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Topic: long distance relationship
kandyandy Joined Mon 08/20/12 Posts: 37	Wed 08/22/12 05:24 AM
Is it posible thAt I can find a marrage partner thousands of miles away?

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Wed 08/22/12 05:35 AM
Anything is possible. It is really hard to do though. Make sure you have really good communication with each other and good luck.

kandyandy Joined Mon 08/20/12 Posts: 37	Wed 08/22/12 05:40 AM
Thanks Ladywind

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Wed 08/22/12 06:23 AM
Absolutely! I spent 2 years getting to know a fine woman on this site. In 4 days, I am loading up and driving 2,200 miles to leave my lonely life behind and start a new life with love and companionship in a beauiful place. Make no mistake...it takes patience and alot of work and communication but, it can be done.

Mikey117 Joined Mon 11/20/06 Posts: 23736	Wed 08/22/12 06:28 AM
I agree with Krupa it can happen but it takes alot of time and effort. Ive been in a couple that didnt work out and now I see a lady that lives in the same state as me and its so much easier to get along!!

kandyandy Joined Mon 08/20/12 Posts: 37	Wed 08/22/12 06:40 AM
Wow! You people are awesome and great very incouraging indeed. I will be petient enough and do what I have to do

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Wed 08/22/12 11:30 AM
Yes. There are couples here who have proved that an LDR can work.

josie68 Joined Mon 11/22/10 Posts: 6270	Wed 08/22/12 02:42 PM
Yep, just listen to everything everyone else has said, and as long as you are both prepared to do the work to keep your relationship alive, it can work.

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Wed 08/22/12 03:05 PM
It takes dedication to each other. Very possible.

Precious-Man Joined Thu 10/13/11 Posts: 88	Wed 08/22/12 04:26 PM
Yep the big men and women has said it all

Mirage4279 Joined Sat 09/04/10 Posts: 2466	Wed 08/22/12 04:32 PM
Tried it a coule times has not worked so far. Conviced the theory is sound though.

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45399	Wed 08/22/12 04:38 PM
Tried it a coule times has not worked so far. Conviced the theory is sound though. Dude! Long time no see :-) ~~~ You must be both trusting and trustworthy to sustain a long distance relationship.

pyxxie13 Joined Wed 09/28/11 Posts: 3835	Wed 08/22/12 04:40 PM
It has been said over and over.. It is possible. Be patient.

Mirage4279 Joined Sat 09/04/10 Posts: 2466	Wed 08/22/12 04:47 PM
Tried it a coule times has not worked so far. Conviced the theory is sound though. Dude! Long time no see :-) ~~~ You must be both trusting and trustworthy to sustain a long distance relationship. Yeah My laptops got stolen , but I am back. Yeah I actually kind of am pretty dedicated close family, relationships, school, and a few other areas... pretty simple and dull but straight forward. Payed off a couple times though I will say that. Do I get brownie points with you for that

bastet126 Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 15553	Wed 08/22/12 05:26 PM
i've seen it work, and i've seen (and had) it end miserably. it needs a strong foundation of discovery from a distance. the ONLY way you will come to know someone is over time, the truth, the real, always sustains or comes out. so give it time, make sure you're on the same life path (that's critical), and always, always, trust in your patience. good luck!

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Wed 08/22/12 05:34 PM
i've seen it work, and i've seen (and had) it end miserably. it needs a strong foundation of discovery from a distance. the ONLY way you will come to know someone is over time, the truth, the real, always sustains or comes out. so give it time, make sure you're on the same life path (that's critical), and always, always, trust in your patience. good luck! Perfectly stated.

Ghostrider2u Joined Thu 05/17/07 Posts: 6953	Wed 08/22/12 06:11 PM
Patience, Trust......and an awesome unlimited phone plan...... and I believe it can work.

kc0003 Joined Fri 05/11/07 Posts: 26382	Wed 08/22/12 06:22 PM
Patience, Trust......and an awesome unlimited phone plan...... and lotion, keep plenty of lotion on hand....so to speak

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Wed 08/22/12 08:00 PM
Patience, Trust......and an awesome unlimited phone plan...... and lotion, keep plenty of lotion on hand....so to speak But....spit is cheaper....(tough economy...just pointing out the obvious)