AM
Some can move on really fast, some take longer. It is not wrong to be a mess right now. Your love for your bf was genuine and you are suffering the loss. If you have had 3 days without sleep it is imperative to see your doctor so you can cope. Be honest

pyxxie13's photo
Wed 08/29/12 01:26 PM
You will be what you want to be. Everyone will have opinions...however, what you feel inside is what matters.

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Thu 08/30/12 06:20 AM
I just want to say thank you to everyone that is helping me through my difficult time. I'm glad I join this community, you guys are awesome. Hopefully I'll make some new friends and new memories here as well. Again I just wanna say Thanks.

Totage's photo
Thu 08/30/12 07:57 AM
You'll be OK. It's just going to take time for you to heal is all. In the meantime, have some fun and try to smile a little.