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Topic: long distance love
Ybrahym Joined Fri 07/27/12 Posts: 6	Sun 07/29/12 04:20 PM
Nothing is impossible when there is love, love knows no distance, races, or anything. Its like a bee sting at the beginning and when it manifest fully it becomes incurable disease, the stigma of love unraveled the misery and mystery of human soul. In love nothing is an obstacle, the longest distance becomes the closest when love come to play. Let talk about love

Ybrahym Joined Fri 07/27/12 Posts: 6	Sun 07/29/12 04:36 PM
Love is too expensive and with biases, it takes no excuses. When it arrest it victims, the victim became blind to is partner differences. I dont want to love cos i'm scared of it pain, just wanna have fun. Its too expensive to comprehend what it means by love

ezas123 Joined Thu 07/05/12 Posts: 271	Sun 07/29/12 04:48 PM
iam sure it can be done, if yoy care enough & the trust is strong.. i'd miss her tho..

blueeyes2000 Joined Thu 11/08/07 Posts: 1517	Sun 07/29/12 06:00 PM
So, quite a few people say they CAN work, but how many have actually tried one?

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Sun 07/29/12 06:06 PM
So, quite a few people say they CAN work, but how many have actually tried one? In approximately 4 years if that is my fate I will move to be with her. But then it won't be long distance anymore, will it?

Godiva Joined Tue 12/09/08 Posts: 5330	Sun 07/29/12 06:07 PM
So, quite a few people say they CAN work, but how many have actually tried one? I have.

blueeyes2000 Joined Thu 11/08/07 Posts: 1517	Sun 07/29/12 06:14 PM
So, quite a few people say they CAN work, but how many have actually tried one? In approximately 4 years if that is my fate I will move to be with her. But then it won't be long distance anymore, will it? Would hope not,lol good luck with that

blueeyes2000 Joined Thu 11/08/07 Posts: 1517	Sun 07/29/12 06:14 PM
So, quite a few people say they CAN work, but how many have actually tried one? I have. Was it hard?

markc48 Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 5536	Sun 07/29/12 08:13 PM
Well that would definitely have to be an open relationship.

metalwing Joined Fri 11/14/08 Posts: 26218	Sun 07/29/12 08:19 PM
So, quite a few people say they CAN work, but how many have actually tried one? I've had a couple that worked just fine. They ended for reasons unrelated to distance and were still good to the end.

vw5555 Joined Sun 07/08/12 Posts: 2	Sun 07/29/12 08:26 PM
I have they ask after three emails for money and were talking 4500.00 bucks no way and they lie in there profile where they live not in the USA, I mean after only two emails that's crazy and my freinds who I trust said the same thing.

josie68 Joined Mon 11/22/10 Posts: 6270	Sun 07/29/12 10:21 PM Edited by josie68 on Sun 07/29/12 10:22 PM
So, quite a few people say they CAN work, but how many have actually tried one? I have, and it's hard, but what relationship isn't. If you find someone who is just right for you, I would rather be apart for awhile, then be close to someone who is a pain in the butt.

Monier Joined Sat 03/17/07 Posts: 3337	Sun 07/29/12 11:24 PM Edited by Monier on Sun 07/29/12 11:24 PM
Long Distance is so hard, especially when you miss them so bad and you care for them, but just can't drop your life to go be with them. Honestly, no matter how far they are, if you think they're worth it, some how oneday will work itself out.

Simonedemidova Joined Mon 11/15/10 Posts: 8952	Tue 07/31/12 11:04 PM
Well that would definitely have to be an open relationship. That's what I said and then he dumped me. So there is your answer!

Mended1 Joined Thu 02/12/09 Posts: 270	Tue 07/31/12 11:34 PM
its definatly works.. Best if both parties are matured in both age and mind, specially if you ready for marriage. Constant communication is the key, phone calls, text messages, chats online, and willingness for one of you to relocate. As for the hugs and kisses and hand to hand walks.. You will definately have all the time to do that when you finally together.

Rawrr_Girl Joined Sun 10/04/09 Posts: 4431	Fri 09/07/12 05:31 AM
I wouldn't bother giving them money until I'd met them face to face. I can't believe people are so rude that they ask for money. If they want money, they should get a damn job. Don't expect everyone else to do your dirty work for you. Don't pay anyone else any money. I'd probably figure they were dodgy if they started asking me for any. I've never met anyone long distance to even consider a long distance relationship. So I can't know how it feels.

wolfchic Joined Wed 09/26/07 Posts: 8036	Fri 09/07/12 07:44 AM
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Duttoneer Joined Sun 07/01/12 Posts: 4976	Fri 09/07/12 07:46 AM
Sorry to hear of your loss. I know it is too late for you now, but I believe some airlines will sell you a ticket in your country for an inward flight, and if the seat/ticket is not used they will give give you a full refund. You would need to investigate it, and if you find you can,you would save yourself the financial loss should it happen to you again with someone else. Wishing you good luck in the future.

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Fri 09/07/12 08:13 AM
Tried the LDR many times and has never worked.

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Fri 09/07/12 10:21 AM
i know it CAN work. but how offten does it? and how long untill the distance becomes too much?.. Rarely, it has a better chance of working if the relationship is already established. Trying to build a relationship long distance is almost impossible. I guess you could consider the one I'm in now long distance, we're an hour apart, but we do see each other when we have time. It will work though. I'm planning on moving and where I plan to move will be closer to her, so things will get better.