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Thank you kind sir for the warm welcome and laying out the rules. Yes, I have multiple voices screaming loudly in my already addled brain but the imaginary shrink says it's nothing to worry about since I don't listen to anybody anyways. 
Actually I've been on this site for years now, just haven't been around in awhile and don't post much even when I am. I'm more of the lurker type, hiding in the shadows and hoping to spy a possible accomplice to share my crazy life with. Hasn't happened yet but I believe in miracles so I'm not giving up hope. 
Soooooo....post more. Shake that love maker and get noticed! Blending into the shadows is great if you need to be a ninja....not so great when attemping to be noticed for the beautiful woman that you are. Just sayin.... :) Krupa has a point here. Well maybe not too much of the booty shakeing but cutting up a little to show the fun side helps keep you from being invisable and growing old that way. Relationships usually have and easier start up if things are introduced on an "up" note like a smile or something else pleasant? |
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Sometimes you have to be ruthless, put your feeling aside and do what's best. A woman may be in love with a man that beats her. Does that mean should stay with him? Nonsense. She'll be better off in the long term by removing him from her life even if it does break her heart. Scoundrel is RIGHT ON THE MONEY here. If someone is toxic in your life you have to get rid of them even if it goes against the grain with your feelings, your friends or families approval, or generally society. This can be a lover, boss, physician, or even someone that looks to others to be the perfect whatever. Sometimes it even means taking a few steps backwards in your life but if it means you can leap forward... go for it. |
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Have you ever made a decision that you knew you felt was right for you but you felt doubtful in actually going through with it? Do you listen to that voice inside your head that just says "Do it?" All the time. Sometimes I over-think things to death so depending on how loud my 'inner voice' is screaming at me, I usually just go for it and see what happens..whatever doesn't kill ya... |
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Have you ever made a decision that you knew you felt was right for you but you felt doubtful in actually going through with it? Do you listen to that voice inside your head that just says "Do it?" i let my other head do all my thinkin 
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Have you ever made a decision that you knew you felt was right for you but you felt doubtful in actually going through with it? Do you listen to that voice inside your head that just says "Do it?" I had it recently. |
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Have you ever made a decision that you knew you felt was right for you but you felt doubtful in actually going through with it? Do you listen to that voice inside your head that just says "Do it?" WOW!! I can't believe I came across this topic as is pertains to something significant to to what's happening in my life right now. First of all, I don't mean to rain on anyone's parade. I did have a life-altering decision to make and I followed my heart instead of listening to the doubtful voices inside my head (or was that my gut feeling?) I think I wanted it to be possible if I followed my heart, and I was just thinking as a pessimistic, as usual. Shouldn't I already know that the pessimistic voices are usually right? When will I begin listening to my gut? By now you realize my decision based on my heart's opinion, unfortunately, led me down the wrong path. 
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Have you ever made a decision that you knew you felt was right for you but you felt doubtful in actually going through with it? Do you listen to that voice inside your head that just says "Do it?" Yes all the time. Sometimes things work out even better than you'd expect, and other times not so good. But phuck it, life's too short. I'm in a similar situation myself at the moment. My head is telling me to stay in Ireland and keep studying but my heart is telling me to grow some balls and book a one way flight out of here. |
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Glad to see you're the same sweet guy Krupa! I don't really like to be the center of attention in any arena so I pretty much lie low wherever I am. I figure the right one will spot the diamond in the rough, no need for me to throw up a spotlight and advertise the wares. Sometimes being unnoticeable can draw the ones that see beyond the obvious, the ones that appreciate the subtle details, although I suppose this is just an assumption.
So...the problem with your theory is...this is Earth. Guys here ain't that bright. Your assumption would be valid if you were hoping to bag a romance novelist...but, those are chicks or gay dudes. Trust me on this...as a man...I can absolutely say with 100% certainty...sometimes, we do need you to shine a spotlight on your stuff and smack us upside the back of the head saying "HEY!!! RIGHT HERE!!! COME AND GET YA SOME LOVE!" All the guys who think I am wrong are single...I bet my penis on it. You are a hot bisquit Babydoll...advertising works. I could wrangle you up some meat if you are too shy to put the moves on someone. :) |
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I'm in a similar situation myself at the moment. My head is telling me to stay in Ireland and keep studying but my heart is telling me to grow some balls and book a one way flight out of here. Just weight the risk vs. reward possibilities and ask yourself privately with no one else able to offer any suggestions... What. Do. You. Want. In. Your. Life? And that little voice inside your head and heart will probably reply with your answer. |
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Have you ever made a decision that you knew you felt was right for you but you felt doubtful in actually going through with it? Do you listen to that voice inside your head that just says "Do it?" Yes all the time. Sometimes things work out even better than you'd expect, and other times not so good. But phuck it, life's too short. I'm in a similar situation myself at the moment. My head is telling me to stay in Ireland and keep studying but my heart is telling me to grow some balls and book a one way flight out of here. When you're thinking about it again, would you have regrets if you went through with it? |
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Edited by
kc0003
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Sat 07/07/12 08:35 PM
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sometimes things work out, sometimes they don’t.
