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Cheating is a good sign of "that was not the right person for me". It is a painful thank you.
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Guys...and this is the foundation on how men turn into players. Since men aren't emotional creatures as much as we are, they are told to hold it in. Their fathers, their friends mostly. When they finally get out how they feel that's when they deal with it, learn to move on and to trust again.
Lorena Bobbit was just doing what we were all thinking.  
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I think women are more likely to be culturally encouraged to be forgiving and 'stand by your man' kind of stuff men are more likely to be encouraged to just collect as many women as possible who want to please them,,, I think men are more likely to find women expendable than vice versa,,,just seems to be that way mostly,, but not always,,, so I think it comes down to actual LOVE women fall easier and more often, as they are trained to desire that one mate where as men fall less often as they are mostly trained to hunt and be pleased by women,,, and love is about GIVING As much as taking so, yeah, Id say when LOVE is actually involved,, there is probably not much difference but women just tend to love more deeply and quickly than men I think good love is like a good diet,, some people are in tune with their hearts enough to recognize what is right for them, just as some are in tune with their bodies to know what is right for them I think that is more the exception than the rule, but I think it does happen so, yeah, it takes me some time because of past bad choices I dont believe I am good at knowing whats right for me romantically/emotionally,,,,so the precaution causes a slower pace but I do believe I could run into someone who knows their heart well enough to know fairly quickly that I was 'right' for them, although it would chase me away if they expressed it too quickly or forced it upon me before I felt comfortable,,, |
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Lorena Bobbit was just doing what we were all thinking.
 How is it right to take something {his penis} that don't belong to you.
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Lorena Bobbit was just doing what we were all thinking.
How is it right to take something {his penis} that don't belong to you.
lol,, well, technically his penis belonged to HIM,,,, |
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Edited by
josie68
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Sun 08/12/12 01:06 PM
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Lorena Bobbit was just doing what we were all thinking.
How is it right to take something {his penis} that don't belong to you.
Hmm well technically I think my mans penis belongs to me, so if he tries to give it to someone else it is my duty to take it back, so cutting it off wouldnt seem like a bad idea  
But as for cheating, I never expected my husbands to cheat, they did and it hurt. But for me it was easier to smile and keep on going, not because I was coping better, just because there is no point looking back. So I picked myself up, took my kiddies and made a new happy life. It's always easier to move on if you can leave the rubbish behind. I think that we all cope differently but male and female both end up hurt. |
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Lorena Bobbit was just doing what we were all thinking.
How is it right to take something {his penis} that don't belong to you.
Hmm well technically I think my mans penis belongs to me, so if he tries to give it to someone else it is my duty to take it back, so cutting it off wouldnt seem like a bad idea
But as for cheating, I never expected my husbands to cheat But for me it was easier to smile and keep on going Well this will give Mr. Anacondaarms something to think about on those late Thursday nights out playing cards with the boys. Just Kidding. 
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It is the male species natural instinct of survival to procreate, so whenever they come across a female who is willing and able to ensure their continuity of lineage, they will not hesitate to spread it around. This is not called cheating in the animal kingdom, so why should we be any different from them? Oh yeah that's right...because we discovered a thing called morals.
Discovery channel is very educational...i recommend you watch it 
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Who takes it harder?
The loser who wasn't good enough and thought they could get by on not trying harder. Lorena Bobbit should have been drug out...shot in the skull and draped across a barbed wire fence for the buzzards to feed off of. |
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Lorena Bobbit was just doing what we were all thinking.
How is it right to take something {his penis} that don't belong to you.
Hmm well technically I think my mans penis belongs to me, so if he tries to give it to someone else it is my duty to take it back, so cutting it off wouldnt seem like a bad idea
But as for cheating, I never expected my husbands to cheat But for me it was easier to smile and keep on going Well this will give Mr. Anacondaarms something to think about on those late Thursday nights out playing cards with the boys. Just Kidding.
HMMMMMMM no more card games for you two.. 
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I wish the bobbitt thing would go away
It was extreme to say the least what she did, and i find nothing laughable about that. |
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You got my respect Darling.
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I have another answer to the op question
the one who takes it harder is the one who has invested the most/lost the most whatever the gender,,, |
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Men.
Women get upset and hurt but can usually be coerced into a smile in short enough time by their friends and family. But most men on the other hand have total freak outs and go on some sort of binge or another and are usually avoided by their fellow men just in case their "dumpability" is contagious. |
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I wish the bobbitt thing would go away It was extreme to say the least what she did, and i find nothing laughable about that. sorry I don;t even know who she is, or what exactly happened, I was just joking. 
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I think when someone cheats it is the victim that takes it the hardest because they are the one that was really invested while the cheater doesn't give a hang about anyone but themself. Gender has very little to do with it. Wat bothers me is what it does to the innocents, the children, that get caught in the crossfire.
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I think when someone cheats it is the victim that takes it the hardest because they are the one that was really invested while the cheater doesn't give a hang about anyone but themself. Gender has very little to do with it. Wat bothers me is what it does to the innocents, the children, that get caught in the crossfire. true the more invested, the more lost there are those who are just in it for the physical thing that can easily be replaced, so the 'cheater' doesnt really hurt them so much as give them an excuse to move to something newer and fresher,,, |
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Gender don't have anything to do with it. Depends on the nature.
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