Love at first site?

I think it happens.

I believe in attraction at first sight. But, love? It takes more.

no

real love has to develop from knowing , and sight isnt knowing,,,

I don't believe in love at first sight. I believe that it's called Lust at First Sight.

I don't think there is anyway you can just look at someone on the street and think 'I love that person. I'm going to marry them one day.' You don't know anything about them. They could be a serial killer or worse for all you know.

Love takes time.

Not for me.
A tried and true character is
all that works here.

Not exactly. If we know what we're looking for sometimes it doesn't take us long to know when we've found it though.

Lust at first sight, sure. Love at first sight, no.

Yes I do :)

I knew at first sight, that I was drawn to Gwen & she felt it also. 4 years later, we married.

Yes, but only if we're talking about babies. Have I said I love being a daddy today?

First time I saw Charlize Theron on screen, it was love at first sight....and also "no chance in hell" at first sight. But eh...I can dream.

Do I believe in love at first sight? Of course I don't. Pttf

No. I have to see what she looks like in the morning too!!!

Then.....


Maybe!!!!

Ditto

Now..
would this be with or without
your glasses on?

yes, i do..it happened to me...we met on a friday, we got married the next day,we dated afterwards..was a good ten years of marriage..so yes, i believe...

I believe in the spark!
I've personally had it happen, though I wouldn't call it love!

I really don't understand exactly how it works. You see someone and suddenly butterflies go up your stomach, you get nervous and you like freeze. Your amazed by the person and your like a deer caught in the head lights.

Problem.it doesn't make any sense because I've had it happen to girls I really didn't find attractive in the slightest. I've never talked to her before so it really doesn't make sense their. Then their are smoking hot chicks and I don't have the spark and sit their going what the heck!

Its very whack and I don't know if Ill ever understand it!

Also I've had hate at first site. Saw a chick and from the second I saw her felt "This is a bad person" and I to this day am pissed, I don't judge people. So I decided tl get to know her because I was really upset that I was judging someone without getting to know her. It was a very stupid decision we ended up in a rivalry that almost tore up a group of our friends.

Turns out she was essentially me, she was a leader, she always liked people turning to her for help and she liked always leading.

It became a competition she took control every chance she could and we got really intensely involved.

I remember being called by my church to volunteer and lead a group helping the disabled. I accepted I showed up and she had called me in sick and had hijacked my position!

It was a very dumb idea to ignore the spark. Its never steered me wrong. Every girl I've had the good spark with have been amazing women, everyone I had the bad spark with they weren't bad people we just were not compatible at all.

Then like 98% of woman I have no spark with, but that's perfectly fine!

Most people I talk to says the spark is from God!

It might be because I have had the spark for several girls who were in real trouble and when I got to know them I was able to help them..ones who were suicidal and others who were suffering from depression and others about to move and needed help moving..

All kinds of weird things when I listen to the spark!

Though I would say it isn't love! Love is eternal and is nurtured and grown not something that happens at first sight!

That is probably pheromones , outter appearance and a chemical release in the brain caused by external stimuli!

Depends on how many drinks we had the night before!!!!!