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Have you ever made a decision that you knew you felt was right for you but you felt doubtful in actually going through with it? Do you listen to that voice inside your head that just says "Do it?" many times, especially with relationships, I know that in the moment something 'felt right' to me even though logic dictated that it would not end well down the line and it rarely does I try to temper my 'heart' with some logic and broader consideration than just the moment,,, |
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I'm in a similar situation myself at the moment. My head is telling me to stay in Ireland and keep studying but my heart is telling me to grow some balls and book a one way flight out of here. Just weight the risk vs. reward possibilities and ask yourself privately with no one else able to offer any suggestions... What. Do. You. Want. In. Your. Life? And that little voice inside your head and heart will probably reply with your answer. I know exactly what I want. All along I was just afraid to do it alone. But not anymore. I have started the process and been in touch with the embassy. It's a waiting game now 
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Have you ever made a decision that you knew you felt was right for you but you felt doubtful in actually going through with it? Do you listen to that voice inside your head that just says "Do it?" Yes all the time. Sometimes things work out even better than you'd expect, and other times not so good. But phuck it, life's too short. I'm in a similar situation myself at the moment. My head is telling me to stay in Ireland and keep studying but my heart is telling me to grow some balls and book a one way flight out of here. When you're thinking about it again, would you have regrets if you went through with it? No regrets Audrey. Life is what we make it. I can't hang around here just cause my friends don't want the same things as I do. The way I see it is, if I don't try I'll never know. If things don't work out, well at least I tried
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For me, making decisions is not an issue. I make decisions easily, no fuss, no fight of voices.
What's hard for me is living with my decisions later, down the road. I am quick to decide, but my choosing is not at all the best at most times. |
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I know exactly what I want. All along I was just afraid to do it alone. But not anymore. I have started the process and been in touch with the embassy. It's a waiting game now
Good luck! I believe in you! You'll do fine.
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Have you ever made a decision that you knew you felt was right for you but you felt doubtful in actually going through with it? Do you listen to that voice inside your head that just says "Do it?" Yes all the time. Sometimes things work out even better than you'd expect, and other times not so good. But phuck it, life's too short. I'm in a similar situation myself at the moment. My head is telling me to stay in Ireland and keep studying but my heart is telling me to grow some balls and book a one way flight out of here. When you're thinking about it again, would you have regrets if you went through with it? No regrets Audrey. Life is what we make it. I can't hang around here just cause my friends don't want the same things as I do. The way I see it is, if I don't try I'll never know. If things don't work out, well at least I tried
Imagine living in the same place, surrounded by the same features everyday and nothing changes? This is what I fear most. I prefer to be optimistic, it pays off. |
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Have you ever made a decision that you knew you felt was right for you but you felt doubtful in actually going through with it? Do you listen to that voice inside your head that just says "Do it?" Yes all the time. Sometimes things work out even better than you'd expect, and other times not so good. But phuck it, life's too short. I'm in a similar situation myself at the moment. My head is telling me to stay in Ireland and keep studying but my heart is telling me to grow some balls and book a one way flight out of here. |
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Have you ever made a decision that you knew you felt was right for you but you felt doubtful in actually going through with it? Do you listen to that voice inside your head that just says "Do it?" Yes all the time. Sometimes things work out even better than you'd expect, and other times not so good. But phuck it, life's too short. I'm in a similar situation myself at the moment. My head is telling me to stay in Ireland and keep studying but my heart is telling me to grow some balls and book a one way flight out of here. When you're thinking about it again, would you have regrets if you went through with it? No regrets Audrey. Life is what we make it. I can't hang around here just cause my friends don't want the same things as I do. The way I see it is, if I don't try I'll never know. If things don't work out, well at least I tried
Imagine living in the same place, surrounded by the same features everyday and nothing changes? This is what I fear most. I prefer to be optimistic, it pays off. I don't need to imagine cause that's exactly what I live with now. I need to spread my wings and I'm ready for what ever happens next 
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Have you ever made a decision that you knew you felt was right for you but you felt doubtful in actually going through with it? Do you listen to that voice inside your head that just says "Do it?" Yes all the time. Sometimes things work out even better than you'd expect, and other times not so good. But phuck it, life's too short. I'm in a similar situation myself at the moment. My head is telling me to stay in Ireland and keep studying but my heart is telling me to grow some balls and book a one way flight out of here. Ooh I have  
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