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Have you ever made a decision that you knew you felt was right for you but you felt doubtful in actually going through with it? Do you listen to that voice inside your head that just says "Do it?" Yes all the time. Sometimes things work out even better than you'd expect, and other times not so good. But phuck it, life's too short. I'm in a similar situation myself at the moment. My head is telling me to stay in Ireland and keep studying but my heart is telling me to grow some balls and book a one way flight out of here. Ooh I have  
  bout time
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Glad to see you're the same sweet guy Krupa! I don't really like to be the center of attention in any arena so I pretty much lie low wherever I am. I figure the right one will spot the diamond in the rough, no need for me to throw up a spotlight and advertise the wares. Sometimes being unnoticeable can draw the ones that see beyond the obvious, the ones that appreciate the subtle details, although I suppose this is just an assumption. 
So...the problem with your theory is...this is Earth. Guys here ain't that bright. Your assumption would be valid if you were hoping to bag a romance novelist...but, those are chicks or gay dudes. Trust me on this...as a man...I can absolutely say with 100% certainty...sometimes, we do need you to shine a spotlight on your stuff and smack us upside the back of the head saying "HEY!!! RIGHT HERE!!! COME AND GET YA SOME LOVE!" All the guys who think I am wrong are single...I bet my penis on it. You are a hot bisquit Babydoll...advertising works. I could wrangle you up some meat if you are too shy to put the moves on someone. :) Krupa the meat wrangler! It's got a nice ring to it... 
So what you're saying is I should head to the bar sporting a t-shirt that says "Your chance of bagging me tonight is directly proportional to the number of Goldschlager shots you buy me!"   
I can find a piece of meat on any given night if I want, it's finding a whole damn man with heart intact that seems to be causing me issues! 
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If I over think something, all I do is make myself have panic attacks. I try to weigh everything and then I just do it. I decided to buy a car and I set here for 2 weeks stressing IF I really wanted to spend the money. My mom gave me some very good advice...you have always wanted a new car and you have the money, just do it and then you will have something nice to show for your money..if not you will just p*ss is it in the wind. So I just got up one morning and went car shopping and bought a car---then I stressed for spending so much money!!!!
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Have you ever made a decision that you knew you felt was right for you but you felt doubtful in actually going through with it? Do you listen to that voice inside your head that just says "Do it?" Yes all the time. Sometimes things work out even better than you'd expect, and other times not so good. But phuck it, life's too short. I'm in a similar situation myself at the moment. My head is telling me to stay in Ireland and keep studying but my heart is telling me to grow some balls and book a one way flight out of here. When you're thinking about it again, would you have regrets if you went through with it? No regrets Audrey. Life is what we make it. I can't hang around here just cause my friends don't want the same things as I do. The way I see it is, if I don't try I'll never know. If things don't work out, well at least I tried 
Imagine living in the same place, surrounded by the same features everyday and nothing changes? This is what I fear most. I prefer to be optimistic, it pays off. I don't need to imagine cause that's exactly what I live with now. I need to spread my wings and I'm ready for what ever happens next 
It's a bit like throwing caution to the wind if you're not familiar with taking big risks. Personally, I've gotten better at the risk part. The important thing is just to get it outta my head and execute it. |
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Have you ever made a decision that you knew you felt was right for you but you felt doubtful in actually going through with it? Do you listen to that voice inside your head that just says "Do it?" I wish I listened to my gut feeling more accurately. It rarely lets me down. Thinking logically when my gut feeling seems ridiculous and then ignoring it, usually leaves me hurt in some way. |
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Have you ever made a decision that you knew you felt was right for you but you felt doubtful in actually going through with it? Do you listen to that voice inside your head that just says "Do it?" I remember asking my long term partner to move in with me but the day before he was due to move his stuff in, I had to sit him down and explain to him that I’d changed my mind. The closer it got to 'D' day, the more I was freaking out. Long story short...he was very understanding and we agreed to put off living together for a little while...he actually moved in four months later. |
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had 1000's of them, figuerd out 99% of the time your 1st instinct is riite but that dont mean i'd always follow it :(
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I have always lived by the code of attempting things that are much bigger than myself. It has taken me to extremes that I never thought posible. It has also introduced me to people who have gone much further than I have. "Doing it" has allowed me to break out or even never entering boxes that I believe would have become traps. There are tough times that comes with stepping out but if we have our meter set to positive we are able to see the good in the path.
Following that inner voice can be quite liberating. |
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I listen to my heart. The voices in my head play the tennis match...do it, don't do it, do it, don't do it...but a decision has to be made so I do what I "feel" is right. I figure if it's the wrong decision, I'll soon find out and adjust my course of action accordingly. If I follow my heart though, I'm usually happy with the outcome. This. |
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I listen to my gut...my intuition....Finally!! ...Once you reach my age, you have past experience to draw from...Everytime I ignored my inner feelings, I lived to regret it....Now I will ask for opinions from those I trust and respect, but final decisions are mine... I try not to waste time making them and, once made, I don't go back....
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I listen to my gut...my intuition....Finally!! ...Once you reach my age, you have past experience to draw from...Everytime I ignored my inner feelings, I lived to regret it....Now I will ask for opinions from those I trust and respect, but final decisions are mine... I try not to waste time making them and, once made, I don't go back.... I think your stomach just growls a lot. Has manO been feeding you? I'll have a talk with him. |
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I listen to my gut...my intuition....Finally!! ...Once you reach my age, you have past experience to draw from...Everytime I ignored my inner feelings, I lived to regret it....Now I will ask for opinions from those I trust and respect, but final decisions are mine... I try not to waste time making them and, once made, I don't go back.... I think your stomach just growls a lot. Has manO been feeding you? I'll have a talk with him. Yeah, he feeds me 
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Have you ever made a decision that you knew you felt was right for you but you felt doubtful in actually going through with it? Do you listen to that voice inside your head that just says "Do it?" I wish I listened to my gut feeling more accurately. It rarely lets me down. Thinking logically when my gut feeling seems ridiculous and then ignoring it, usually leaves me hurt in some way. It mostly is the right one. Because only you know what's best for you. Does that mean you take more chances based on your instincts? |
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Have you ever made a decision that you knew you felt was right for you but you felt doubtful in actually going through with it? Do you listen to that voice inside your head that just says "Do it?" I wish I listened to my gut feeling more accurately. It rarely lets me down. Thinking logically when my gut feeling seems ridiculous and then ignoring it, usually leaves me hurt in some way. It mostly is the right one. Because only you know what's best for you. Does that mean you take more chances based on your instincts? I calculate my risks. |
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No regrets Audrey. Life is what we make it. I can't hang around here just cause my friends don't want the same things as I do. The way I see it is, if I don't try I'll never know. If things don't work out, well at least I tried
I agree.. its better try and fail than not at all
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I listen to the voice in my head.
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